Do my neighbors hate me?

[Anonymous]

The other day, the neighbor joined the other neighbor to indirectly throw shade at me. 2 years passed since but I’m still upset so I cuss out the neighbor 2 years later. I called him a bitch a stuff like that. He tried to say something while I was calling him a bitch but I was too loud. I went to apologize to my neighbor because I felt bad since we live next door. Well they had an attitude. I stalked my neighbor social media and found out he’s a racist bastard who uses the n word even though he’s white. That made me mad so I went over to their house and told him I take my apology back. All he had to say was okay.

Yes he hates me

No he doesn’t hate me

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, sounds like you're having some real issues with the neighbors there. I can understand why you'd be so pissed after they were throwin' shade, but cussin' em out like that and pullin' up their socials to dig for dirt is just gonna make the problems worse, ya feel me?

When someone treats you bad, the natural instinct is to wanna fire back at 'em. But ya gotta rise above that and be the bigger person. That's the only way the beef will ever get squashed for good.

If I were you, I'd have just let the apology stand, even if they were grumpy about it. Then take the high road fully - be extra polite to em from now on, even if they're still jerks. Kill em with kindness!

Eventually they'll see they ain't gettin' under your skin no more, and hopefully respect you for keepin' your cool when they lost theirs. Or if not, least you know you stayed true and didn't stoop to their level. Ain't worth the stress otherwise, ya know?

Just do your thing and don't let their nonsense live rent-free in your head. Easier said than done, but it's the best move long run. Chill vibes only from here on out!

[Jmmmfi4]

SOUNDS LIKE YOU BOTH HAVE ISSUES

[rosemilk]

bro. take a seat. step back. and don't bother caring what other people think of you

[DryGermanGuy]

Get professional help before you deteriorate to the point of having police called on you.

[Asker]

Haha they already call the police on me and nothing comes out of it

[HelpfulWoman]

soooo they did it ONCE... and now you repeatedly bully them?
Girl, what the fuck.

[Anonymous]

Hey Karen, why don't you talk to the manager

[Asker]

I can’t be a Karen. I’m black

[SaoirseS]

You need serious help.

[Asker]

Not wrong but all of this could’ve been avoided if they hadn’t bullied me first

[LiamJHayden]

Befriend a biker gang.

[HateyouxD]

Go away