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We are dating 3 months, we agreed to exclusively date 1 month into seeing each other.
Around 2 months we became sexual. He's very affectionate in private. He's shy and doesn't do PDA much, but will kiss/hug/hold hands during outdoor walks/hikes.

Before the first date we both said what we want and they align pretty well: marriage, kids and committed long term. This has not changed for either.

We go on dates: morning hikes, drinks at bar, afternoon dog walks etc.
He has no family so I have not met anyone, mine is very traditional (so I can't tell them about him yet), he has casually met some of my friends. He usually comes to me and we are both on tight schedules so honestly haven't felt like sharing him with other people- so we haven't really had a double dates or hanging out with friends.

I've been to his place, mostly he comes to me, picks me up and drives me to date locations, he is good at planning thoughtful dates. He pays for all the dates, and he's a little traditional.

When I brought up "where are we going?" he said he enjoys his time with me and wants to continue seeing me, and get to know me, but didn't want labels yet, I am falling for him and was a bit hurt but given we are still relatively new it seemed fair.

To me everything we do feels like a "relationship" but we are just "exclusively dating".
What are we?

The other day, the neighbor joined the other neighbor to indirectly throw shade at me. 2 years passed since but I’m still upset so I cuss out the neighbor 2 years later. I called him a bitch a stuff like that. He tried to say something while I was calling him a bitch but I was too loud. I went to apologize to my neighbor because I felt bad since we live next door. Well they had an attitude. I stalked my neighbor social media and found out he’s a racist bastard who uses the n word even though he’s white. That made me mad so I went over to their house and told him I take my apology back. All he had to say was okay.

I think I got all of them this time. But I'll let you eat your cake either way. 🍰

The risks:

• Everyone at your workplace might find out
• You might develop feelings for him
• He or you might lose your job
• He might catch feelings for you, and if you leave him he might sabotage you
• He will talk about your intimacy with other males at work, exposing you sexually
• You as a woman, will be called every degrading name in the book
• If relationship develops, he will cheat due to him being attractive
• Other females will feel jealousy or envy and try to sabotage you and steal him from you because again (he’s hot)

Pros:

• You will receive sexual satisfaction, and your sexual goals will be met.
• Your ego will be lifted momentarily because you smashed the hottest man in town.
• there's a tiny chance this individual could potentially become your future husband, soul-mate, and father to your children.
• You will be under the delusion of being in love during the time that you enjoy his presence and his attention
• It will be such an amazing experience for a while , and can completely obliterate any boredom in your life and/or depression.
• Smashing the Hot Guy at work. Could be a once in your lifetime experience. Never again to occur.

WHAT SO YOU CHOSE, YES OR NO.

Tell us your experience

Again, not meant to be taken seriously. But after my latest take about exes/zodiacs, I’m trying to see something here. I was probably the most physically hurt by a Capricorn and Aries. However, emotionally, I have noticed the heartbreakers tend to end up being the air signs AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LIBRA, and also CANCER and SAGITTARIUS. Anyone else experience this? If you’re not sure of the person’s zodiac sign, tell me their birth month or google it.

My experience-

-Cancers usually have the looks and personality. They could truly be the whole package if they allowed themselves to be. But they seem to fear commitment and I don't know why because they don’t seem like the cheating type. Maybe they just fear getting hurt so they hurt you first.

-Sagittarius will show you in so many ways that they want you. But the problem is they never only want you. You tend to be just one of the people they are after. And if you confront them about it, they will go to the lowest of lows and say the meanest things (or simply shun/ignore/avoid you) just to get out of looking like a player.

-Gemini will be all for you. But they let their insecurities get the best of them. So once you’re ready to give things a go, then suddenly they forgot they wanted to be more than friends.

-Libras are hard to understand. Just like Gemini they are all for you. Just like Sagittarius they show you they want you. Just like Cancer they have the looks and personality. But one day they’re just suddenly not interested for long. I think they miss flirting with others too much and just choose not to commit for the timebeing.

-Aquarius only want company from certain people at certain times. One minute they’re interested and the next they forget to show they still care. They want to commit but question when they should. It will drive you to leave them and then you both end up hurt from the lack of communication and not sharing one another’s love language. #FeelFreeToList

I’ve never been attracted to someone like my ex. By this i mean inside and out! I miss making out with my white ex 😔. I miss his smell. I miss it when he carry me. I miss looking into his blue eyes 💔. I miss our conversations. I miss feeling peaceful and safe on his lap. I miss everything about him. I wish if i could take him back one day! i now only want a white man like my ex so I could forget about him. I think if i was so attracted to him then i will be also attracted to my future white boyfriend like him and then forget easily about him. Because i think the worst thing is if i marry a brown guy and then I remember my white ex, nothing i could change then 😥. Should i be picky and just date anotger white man? Or am i stupid to think in this way?

Can be any form of relationships..

You guys are no more than a one night stand... she just went and got and abortion as she wasn't prepared to go through with it

She tells you a month later she had an abortion, would you be okay with it as you guys weren't in a relationship in the first place

Or a girl with a few guys