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For those who buy into the whole Alpha VS Beta male concept I have a simple question.

Was Albert Einstein an Alpha or Beta male?

Was Mohandas Ghandi an Alpha or Beta male?

Consider Einstein's life story link

Consider Ghandi's life story

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I ask because wherever I see this concept mentioned the focus is overwhelmingly on physical attributes not intelligence or political ability are ignored.

These men were both clearly leaders and did good with women...but their kind of personality traits: High intelligence, political sensibility etc

Just to add one more twist how about Alexander the Great who was bisexual yet conquered most of the known world? In most discussions it is discounted that a gay/bi man can be alpha.

Here's a question for everyone.

Let's say you have met a great person. They are nice, fun to be around, attractive, the chemistry is great. Then you find out they smoke/dip/snooze/chew tobacco. Deal breaker? Yes or no, and if you care to explain yourself, feel free to.

Personally it is one for me as I have a bit of a tobacco allergy, so it's kind of a moot point.

P.S. This isn't one of those situations ( for argument's sake) where you can get them to quit or rationalize their habit away. It's either you are fine with it or are not. They will not stop regardless of what you want.

Okay, so we were kind of friends a few months ago (definitely initiated by her). We hung out a bit, and I was pretty sure she liked me. However, sh*t happened that kind of ended up separating us for a little while.

Examples:Her phone was broken for a while and I thought she was just ignoring me...I ended up being wrong, it was actually broken). Then I blacked out hardcore one night and I thought I really embarrassed myself in front of her, so I kind of shyed away from her whenever I saw her.

However, a few weeks ago I ran into her (she had no idea that I was in the area still). We talked a little bit and she told me to giver her a call. And a few days later I obliged. I asked her out to lunch the next day and she said sure, but she wasn't sure of her work schedule and said she'd give let me know when she was free. Suffice to say, she never called.

But then about a week later she sent me a Facebook message saying that she forgot to save my number and that I should text her still. Felt like BS, I know. Anyways a few days later I obliged. I let her know that I would be busy for a few days but I told her when I'd be free.

She responded a few days later, which was fine (albeit a little nerve-racking). And we had a some text small talk (I know texting sucks, but I guess that was her preferred method of conversation). I asked her when she was free and she said Tuesday around 5.

So Tuesday 5PM arrived and I gave her a call. Nothing. Over the course of an hour and a half I called her once more and texted her twice. Absolutely nothing.

The next day in the afternoon I found that she had called me in the morning and sent me a text. Since I missed her call she texted me saying she fell asleep after work and woke up the following morning and she asked if I was free that day..

This all happened like a week ago. I haven't responded because I was pretty p*ssed. I haven't heard from her again either.

So I want to know, was she just stringing me along and trying not to hurt my feelings? Like was she just providing excuse after excuse until I gave up? Or is it possible that she actually fell asleep and after she apologized felt like it was up to me to see if I was still interested after she f***ed up.

Sorry for all the text! I just felt like providing some context would help. I just want to know if she's worth pursuing at all anymore because I actually really like her and want to tell her how I feel...but I also don't want to do that if she's been trying to avoid me.

So I am guilty of checking out girls' boobs and butts in the grocery store. As a matter of fact I really enjoy going to the grocery store, because hot girls need to eat too! And there is never a shortage of girls there (I have lived in two college towns).

So if you happen to notice a random guy check you out, is it flattering? Does it make you feel good that at least somebody appreciates your curves? Or does it make you feel repulsed? Do you think it's funny?

Lets say the guy doesn't stare, because that is rude. But he gets a glance that lasts for two seconds. Then he just keeps walking.

I wrote this song for my girlfriend, because one night when I was waiting for her to call me when she got off work, she was all that I could think about, so I started writing this, so if you could give me some feedback, that would be great!

I would walk through frozen tundra

I would climb the highest mountains

I would walk through brim and fire

Just to hold you in my arms

I will shout your name to the ends of the Earth

I will proclaim your name to the heavens

I will search for your beauty forever

I will love you always and forever

Your beauty radiating like the sun

Your hair as soft as a puppies fur

You are my world

You are my sun

Without you I am none

I would walk to the ends of the earth

just to be with you

You are my everything

You are my anything

I love you

Please stay

when I'm gone

Stick around for the ride

Love me to the end

It's coming fast

Soon enough I'll be back

in your arms

4 years past

Back for good

Stay,

Wait,

I will come back

to your arms

I love you

The ride has just begun

It is time for the adventure to start