Girls, would you ever like to give your boyfriend a wedgie?

[Anonymous]

I like getting wedgies, but I'm not sure how I would tell a girlfriend about this. Would you like to do this to a boyfriend? Would you feel comfortable or uncomfortable doing it? How should I tell a girlfriend I like it, and how should I ask her to do it?

[Peter0]

Introduce yourself and her to Dan Savage's column "Savage Love." He talks about this sort of thing on a regular basis.

A general idea is "Hey, I'm kind of nervous to bring this up, so please don't be a jerk with my feelings, but I actually really like ... Do you think you'd do that with me?" If it were me, I'd tell her I'm likely to kiss her if she does ^.^

Dan's column is really good. Liking wedgies is very tame compared to some of the things that cross his desk; don't feel you're too weird!

(and a little weird is always okay)

[RattieAllgood]

I'd definitely feel weird about it - giving or receiving. If the girl you've been with is really comfortable around you, then it shouldn't be an issue, I suppose.

~ Best of luck

[Asker]

Thanks : ) Yeah I think getting to know her well first would be key, but it could ultimately be up to how comfortable she is with the act.

[Enideqa]

I would do it if my husband ask me too, I am pretty open.

[Asker]

I guess I should find a girl who is open minded then..lol

[Enideqa]

For sure