Girls if you catch a stranger getting a quick glance at your boobs in a public place, do you get angry?

Question

So I am guilty of checking out girls' boobs and butts in the grocery store. As a matter of fact I really enjoy going to the grocery store, because hot girls need to eat too! And there is never a shortage of girls there (I have lived in two college towns).

So if you happen to notice a random guy check you out, is it flattering? Does it make you feel good that at least somebody appreciates your curves? Or does it make you feel repulsed? Do you think it's funny?

Lets say the guy doesn't stare, because that is rude. But he gets a glance that lasts for two seconds. Then he just keeps walking.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Personally and from the way you posed the question, I think its funny.  Its just the nature of men.  Although you weeded out the guy who stares, I have to say I don't find that funny then.  While I'm not repulsed by the stare I find it incredibly rude, and even more so when you are trying to communicate with me yet you have no clue what color my eyes are because yours are trained on my chest.  I mean really grow up, you have seen breast hundreds of thousands of times!  Could you imagine if women were to stare at a mans crotch all the time?

cheerangelcharity · Accepted Answer

I feel flattered no matter who does it.  Though if the guy's ugly or old [which is very rare if he's old unless he's a pedo cause I look so young] then I feel repulsed.  Also if it's at a social place where people are expected to meet, flirt, etc. [such as a show] and all I see is a cute guy or a group of guys checking me out then I wish that they would do more than just look at me...like actually talk to me!  Though I've been getting more confident in approaching cute guys, but I'd still like it for them to make the first move.

elle1 · Answer

Um I don't really take notice, all guys check out chicks all the time, so we just get used to it and don't think much of it. lol but I had this boyfriend a few months back, (we only lasted a couple weeks, he was more a rebound bf) but every time we went anywhere, he'd be like do you realised when you walk into ... every-one turns and looks at you, and he used to point out all the guys he caught looking at me, it was kind of embarrasing that he noticed and I didn't. I'm like who cares but he always acted like it was such a bad thing.

The only time I don't like it is if it's a guy that is walking with his gf. If I catch him eye, I'll give him a deathstare and even the finger a couple of times. Because I know what it's like to be the gf, and it's not the best feeling.

avaisfree · Answer

If I'm showing cleavage then I expect to get glances as long as they're not being creepy and staring.

If it's a cute guy then I don't even mind if he stares as long as he looks away when I make eye contact. If a guy won't look away when he's caught then it very quickly starts to feel threatening.

Anonymous · Answer

i guess it depends on the way they stare, and age also! if I see a young guy my age group do it, id be flatttered! take it as a compliment. and it has to be like a nice smile and brief moment, if he's staring or a long time or makes some dirty porno comment, the only reason id get mad is because id feel insecure about myself that I'm dressed slutty which caused him to check me out...and I'm not a slut...

oh and if its some old man old enough to be my father...omggg I getttt ANGRYYYYYYYYYYY

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't really bother me to be honest. I take it as a compliment because I know I'm fine, it shows he's not blind *jk!* The only time I have a problem with it is if the guy is way older than me or is leering at me, or makes it obvious because that's just disrespectful.

Anonymous · Answer

Haha, I stare at girls boobs and butts all the time, too! Girls are beautiful, they deserve to be admired :) But I think I know how it feels to be stared at, so I try to be respectful to others.

It's really flattering if someone stares at me, but it's creepy when they gawk.

pinklady84 · Answer

It's flattering in my opinion as long as it doesn't last too long. Also don't make the stare too lecherous then it becomes offensive. All in all everyone likes to be admired for their physical attributes.

iLuhvK0tt0nKandii · Answer

I think it's funny for the simple fact guys can't help it.

chica1 · Answer

If you are looking long enough for the girl to notice...well then it is creepy.

palek · Answer

Gives new meaning to the term "check out line".

emzy-89 · Answer

i think nothing of it unless its for an extended period or is incredibly sleazy about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Well it never happens to me because I am ugly and have small boobs but I think I would be offended.

Anonymous · Answer

No since age 12 or 13 I know guys look.

Girls if you catch a stranger getting a quick glance at your boobs in a public place, do you get angry?

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