Yes I do it alot. I do it with guys that I am just beginning to get to know (test their emotional strength and social standing) as well as men I really like (challenge them to see if they are worthy of something more serious).
The key is not to bend at the beginning (in a nice way) humor her back and make it clear you are not emotionally affected by her comments. It´s better that she is bitchy than indifferent, or too nice because she feels sorry for you. So take her bitchcomments as a compliment that she is willing to challenge you.
Also a woman will be bitchy if she is attracted to you because she is scared that you might hurt her or reject her so she goes into rejection mode. If you clear those rejection obstacles and still show interest in her it will make her feel safe around you and it makes you unique amongst all other men who cry like puppies when a woman they don't know well rejects them or criticizes them.
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If that girl is anything like one of my friends, she's just doing that to show that they are different from the stereotypical girl image of 'miss prim and proper,' and that you can relax with them, just like you can when you're with your boys.
Just be up front with her and say something like, "I think I'm interested in the real you, so when you're with me, just be yourself."
... Sorry, that's really cheesy. I'm just procrastinating cleaning my room.
She probably likes you. Either that, or she's trying to confuse you.
I personally act like a total bitch to guys I like. Well, actually I go back and forth between being really bitchy and really nice.
of course they do, especially when another girl is in the running and they feel like they are better and can't understand why you don't see that. =P
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i certainly don't mean too, but I've been told that I given off pretty hostile vibes to guys actually really like, I guess sometimes I just over compensate when trying not to blush and giggle like an idiot in front of them.
Nope... when I like a guy I'm kinda shy, but I'm nice and interested. :) I'd never act bitchy. I can't see why that would work...?
yeah girls do it..act kinda bitchy to look kinda like you're top sh*t lol...
just like guys act cocky around women they are attracted to...omggggg yes yes I can't help it I act like a total bit.ch to the guy I like.
Yeah that's how I act around guys I like
I'm nice to other menthat's just the way it is
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