Guys, would you be upset if a girl had an abortion resulting from a one night stand - she didn't even tell you but went through with it?

[Anonymous]

You guys are no more than a one night stand... she just went and got and abortion as she wasn't prepared to go through with it

She tells you a month later she had an abortion, would you be okay with it as you guys weren't in a relationship in the first place

I would be okay

I would be upset

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[ChicoFromThe305]

Luckily I don't go for people that have one night stands, I don't consider that good news tho so whoever receives it won't be happy I'm sure.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m struggling to understand why she would tell him?

[Asker]

Well it just slipped out of her mouth

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh that’s not what I meant. If she was actually a one night stand, why would they be talking so many months later?

[Asker]

say if she found him on socials and mentions it

[BarryLiverstone]

Thinking he would be upset that she is stalking him. And if she mentions she had an abortion that’s also something he might feel shocked to hear.

[BarryLiverstone]

How many weeks in was she before she had the procedure?

[Asker]

not sure maybe 8-9 weeks it most likely will come as a surprise

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you not sure when the abortion will take place? Cause it sounded like that had occurred as you let it slip to him on socials

[linka_pat307]

I thought those who have one night stand barely know each other and never meet again so how come she tells him

[HighSky]

I would be beyond furious for her murdering my child.

Frankly I would want her charged with murder.

[Asker]

but it was a one night stand haha
she's not ur partner - it was just a one off and it is only the womans decision

[HighSky]

I would never cum inside her to begin with, and I would also use protection. So this scenario would never happen.

[HighSky]

It's not the woman's body ffs.
That is an entirely separate human being that you've decided for some screwed up reason you have the right to just murder.
Again, I would make sure she wouldn't get pregnant, and frankly I would not have sex with a woman who thinks like that anyways.
1st of all I would not finish inside her ever
2nd I would wear a damn condom.
3rd I would not want to have sex with a woman who thinks like you do.

[Asker]

but the baby is part of the womans body, so technically it is the womans body as the baby is inside her body

[Asker]

as u mentioned its good u are careful..

[HighSky]

It is not, so tell me, why is it when a pregnant woman gets punched in the stomach and the baby inside her dies that the man gets charged with murder? Clearly killing the child in the womb deliberately is murder, I can care less of what the law says.
Also answer me this why does the woman decide to punch herself in the stomach if it's just another part of her body?
Does she also have 4 arms, 4 legs?
Have you seen what an abortion is? It is the most horrific and fucked up thing you can ever do.

[Asker]

yeah i understand where u are coming from, the earliest stages are 6-8 weeks when the fetus is as tiny as an apple seed.. thats the earliest i believe u should abort if youve made that decision as its tiny cells

a woman cannot abort past 24 weeks (5 months) in the UK as this is illegal as that fetus has grown into a tiny human being and thats when we consider it murder

As you mentioned when a person punches her stomach - its like taking something from her which belongs to her, its not his to take but she can do it herself

Another way to describe it is that suicide is legal in the UK so any of us can commit suicide but we cannot help somebody commit suicide otherwise we go to jail

Thats the most I can say lol

[Asker]

also what if she's underage, or she was raped? why should she continue with a pregnancy knowing it was created from trauma

[HighSky]

"the earliest stages are 6-8 weeks when the fetus is as tiny as an apple seed.. thats the earliest i believe u should abort if youve made that decision as its tiny cells "
That is still a human being, life begins at fertilization, that is simply indisputable. So it is still the murder of a human being, it does not matter what the fetus looks like.
The human life cycle goes like this.
Zygote>Embryo>Fetus>Baby>Toddler>Child etc, these just describe the same human being but in different stages of that humans life.
A Zygote despite only being a few days old is still a human being, it does not matter that the zygote is not in human form, the zygote is still a human.
From fertilization the zygote already has the full set of 46 chromosomes, 23 from each parent. The zygote its own genetically unique DNA. The zygote is definitionally a human being, because what else would it be?
Have you not been taught this at school? You should of been taught this.
"also what if she's underage" Your age does not magically change the fact that it's still murder.
"or she was raped?" You being the victim of something does not give you the right to victimize someone else, that would be like me arguing that because someone punched me in the face once that it gives me the right to run off and punch someone else in the face.
"why should she continue with a pregnancy knowing it was created from trauma" Because she does not have the right to fix her problem by using murder. If she has a way to end the pregnancy without harming or murdering the baby then she can do that, if let's say artificial wombs existed she could put the baby in there. That does not exist yet but see how that does not involve murdering anyone?
I'm frankly done with this conversation, you are sick if you think that this is ok to do.