What does it mean when a girl looks startled, scared, or nervous when she sees you?

Question

every time I walk pass by this girl, she looks startled. We talked once, but I stopped talking to her, because she was weird.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

can be two things:

1, she probably daydreams about you so much that when you're in front of her eyes in reality she's terrified (in a good way) shocked to see u, basically shy doesn't know how to act around u, I'm 99% sure she likes you hardcore, but you probably broke her heart.

2, less likely reason but possible, depending on how much you knew each other and what games were played...feelings got hurt, that you stopped talking to her, she really must have felt heart broken and rejected by you that now she lost her self esteem around u? its happened to me, this guy toyed with my emotions and I asked him out he said no, and I was really depressed because I felt played. he led me on. and every time I ran into him in person it was like seeing your enemy or a bully, I was just literally scared (in a bad way) of him because I didn't know if he was making fun of me with his creepy smile or what game he was gonna play next. one time he flirted with a girl in front of me on purpose to put salt on my wounds. yea he was a d***. but in such situations, grls can be terrified to see such a guy from their past. if you played them or made fun of them. depends on the situation, only you know the answer.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Wow this sounds exactly like me. I dont have a lot of social skills, haven't talked to guys much because I've always been so carried away with school and I guess I am kind of weird. She's probably not scared, just nervous and doesn't know how to act around guys she likes. i'm cool with guys I dont feel anything for, but if I like you, i'm scared i'll say something dumb. So maybe scared of her feelings for you, but definitely not scared of you. And if she's as weird as me she'll probably send you an email apologizing for her behaviour because she doesn't want you to think she's stuck up. Not the greatest idea, but i'm weird like that haha. Just dont sneak up on her, and please dont walk up to her with a friend. Shy/awkward girls are not so bad, we can be a lot of fun too, if you are patient enough to get to know us.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

u stopped talking to her = her feelings were hurt. she's shocked to you see you and doesn't know how to react because you were kinda rejected her? your someone familiar to her but she doesn't know how to present herself around you cause she probably hates you now and had a crush on you at the same time.

TheDigitalSaint · Accepted Answer

You could read my shy girls article. That might be a start. She is either shy, lacks social skills or just startles easily. Give it another chance and try to engage her a bit in conversation. She might not be so odd after all.

Prof_Don · Accepted Answer

She's probably painfully shy...she'll get less "weird" as time goes on and you continue to tal k to her:-D

LizTheWeirdKid · Answer

i do that. my eyes get all big and I immediately look down. that just means we are nervous. Usually, I just get like that if I like someone.

Why did you stop talking to her? She's just shy. You just have to be patient with her so she can get over her shyness. :D

Stacyzee · Answer

Clearly she likes you.

And her "weirdness" might be her not knowing to act around you or not knowing how to be herself (around you).

She gets nervous when you're there and doesn't know how to be herself.

Give her a chance.

When she gets comfortable you will see the real her and probably like it.

swaggyperson · Answer

Well that my friend is called a shy girl crushing really hard lol <3 Even if she's weird at first don't give up.Most shy girls(like me) are awesome ... when you get to know her better there is  a 70% chance that she is a really nice person :) And for the other 30% ..well they're not that cool :D

Anonymous · Answer

Eh ..She might just be shy. She might think your a good looking guy & is nervious to talk with you. It doesn't make her weird, just not used to men giving her any interest. She might feel she's out of your leauge. Maybe she's seen you around & kind of likes you. Who knows, but don't judge her too badly. You never know what she's been through.

CatholicVirginia · Answer

She probably doesn't look startled. She's probably annoyed to see you, because you're so immature. She's not startled, scared, or nervous. She's not even hurt by your immaturity, I'm sure. She's disgusted and even contemptuous. You're misreading her.

simplythebest · Answer

Awww she's shy give her chance please it's just that her brain goes to mush wen she sees you but once she's comfortable around you and feels like she ain't getting judged you will find a different girl in your presence lol ;)

lovely649 · Answer

she probably gets nervous to talk to you or see you, so when she sees you there and she's not expecting you, she doesn't have time to prepare herself for what she's going to say or to fix her hair, etc. it startled her because she doesn't want to mess it up with you and embarrass herself because then she thinks you won't like her.

Soflacutie29 · Answer

Lol. Are you the tall, burly Paul Bunyan type? Or maybe that's just her face? Either way, she's not ready for you.

Skittlez · Answer

She sounds shy. But she could also be nervous from past experiences with guys or because she likes you or both. If you like her, you should give her the benefit of the doubt

various · Answer

She likes you and she's probably only "weird" around YOU. You should give her a chance, she's obviously shy.

Zekeandluther79 · Answer

Shy, nervousness she obviously feels so etching about you I'm not sure what

RedSmartie · Answer

She's either shy or scared of you.  But if you're not significantly lager than her or naturally mean looking, then it's probably shyness/interest.

palek · Answer

She's probably a member of PETA, and a vegan, and is convinced you touched her inappropriately in another life.

Purplelove010 · Answer

I feel the same way when  I see a guy I like. It's just shyness that's all.

Celeste96 · Answer

She probably really likes you, she's love struck haha

Anonymous · Answer

it means she has emotional issues and maybe she's intimidated by you..

Anonymous · Answer

That sounds like it might be shyness.  You might find she's less weird if you talk to her more.

jwallie · Answer

she likes you, but you've made her uncomfortable by making her out to be weird.

thisusername2 · Answer

You answered your own question. She is weird.

KittyLink · Answer

Haha you're mean! I think she likes you.

Anonymous · Answer

i wish one girl doesn't find me ugly to give me  a chance

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe she's shy and you scared her

Anonymous · Answer

It means that you should hide the duct tape

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