Polls

I have a reputation. Therefore, I am a reputable source. Do you agree?

The two photos show the same building, one covered in Virginia creeper, the other recently cleared. The building is 545 years old and currently used as a tea room. Upon removing the plant cover, there was very little actual damage to the building.

As part of maintenance, the building is stripped of climbing plants periodically. So can you guess when the last clearance was? That is how many years' growth.

I asked you guys what color I should do for my 17th birthday, you chose red. The person who is customizing my dress needs inspo, I can’t find any in the red (without feathers) but here’s what I have found , what do you think?

My encounters with them they've always came across as arrogant and disrespectful. They look down upon minorities and just rude. I'm not bashing them but wondering if anyone else feels that way.

How do you tell the woman you aren't paying for her. Do you tell her before the date? Wait till the middle of the date? Wait till the check comes?

The 50/50 thing just seems so embarrassing on the man's part. I just wonder how y'all approach telling a woman you aren't gonna pay for her. It seems like something you should bring up before even going on the date

Hey guys! My 19th birthday is coming up and I need suggestions for my dress. I’m in college and the dress I get will most likely be used for (college) homecoming if I decide to go! The dress in the image is a gist of what I want. Later in the week I will be going out with friends and the images below show the type of style im going for. I will upload a picture of me, I need help deciding what color theme I will use for the week, black silver and what?

The big story today in the UK is Scotlands' plan to ban cats. A Scottish Animal Welfare Commission report called for a campaign to promote responsible cat ownership. However, The Daily Mail, in typical far right fashion, twisted it to state Scotland was looking at banning cats.

Scotland has confirmed it has no intention of banning cats. BUT should they? Cats kill millions of wild birds and animals each year, including endangered ones. If they were a wild species, then a cull would be reasonable.

Unlike America, Scotland doesn't have coyotes to keep pet cats under control.

Thoughts?

I am 24 and I feel a bit insecure about telling the guy I am dating that I haven't date anyone else before. How should I answer if he asks about whether I've dated anyone else or how many relationships I've been in? Which one is the better option?

My boyfriend just told me that he doesn’t want to have kids, after leading me to believe that he did. I am getting older and want to be a mom before I can’t. I looked into doing IVF with an anonymous donor at the sperm bank via my OBGYN. I told my boyfriend about everything and he said he will break up with me if I do that. He doesn’t want me to have his kid or some other man’s. I am just curious to know what you would do in that situation. Thank you in advance for your vote in my poll and any subsequent comments. I appreciate it.

My boyfriend led me to believe that he would have kids with me in the future. Now he says that he would never have kids with me because I have a disability. My doctors said I am healthy to carry a baby to term and all gave me the go ahead. I am getting older and want to try to get pregnant. My boyfriend said he will not have a kid with me and if I try IVF with a donor, he will break up with me. I love him, but I always wanted to be a mom. I don’t know what to do, please help!

At the end of the day do you like it when people check on you? What are some easy ways you would express your interest towards hearing about someone’s day without coming off intrusive? Do you like little thoughtful messages or what kind of thoughtful messages would you like to receive or even send? Just curious to see what different people like or would do.

This has been happening a few times on the apps recently, not as extreme as being beta per say but feels less chivalrous.

In the UK, it's common to have a 'Sunday dinner', which consists of roast meat, potatoes, and an assortment of vegetables. Quite often, far too much is cooked and so the leftovers are mixed together the next day to make 'bubbles and squeak'. Some families make it loose and stir fry it, while others form it into patties before frying.

Have you had it and do you like it?