What zodiac sign did “the person who broke your heart the most” belong to?

[DizzyDesii]

Again, not meant to be taken seriously. But after my latest take about exes/zodiacs, I’m trying to see something here. I was probably the most physically hurt by a Capricorn and Aries. However, emotionally, I have noticed the heartbreakers tend to end up being the air signs AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LIBRA, and also CANCER and SAGITTARIUS. Anyone else experience this? If you’re not sure of the person’s zodiac sign, tell me their birth month or google it.

My experience-

-Cancers usually have the looks and personality. They could truly be the whole package if they allowed themselves to be. But they seem to fear commitment and I don't know why because they don’t seem like the cheating type. Maybe they just fear getting hurt so they hurt you first.

-Sagittarius will show you in so many ways that they want you. But the problem is they never only want you. You tend to be just one of the people they are after. And if you confront them about it, they will go to the lowest of lows and say the meanest things (or simply shun/ignore/avoid you) just to get out of looking like a player.

-Gemini will be all for you. But they let their insecurities get the best of them. So once you’re ready to give things a go, then suddenly they forgot they wanted to be more than friends.

-Libras are hard to understand. Just like Gemini they are all for you. Just like Sagittarius they show you they want you. Just like Cancer they have the looks and personality. But one day they’re just suddenly not interested for long. I think they miss flirting with others too much and just choose not to commit for the timebeing.

-Aquarius only want company from certain people at certain times. One minute they’re interested and the next they forget to show they still care. They want to commit but question when they should. It will drive you to leave them and then you both end up hurt from the lack of communication and not sharing one another’s love language. #FeelFreeToList

So true

Lmao!

Cancer

Sagittarrius

Aquarius

Gemini

Libra

More than one of the above

One of the other signs not listed (Taurus, Pisces, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aries, Virgo)

Updates

+1 y

Based off the answers so far, Gemini and Capricorn stay full of shit 🤣 I AM NOT EVEN SURPRISED. Geminis are indecisive af and moody. You never know who you’re gonna get. Different day, different person. And Capricorns are just verbally and/or physically abusive from my experience. I wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy! Please make sure to vote on the poll 🙌

Updates

+1 y

So based off the comments below, the tally for BIGGEST heartbreakers-
4 scorpio, 3 cancer (7 on poll), 5 Gemini (8 on poll)
4 Aries, 2 Aquarius (3 on poll), 2 Virgo, 3 Taurus,
6 Libra (5 on poll), 3 Sagitarrius (6 on poll),
7 Capricorn, 1 Leo—
Sounds like Gemini, Sagittarius, Libra, Capricorn, and Cancer are the biggest heartbreakers… lmao my predictions above (based off my own exes/experiences) came close to correct. Pisces and Leo aren't all that innocent tho lol

[dynamicyandere]

My biggest heartbreak was from a Sagittarius. ♐️


I was still attending university at the time and I noticed one day that the chemistry between my girlfriend and I seemed… Off. I noticed other signs as well, like her being on her phone and texting someone while we’re supposed to be spending time together — something she didn’t used to do. So, I tried talking to her about it. I looked her in the eyes and asked if she had feelings for anyone else. She said she didn’t. My gut told me otherwise. But, foolishly, I buried the voice of my intuition and decided to go out on a limb and trust her word. I decided to let it go.


But, eventually, I found out that she was seeing someone behind my back.


You see, I would always pick her up from places in my car. Yet, one day, she was very insistent that I didn’t come pick her up. Which was odd. She never did that. She said she was studying with friends. I thought, “What’s wrong with swinging by?” I’ve met her friends before, so I didn’t see the problem.


Turned out, she was ‘studying’ alone with a guy that didn’t know (or didn’t care) she had a boyfriend.


I really went out on a limb for this girl. Everything inside me told me not to trust her, but I trusted her anyway because I wanted to believe that she would at least have the common decency of being honest and letting me know if things weren’t working out.

The thing that really showed me her true colors is when I told her that she needed to let him know that she’s already taken. And if she doesn’t want to let him know that, then our relationship needs to end, because I didn’t sign up for an open relationship.

You know what she did?

She had the gall to say, “How could you make me choose?”

She’s was the cheater. Yet, she gaslighted me as if I was being unreasonable for having her choose between me and the guy she’s been cheating on me with. She was too preoccupied with thinking about how hard this was for her.

Meanwhile, I was about to buy her a platinum necklace as an engagement gift because I was going to propose to her that year. All of those plans went out the window that day.

She couldn’t decide what to do on the spot.

I gave her 3 days to make a decision.

3… Whole… F*cking… Days…

On day 3, she still didn’t come to a decision yet, so I went ahead and broke things off.

Shortly after (like literally less than a week) she started dating the other guy.

And in 2 months, he left her for another girl.

So, she lost a 2.5 year relationship in exchange for a 2 month relationship.

She came back, begging to be taken back. (Again, the gall, right?)

Well, I was beyond done with her at this point.


Her self-absorption became more and more clear to me with these different events — as I witnessed the way she reacted and responded.


About 4 months later, I began dating someone else.


And you know what?


She thought that I was doing it to get back at her.


Again, she was showing how, in her mind, the world revolved around her.


All that did was show me what a bullet I dodged.


What really hurt me though, is just how much trust I put in her and how I put everything on the line, only to be met with such remorseless betrayal.


As bad as this event was though, I didn’t give up on love, and I didn’t give up on women.


A couple more relationships later, and I eventually found my current S/O, who treats me better than anyone I’ve ever dated.


We’ve been together for 5 years, and are going strong.


Interestingly enough…


She too, is a Sagittarius.


Yet, I’ve never been with someone so loyal and committed to me before.


So not everyone fits the stereotypes of their zodiac signs.


There are always exceptions. 🙂


Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read my story.


Here’s a cookie. 🍪

[DizzyDesii]

I knew it! See what i said above the poll about sagittarius! Was the necklack what you’d propose with or were you already engaged? Thats so sad and crazy. I knew leos were gaslighters but damn Sag! Wow you’re with another Sag? And yea not all Sag’s are the same but im just sharing my experience with the ones i dated

[strateguy632]

now sagitarius too? i guess all 12 are expected to be awful? but you said air is problem? not sagitarius.

[DizzyDesii]

@strateguy632 Air is the main problem to ME in terms of heartbreak but i have dated all signs and seen what men from each category were capable of

[dynamicyandere]

@DizzyDesii Haha, yeah, I read your description and it sounded pretty spot on with this one ex. I had the necklace picked out and was going to buy it that week to propose soon. Yeah… What hurt the most was how I really went out on a limb to trust her, when my gut was already telling me to do otherwise. Like, I really put my faith in her and was let down. I’ve never dated a Leo before. Yeah, I’m with a Sagittarius now — but she’s been very committed so, I don’t have any worries about her. I have dated a Capricorn before though, 2 of them, and both of them were the most manipulative of everyone I’ve dated. 😅

[DizzyDesii]

Manipulative and probably verbally or physically abusive

[dynamicyandere]

@DizzyDesii Both we’re manipulative. One of them was also very verbally abusive. I dated this one in high school. If something was upsetting her in her life, completely unrelated to me, instead of venting her frustration TO me, it would be done AT me — she would take it out on me as if I was the cause. She would always blame her mood swings for her behavior or blame her PMS. I understand that PMS can make someone more irritable than useful, but that shouldn’t be a free pass to be abusive. I tried to be as understanding as I could and be patient with her.

But, one day she said she wanted to see me hurt. She wanted me to feel her pain. She wanted to literally punch me and not allow me to protect myself, to just take the hits ‘like a man’, because she wanted me to feel hurt. (I think because I was calm all the time and that was irritating to her.)

When we had that conversation, I knew that this was beyond just mood swings. This sounded like malicious intent. She wanted me to be a literal punching bag. She actually tried hitting me, but I caught her wrists and prevented her from slugging me. I was stronger than her, and that’s why she wanted me to just allow her to hit me. I even suggested buying her a punching bag or some mitts and she can hit those to get her anger out. But no, she explicitly said that she wanted ME to hurt.

At that point, there really was no more benefit of the doubt to give. I don’t know how someone can backtrack from saying something so explicitly f*cked up.

So, the next day, I broke up with her. She started balling and said she was sorry. But, sorry wasn’t going to cut it. Not this time.

[dynamicyandere]

more irritable than usual*

[dynamicyandere]

I’m a Gemini by the way. 🙃

I match some parts of my Zodiac traits, but not all.

I’d say most notably, it would be having multiple sides to me (hence ‘dynamic’ in my username). It has helped me a lot socially though. I almost always have a way to relate to someone and bridge gaps, whether that be common interests or just the ability to understand and see different perspectives. I’ve been the best friend of multiple people, but few have been my best friend, because I’m very particular with who I let close to me. I’m quite calm though, so even though I many sides to me, when I ‘switch’ it’s usually quite intentional and deliberate.

As for breakups, all but one were initiated by me.

So, I guess, in that sense, I may be a ‘heartbreaker’.

But, it’s never out of nowhere. I always try to communicate, give warnings, and give chances.

I stay unless for some reason, I can’t see a fulfilling future together.

Which, almost always has been due to some unresolved relationship issue (lack of cooperation) or irreconcilable differences (lack of chemistry).

I’m been called the best they’ve had by multiple exes, even been called the one that got away.

But, I’m very particular though. I have high, non-superficial, standards and am not afraid to walk away.

[DizzyDesii]

Not you offering to buy her a punching bag 😄😂 you shouldve told her you’d print your face on it lol. I love your description of a Geminini. And usually y'all are the ones that gotaway because you show us you want us but then act like you just wanna be friends in the end. Its confusing

[dynamicyandere]

@DizzyDesii Lol, I like that. That would have been a nice witty suggestion.

She wouldn’t have accepted that answer though. She was too dead set on being legitimately abusive. 😅

Thanks!

Hmm. I could see myself doing that if I have initial interest in someone and then I learn more about them or something comes up and I lose interest because I’m very picky and particular. OR since Geminis tend to be good at flirting and charming, a Gemini may tease a bit but then eventually draw the line and back away because they know they shouldn’t go any further because of a prior commitment. You may think of it as showing their flirty side, and then showing their loyal/committed side. Their carefree/wild side and then their controlled/disciplined side.

‘Switching Gears’ so to speak, has been something I’ve done a lot of during my life, and even day to day. It’s not so much fake personalities for me, but rather, there’s a time to do this, and there’s a time to do that. But, switching gears can sometimes be switching an entire headspace, so my energy can even shift to give a different vibe, depending on what ‘gear’ I’ve chosen to switch to. 🙂

[DizzyDesii]

Yes thats exactly what y'all do

[dynamicyandere]

@DizzyDesii Lol, speaking of switching gears, you might find this amusing. Here’s me switching into my ‘church gear’ so you can see my Christian rizz in action with how I diffuse the situation: My so call man in life told me tonight that what a man want is their wife to cook, clean, not talk, and give them sex when they want it, true? ↗ 🤣

I’m not a devout Christian anymore, but I know exactly how to talk to them. 🙂

[dynamicyandere]

A Gemini who’s a player I suppose could also say that they’re not a perfect boyfriend but they know exactly how to talk and act like one… 🤔

With great power comes great responsibility. Gems should use their rizz ethically. 🤣

I’m one of the good ones though! I promise. 🙂

[DizzyDesii]

Please just say charisma lmao. Rizz kills me

[dynamicyandere]

Lol, noted. 😂

[RavVid]

I am impressed on how this has played out. I would never have thought that. Hmmh.

[RavVid]

Well I am very glad you have found a good woman after that.

Astounded by the not so good one's arrogance.

[dynamicyandere]

@RavVid Thank you. 🙂

Yes, the not-so-good Sagittarius that I dated showed such a huge lack of awareness in that moment — avoiding responsibility to the point where it didn’t make any sense.

Asking her to choose between me and the one she had an affair with, isn’t an unreasonable ultimatum.

What did she expect me to say?

“Okay, we’ll still get married and you can still keep dating that guy afterwards.”?

Me walking away isn’t being an asshole.

It’s called having boundaries and self-respect.

[RavVid]

A lot of men would not have been as reasonable as you. Don't see how she could expect to have an open marriage of her side.

[HawkPerception]

First off, I just wanna mention that the description for Sagittarius does not match me at all. I'm very communicative and I've never said mean things to my partners and have always been a one girl kind of guy. There are tons of attractive girls in the world, but I'd much rather choose to nurture a bond that I could potentially be for life than chasing every hot girl that catches my attention. And I've always been the one that gets blindsided and dumped without much reasons given 😂

Secondly, I don't think I was ever heartbroken and got over being dumped pretty fast each time. But my first girlfriend was Scorpio, second was Aries, third and last was Sagittarius like myself and she didn't do the Sag description either. We were both faithful (as far as I know) to each other until she randomly started distancing herself and finally broke up with me 😅

[DizzyDesii]

Well i’m glad you’re a different type of Sag. Im just referring to my exes. Does heartbroken mean it can't quickly heal? Cause i definitely superglue that shit back together by the end of the week 😂🤣 And im not saying Sag cheat but they have showed they can't commit longterm (in my experience)

[HawkPerception]

Lmao I'm gonna say the thing you said not to say in your post. Zodiacs and horoscopes a bunch of horse shit 😂

I've never cheated in my life and think cheaters are scumbags. Like just end the relationship then get sleep with another chick. It's not that hard. I've only ever given my partner attention and even when they bring their attractive friends along, I kinda stray away to prevent them from feeling uncomfortable in the slightest.

Men don't suddenly lose their attraction to the opposite sex when they're in a relationship, and around my buddy we'll comment on girls being hot to each other, but other than that, I'm only my partner's.

[DizzyDesii]

Love this :)

[dynamicyandere]

It’s good to see a good Sag. I’m dating a Sag right now. Good on ya, for defying the stereotypes! 🥂

[Anonymous]

A cancer, as an Aquarius they say we’re not compatible. But I didn’t know that before I got into it with him, at first it seemed pretty good and he gave off the typical cancer vibe clingy, emotional and so forth. I was obviously a bit reserved and detached compared to him, and he seemed to move really fast for my liking as I was just getting to know him. I would let that be known, and he would accept it. I lose interested quick, and I also like my options. So overtime I just let him be, but I found out that he may be the better option, so I went back to him. Worst mistake. This guy did a 360 on me. Instead of being that nice guy from the start he became evil. He was a manipulator, user, he tried to gaslight me, he would come up with sob stories because naturally I’m empathetic so I’d feel so bad for him and I guess he knew that was my weakness. He became a completely different person, but once you play with my heart and I let you in and you do me so wrong I’ll just freeze up cold, so cold you’ll know not to fuck with an Aquarius no more 😂 I got it back ten fold what the fuck was he thinking. Anyways, yeah cancer they’re called cancer for a reason just toxic and annoying as fuck that’s for the men though. Muah 💋

[DizzyDesii]

Im Aquarius as well. And yes both of my Cancers started off clingy but they still fear commitment and slowly distance. NEither were technically bad except one told me he got bored and just didn't want to commit to one person. The other started talking crazy about killing someone to help his mom keep her house and i became scared of him. When i left him, he called me a B word and so on and i had to block him. But somehow i still consider cancers better than the rest lol

[Opinion Owner]

Not even surprised about the other guy because they usually are mama’s boys 😂 and do extreme things about the fam. The b word thing they let the emotions take control when angry so that’s understandable. Overall, they’re just a no go for me plus this guy was still stuck on his ex even though he hated her? Like what 🙄 they’re a mess but thank u for your reply n question made my day 😂

[Rei13]

My biggest heart breaks were from a Cancer and two Scorpios. I really have nothing bad to say about any of them, we just weren’t compatible for one reason or another and they weren’t bad people.

My last crush prior to my current boyfriend was a Gemini. He was probably one of the worst people I’ve liked. Funnily enough my current boyfriend is also a Gemini lol. Whenever I looked up geminis previously they both fit the characteristics pretty well even though they have completely different personalities. The other guy matched being manipulative and indecisive for the negatives, where my boyfriend doesn’t as much. Maybe only a little of being indecisive when it comes to little things. I don't know it is fun to look at signs but nothing to take seriously

[DizzyDesii]

Yea all the Geminis i know are indecisive

[Finchie40]

Biggest mistake was my ex , she is an Aries , she was the most negative hypocritical selfish bitch I ever fell for , she was sweet and kind in the beginning but her true colors shined once we got. Married and settled down , She completely changed on me to this demon that came from Hell, she was negative about everything and nothing was ever her fault , it was like being married to Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde , best way to describe it , Her horoscope is pretty spot on with that fire shit lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yep my longest relationship was an Aries who flipped on me after a year or so. The last year was a nightmare

[RoseySarah]

Sorry the other section might won

[DizzyDesii]

The other section?

[RoseySarah]

Selection
The one with several options

[DizzyDesii]

Who was it for you? A cap?

[RoseySarah]

Taurus ♉ he was into it and I was dumb

[Starrrboy]

Reading the aquarius part be like : ugh.. so unfair !.. this is.. this is true 🤣🤣.. but I'll tell you who is the absolute worst.. I've met a girl who was a capricorn.. terrible , just terrible lol.." kisses you once and never again ".. are you kidding? their love language is literally ignoring lol.. I've learned later that aquarius man and capricorn woman are one of the least compatible couples... I even have a brother who is a capricorn.. it's the same!.. I HATE capricorns 🤣🤣..

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i dislike caps too! But i disagree on the kisses you once. That must just be the women. I couldnt keep the capricorn man off of me. I had to stop answering the door. Kissing was his main thing. He is why im obsessed with making out 😄 but he was just a bad guy in general. Also i described Aquarius like that cause its slightly true for us both 😂

[Starrrboy]

Damn you got lucky with that guy 😅.. or maybe you made him an exception because you're that charming 😄.. and yeah I now get why aquarius people can be scary for some.. we're unpredictable asf and I don't think we can be truly satisfied in a relationship , ever lol.. but hey at least we're self aware 😅.. I almost forgot , merry Christmas desi aka coolest chick and my favorite person on G@g 😄... I hope you're doing just great 😊.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea sadly never satisfied. Awww Merry Christmas!!! My fave Aquarius

[Starrrboy]

😊👍👍

[SeaStorm1]

The first one I think is was Capricorn that did broken heart. From a Cancer women with a learning disabilities and I been to a learning disabilities college and some of guys were okay has friends. I think I had relationship with more one Capricorn and last one was with a Libra was very stubborn, blame games and blaming trust issues that I had in past with some ex friends that were girls. just used my trust to get closer to guys that I did had a relationship with when I college. I did get ask out by two of my ex boyfriend and I said no to one and sent message no your cheater on Instagram. Did blocked them to.

[electromagnetic]

Those damn Libras.
I don’t know my cheating ex’s birthday. He never celebrated.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea a mess

[Christoff92]

Aries. Because a lot of people who are born in that month zodiac are very dictatorial. Noticed this with my friends ex-girlfriend being always moody with him. But. However got together with a beautiful and humble woman.

[DizzyDesii]

Glad you found someone better

[Christoff92]

No. My friend. Not me.

[Anonymous]

A Libra. He was indecisive and flaky. Super fun to hang out with but I just couldn’t hold on to his words and it made me crazy. He also kept showing off to me how much other girls (and even guys) wanted him lol…

[DizzyDesii]

They are soooo flakey

[Opinion Owner]

But I don’t think I learned my lesson bcs I’m dating a Libra now lol he’s also flaky but I called him out on it and he’s working on himself now. Didn’t really buy into astrology but I guess there might be some truth in it lol (or it was just a coincidence)

[DizzyDesii]

Same im with a leo despite them being one i can't stand. Him Working on himself is umm… yea

[Opinion Owner]

Oh good luck with the Leo. I’ve never dated one but my Leo friends are kinda toxic in their relationships…

Yeah lol, he went to therapy and all. Apparently his flakiness is a major issue among other things, lots of his friends complained about it. I think he got a wake up call after I called him out on it.

[BourbonAndBacon]

After over a year together I got dumped by a Gemini 2 hours after sex. Then got back together a day later and then 2 days later she again dumped me after a bj. The only person to dump me. WTF

[DizzyDesii]

Geminis stay playing TAG! YOU’RE IT!! Its sad really.. look at my paragraph above the poll about them

[BourbonAndBacon]

That would've been good information 3 years ago

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao

[strateguy632]

about update, how can you even say that about gemini, according to your chart gemini are "good listeners and social". Capricorn is "down to earth grounded" not abusive, and how can you split them from their own group like gemini from libra aquarius? and aqua is water... but chart has aquarius air. but people promote this nonsense.

[DizzyDesii]

The chart is random google opinions. My paragraphs are about my personal experiences with them. Aquarius is a water carrier but i get how it seems more of a water sign

[TenderFantasy]

Leo.

I'm Aries and I am the total opposite of the nasty things they portray me as.

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe you're a cusp

[TenderFantasy]

Well, I was born March 27. I don't think that is Cusp? After Aries (March 21 - April 19) is Taurus (April 20 - May 20) and before that is Pieces (Feb 19 - March 20). Hmm... I am looking at: www.travelchinaguide.com/.../ Right now. Maybe I am more of a Pieces hehe. Sure, I can be Romantic, Kind and Sentimental! 😛

[DizzyDesii]

You were a few days short of being a cusp

[abc3643]

My experience is to avoid Water Signs.
I am an Earth Sign.
We only made mud together.

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂😂😂

[abc3643]

If you really care about this stuff, consider reading "Linda Goodman's Love Signs".
The late (*) Linda Goodman was a popular astrologer who wrote lots of books.



Published in 1978, a friend of mine in grad school in 1988 had it, so I read it too.
Warning: It's a big book; around 1000 or so pages. But it's fun from cover to cover.
I think you can find a free PDF on the web.
Almost certainly, it's still in print.

(*) This is Linda's 1995 obituary in the New York Times:
www.nytimes.com/.../...turned-astrologer-dies.html

Linda Goodman, Writer Turned Astrologer, Dies
By Robert Mcg. Thomas Jr.
Oct. 25, 1995

Linda Goodman, whose down-to-earth insights into character traits were credited with bringing astrology out of the occult section and onto the best-seller lists with the 1968 publication of "Sun Signs," died on Saturday at Penrose Hospital in Colorado Springs. She was about 70 and lived in Cripple Creek.

The hospital said the cause was complications of diabetes.

It may have been "the dawning of the age of Aquarius," as the 1960's song put it, but until Mrs. Goodman, a one-time newspaper reporter and sometime radio writer who had picked up an interest in astrology from grocery store booklets, sat down at her typewriter, the rays had not caused a blink in the publishing industry.

Within months after an obscure house named Taplinger brought out "Sun Signs," in 1968, it had become the first book on astrology to make The New York Times Best-Seller List.

Since then, her agent, Arthur Klebanoff, said yesterday, "Sun Signs," and two follow-up volumes, "Love Signs," (1978) and "Star Signs," (1988) have sold more than 30 million copies in 15 languages and continue to sell some 200,000 copies a year.

The $2.3 million paid for the paperback rights to "Love Signs" set an industry record.

What set Mrs. Goodman's books apart was a combination of her sharp insights and her elegant, accessible style.

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[abc3643]

Writing in the first person and drawing on the lives of celebrities, historical figures and personal friends to illustrate her points, Mrs. Goodman sometimes seemed more psychologist than astrologer.

Whether your sweetheart's streak of, say, stubbornness, came from the stars or childhood experiences, Mrs. Goodman was a master in elaborating how it would play out against your own tendencies as a dreamer.

Mrs. Goodman, whose original name was Mary Alice Kemery, was born in Morgantown, W. Va., on a date she gave as April 19 in a year she would never disclose.

"I once asked my grandfather, and he wouldn't tell me either," her son Michael Goodman said yesterday. During an interview a few years ago, Mrs. Goodman was more forthcoming, putting her age "between 435 and 450."

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The date made her a triple Aries, and Mrs. Goodman, a five-foot-or-so dynamo fit the astrological profile to a T. "She was pushy," her son said.

A writer since childhood, Mrs. Goodman worked as an itinerant newspaper reporter, radio writer and occasional broadcaster. After reading "Letters from Linda" on a radio program, her son said, she adopted the name Linda.

Mrs. Goodman, whose early marriage to William Snyder ended in divorce, began writing "Sun Signs" in New York after an announcing job that had been promised her second husband, Sam Goodman, fell through.

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[abc3643]

Although her astrology has been called textbook as opposed to mystical, Mrs. Goodman developed a distinct mystic streak. "Star Signs," for example, draws on both numerology and reincarnation.

And when the New York authorities ruled that her 18-year-old daughter, Sarah Snyder, had committed suicide in 1973, Mrs. Goodman, citing her daughter's astrological chart among other evidence, refused to believe that the body identified by her husband was Sarah's.

She later spent so much time trying to find her daughter that she was forever running out of money, at one point living for several months on the steps of St. Patrick's Cathedral.

In addition to her son Michael, who is a resident of Keaau, Hawaii, she is survived by another son, William Snyder of Colorado Springs; a daughter, Jill Goodman, of Manchester, Conn., and two grandchildren.

[kellytheman]

Yeah I myself am a Virgo and seems and a girl who is a Sagittarius and had been cheated by her. I do also never end up with a girl who has the same sign i have.

[DizzyDesii]

Sag seem to struggle to commit no matter how badly they wwnt to

[leahzrc]

I am gemini and I broke some hearts but I didn't take it too personal

[DizzyDesii]

Did anyone break your heart

[leahzrc]

they all did. that is why I break theirs

[leahzrc]

first

[DizzyDesii]

Of course… gemini lol

[SimplyPut]

Two Virgos.
One years ago
The other fresh in my mind

[DizzyDesii]

Aww damn

[SimplyPut]

Sorry bout being that Aries🤔

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao its all good

[SimplyPut]

It usually is with me.

[iron_ninjs]

She was born on a date that's somewhere between two signs, but I think she's a Gemini.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn Gemini strikes again. Look at the poll

[iron_ninjs]

Yeah, I can see. Gemini the heartbreak kings/queens.

[LiamJHayden]

Never had a real heartbreak, but the one who let her friends and family interfere was Aquarius

[DizzyDesii]

Dang. They making us look bad

[Anonymous]

capricorn and gemini. i'm not sure which hurt the most. probably gemini.

[DizzyDesii]

Gemini has scarred so many people on this post and in general. They are truly horrid. Sexy horrible beings

[AviatorTom]

She was a Capricorn

[DizzyDesii]

Did she ever hit you? They got a problem keeping their hands to themselves

[AviatorTom]

I know what you mean...

[IloveWinters]

Fucking scorpion... She left me for a richer guy.. hate it..

[DizzyDesii]

Scorpios just want sex and then they are out

[IloveWinters]

Absolutely... They are cock hungry

[NathanDavis]

fortunately... I have not had my heart broken yet

[NathanDavis]

and no... that does mean I was the heartbreaker, lol...

[DizzyDesii]

Lucky! Mine is never broken for long but it happens

[7Phoenix7]

He was a Capricorn 😭

[DizzyDesii]

Not even surprised. Was he verbally or physically abusive?

[7Phoenix7]

Yes! I had ptsd for a while

[DizzyDesii]

Yep thats what they do

[strateguy632]

to dizzy, not sutprised about capricorn? the earth group is "down to earth grounded practical" and also you grouped it with Leo etc. in poll too.

[DizzyDesii]

@strateguy632 the ones in separate polls are the ones i have a main issue with in terms of heartbreak. The ones grouped together did not break my heart. I more so broke theirs

[DJB72]

I actually can't remember when her birthday was 😱

I know she had one while we were together though 🤔

[DizzyDesii]

Think on it and let us know :)

[Phoenix98]

No clue I don't really pay attention to that kind of stuff it's just silly nonsense.

[DizzyDesii]

It is. Im jus trying to entertain

[Phoenix98]

Right, right I just don't remember what their birthdays were lol so I couldn't say.

[Simslover92]

Gemini. I wrote a whole ass song about them lol

[DizzyDesii]

I believe it!! I cannot wait to see the poll results in the end because im 99% sure the air signs are the issue. And im an air sign 🤣🫣

[Simslover92]

Lol dang well as long as you're not a Gemini you're fine in my book. I can't stand Geminis after him. He messed me up that bad.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i can think of 3-4 Geminis who fcked me over. They still fine af tho 😝🤣

[Simslover92]

Haha yes they are 🤣🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Odd thing is, Gemini and Cancers are the only signs that i’d truly consider taking back after a breakup. They got some kinda hold over me 😩

[Simslover92]

I can understand that. Took me forever to get over my Gemini guy. They just do something to you smh.

[DizzyDesii]

And oddly enough all of mine were “church” boys. Boy do they fool you

[Simslover92]

Haha same here. Mines was a "church" boy musician. A double whammy.

[DizzyDesii]

Not another musician! One of em was a drummer boyyy 😭

[Simslover92]

He played the drums and the piano 😭 so you already know he was smooth with it lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yea mine only played the drums. But i think all of them played basketbakl

[Simslover92]

Yep he played basketball too and football. Should have known better than to mess with a "church" boy/musician/athlete. He had a lot of girls lined up and my dumb butt fell in line smh. But I was young and dumb.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea they play innocent to draw us in. Leos too

[Simslover92]

Haha yep they sure do. Oh yeah Leos definitely do. I've never been with one but one was always trying to get with me but I knew he was a player. He had a new girl every other month.

[DizzyDesii]

I won't say they are players but i will say they manipulate and act innocent

[Simslover92]

Yes they do for sure manipulate and try to act innocent. I've seen first hand how the Leo guy treated his girls and I definitely wasn't trying to be one of them smh lol

[DizzyDesii]

Im dating a Leo rn 😭 im tryna stay hopeful but he definitely lied about being innocent

[Simslover92]

Oh dang well I hope that works out. I hope he doesn't try to manipulate you. They might not all be like that.

[DizzyDesii]

he's attempted im sure. Sometimes i feel gaslighted with how he tells white lies that turn into bigger lies. But yea we’ll see

[strateguy632]

to @DizzyDesii about air, so you believe chart false? air is "good listeners and social" according to chart. well i agree with you, the chart and the concept of birth season is nonsense.

[DizzyDesii]

@strateguy632 yes the charts are random shit google made up. Im speaking from experience

[dynamicyandere]

Lol… I’m a Gemini that used to drum for the church praise team… I also helped with guitar and vocals if I (or the pianist and I) were the only ones available to lead service. 🤣

But, I’ve also never been verbally or physically abusive. ☝️

Consensual BDSM doesn’t count. 😇

[DizzyDesii]

@dynamicyandere lmao can't believe you're a Gem! And no he Capricorns were the abusive ones not the sweet Gems

[dynamicyandere]

@DizzyDesii Yup, I’m a Gem. 😇🤣

[Simslover92]

@dynamicyandere lol that's not surprising. Every gem guy I met so far served on the church playing either the drums or piano. What is it with you Gems and church and music? lol

[dynamicyandere]

@Simslover92 I have no idea. 🤣 Maybe we just tend to be musical with how our brains work? There also is an art to music, as with charm. 🙂

[Simslover92]

@dynamicyandere maybe so and yes there certainly is.

[Joshydavid25]

My ex was an Aries..

[DizzyDesii]

Ahhh so was Mountain Dew

[Joshydavid25]

Mountain Dew was your ex right?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea. Quan was the libra

[Joshydavid25]

Aw okay, I always get The Pepsi and the mountain dew mixed up.. 😂😂.. Quan was the Pepsi and Your ex was the Mountain Dew.. Which I mean... Mountain Dew was the always better pop/soda.. 😂

[DizzyDesii]

I dont like either. I prefer coke

[Joshydavid25]

The worst of all...

[exitseven]

Her birthday is sometime in May.

[DizzyDesii]

If its before May 21st she's a Taurus. If after then she's a Gemini

[exitseven]

I think she is a Taurus.

[DizzyDesii]

If she was crazy high maintenance then yea lol. If she was indecisive or twofaced than prob a Gemini

[exitseven]

I don't know what she was. She was really nice and was always positive about life., And then she rip[ped my still beating heart out of my chest and stomped on it.

[appleadayisgood]

i know its a poor answer i like to be honest.

i don't really remember her zodiac sign it was years ago.

[DizzyDesii]

What was her birth month?

[appleadayisgood]

i want to say August

[appleadayisgood]

just was curious beautiful do you still a fan of nike clothing

[DizzyDesii]

she's likely a Leo. So vote the last option above. And yea i love it

[appleadayisgood]

@DizzyDesii i just did somehting just tells me to keep flirting lol

[appleadayisgood]

@DizzyDesii just curious any new questions you are going to post? i will be up for a few more hours

[DizzyDesii]

Not atm

[appleadayisgood]

ok no problem its been nice talking to you again

[Amiapowerlessman]

An Aries and a libra

[DizzyDesii]

Libra doesn't even surprise me. Didnthey just randomly lose interest? And the aries? Did they have a temper cause they didn't get their way?

[Amiapowerlessman]

That’s exactly what happened, the libra just ghosted me without talking and explaining why and I guess I just wasn’t good enough for the Aries, shit hurt my feelings not gonna lie 😂 it was long ago so I just laugh about it now

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know why Libras do what they do. And yea aries be having underlying intentions til they get what they want

[Amiapowerlessman]

Yeah I don't know what sign I’d be most compatible with lol

[DizzyDesii]

Its hard to base compatibility off their sign. Just gotta not think about their sign for the most part

[Amiapowerlessman]

I don’t think about signs but sometimes it be on point lol

[DizzyDesii]

It really do

[Amiapowerlessman]

Actually I worked with a Virgo she was Mexican, there’s not a lot of Mexicans out here and we just clicked so well, wish I could of dated her but she was married

[DizzyDesii]

We dont always mesh well with our own sign. Like aquarius and pisces men be throwing temper tantrums and i dont have time for that lmao

[Amiapowerlessman]

What’s your sign?

[DizzyDesii]

Aquarius-Pisces cusp

[Amiapowerlessman]

Cool, I’m the Leo-Virgo

[DizzyDesii]

Omg fck! Im basically dating that

[Amiapowerlessman]

😂😂 how ironic

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao yea he already a mess. The chemistry is on point but shit everything else 💀🤣

[Amiapowerlessman]

Y’all will work it out

[DizzyDesii]

I hope so 🙏

[Amiapowerlessman]

You know what I’ve never worn and never will… them damn skinny jeans 😂 I know it’s random for me to say right now but my friend texts me asked me if I ever wore them

[Amiapowerlessman]

I just cannot it’s uncomfortable

[DizzyDesii]

Yes please never do

[Amiapowerlessman]

People would talk shit to me back in school because I never wore them and I guess at the time that was the style 😂😂😂 I just told myself if you wear skinny jeans then you must not have any balls 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Exactly mfs be walkin round with mooseknuckles

[Amiapowerlessman]

How do you usually like to dress?

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i thought we discussed this already. Adidas Tracksuits, Nike yoga pants, Skinny jeans, graphic tees, tank tops? m, crop tops, hoodies, converse, air forces ones

[Amiapowerlessman]

Your right I remember now 😂

[Amiapowerlessman]

Can’t go wrong with any of those

[Amiapowerlessman]

Crop tops and yoga pants… getty up!! 🤠

[DizzyDesii]

Haha

[Amiapowerlessman]

How do you feel about video games? Do you think some people spend way too much time on that Xbox?

[DizzyDesii]

I grew out of video games after 2015 (so my second year of college). I think playing daily and weekly is a bit much but a few times a month or year is fine. I mainly just care for racing games like need 4 speed, forza horizon and mario kart 64

[Amiapowerlessman]

Yeah I fucks with the Mario kart, never tried forza

[DizzyDesii]

I only recommend forza horizon 3 in Australia. Amazing. Like need for speed but without the cops

[Amiapowerlessman]

Sounds fun

[DizzyDesii]

One of the best soundtracks since need for speed undercover

[Amiapowerlessman]

Did you like movies like stomp the yard and you got served?

[DizzyDesii]

Loooove You Got Served! Not big on Stomp the Yard since i can't stand the people casted lol

[Amiapowerlessman]

Yeah I thought you got served was great, I can’t recall how many times I watched it 😂 watching that movie got me and my friends attending these dances that they’d have at a couple of rec centers out here

[Amiapowerlessman]

I thought I was one of them 😂 shits a lot harder than it looks

[DizzyDesii]

Omg but y'all can dance similarly!! That so dope

[Amiapowerlessman]

Use to, not anymore

[DizzyDesii]

Still go hard tho

[Amiapowerlessman]

Yeah I feel if I tried my knees would pop and I wouldn’t be able to get back up, if I was to ever dance again I’m gonna need to buy me a life alert first just Incase I can’t get back up 😅

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao you so silly 🤣

[MysticDevice]

I don't know what her sign was lol. It was so long ago

[ThrillSeeker01]

Cancer, in this case. 😞

[DizzyDesii]

Was it similar to my paragraph above the poll?

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, I think the above was pretty close to my situation. For me, it was my ex's lack of trust. Sharing with my SO feels like a deep connection, and she wouldn't do that. Without that in our relationship, there was little happiness.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea they can only go so deep. And everytime you think theyre on the same page, they change the next day. They are too afraid to fall

[ThrillSeeker01]

That's it exactly. An SO needs to have confidence in themselves or they'll hide what's going on in their head, and you never know how things stand

[DizzyDesii]

Crazy thing is, cancers are overconfident in every category except for love in which their insecurity shows

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yeah, you're right, I think that's true. I think a lot of that confidence (in certain respects) is kind of like an over compensation for the lack of self confidence that they have about themselves. And insecurity, sure. Insecurity has always been a relationship killer to me

[ThrillSeeker01]

Like my ex never believed me when I told her the truth about how I was feeling

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wow i never thought of it as them overcompensating but you're right.

[ThrillSeeker01]

It's a common pattern that I see in those who don't trust in themselves, and lack confidence in their own self image. Shit happens early on that can effect a lot of people that way

[blondfrog]

I've dated but never been in a true relationship so I can't say.

[EmpressAJ]

Happy Capricorn ♑️ season 🤭🥳🥰

[DizzyDesii]

Is that what broke your heart?

[EmpressAJ]

No I’m a Capricorn ♑️🥰 but I’m the pool I selected Sagittarius ♐️ as the one who broke my heart

[EmpressAJ]

*in the poll

[DizzyDesii]

Did the Sag get crazy jealous before breaking up?

[EmpressAJ]

No he was a liar , a thief , and he pretended to be something he wasn’t till he got what he wanted and used me in every way a person could be used. And that’s when he true colors were shown

[DizzyDesii]

The thief part is correct thats for sure

[EmpressAJ]

Most definitely , definitely has layered meaning for that situation

[Baublebar234]

Virgo 🙃

[DizzyDesii]

Oh damn

[IslaTheWitch]

Libra

[DizzyDesii]

Yes!! Thee worst

[strateguy632]

wow, cute pattern, every type is the worst, but libra air! good listeners and social. you reply to each different answer libra capricorn, despite different gtoup, theirs was the worst lol.

[DizzyDesii]

@strateguy632 everyone has their cons is the point. Why are you so offended?

[RavVid]

It was a Leo.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn. Were they manipulative, lying, gaslighting or cheating?

[RavVid]

Manipulative

[DizzyDesii]

Yep. Thats what i fear im dealing with my leo guy. But hopefully not

[RavVid]

What you said about shining together but don't outshine was pretty accurate.

[DizzyDesii]

Yep exactly

[bowenw]

Libra

[DizzyDesii]

Another air sign.

[RedInnocent68]

Oddly, Virgo. 🤔

[DizzyDesii]

Ahh that is odd. Did it have to do with them saying something unforgivably judgmental?

[RedInnocent68]

There were definitely some assumptions and poor judgment involved.

[DizzyDesii]

Not even surprised.

[Anonymous]

From a taurus 💔

[DizzyDesii]

Damn. I wouldn't say he broke my heart but he definitely became rude and said mean things when he couldnt get me to stay

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry to hear that... and in my case , not only breaking heart but he just used me!

[LavLavLuv]

Scorpio

[DizzyDesii]

I just know that mf was evil lmao

[LavLavLuv]

Yes lol🤪

[sirderpsalot123]

Capricorn

[DizzyDesii]

Was it physically? Or just emotional heatbreak?

[sirderpsalot123]

Just emotional

[Slim57]

Aquarius

[DizzyDesii]

Noooo we almost got away scottsfree on the poll

[Slim57]

Shouldn't have been a cheatin azz lol

[dynamicyandere]

Lol 🤣

[Sparkie460]

I don't remember any of their birthdays.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats good

[Pink2000]

Capricorn.

[kevypatyy7]

I like the piece

[love_conquers_lust]

I believe in astronomy.

[kingmaker21]

This is such a long essay to read 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

Its called a mytake lol. Articles are usually long

[kingmaker21]

What you think about Aquarius guys?

[DizzyDesii]

Im an Aquarius. I have a lot in common with them but sometimes they get really rude and blunt and make horrible offensive jokes that im not okay with. So they’re nice until they’re not. The one i dated was amazing until he hid that he had another girlfriend

[kingmaker21]

I'm Aquarius you're Aquarius
God given strong hint to us we're made for eachother. 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂👌 a man of God. Love it

[kingmaker21]

😂😂😂
So you don't like honest n blunt guys?

[DizzyDesii]

Respectfully honest but not rudely blunt

[kingmaker21]

Word's 🔥🔥🔥

[Abdulwahh]

Lol im noy really sure of these things

[slatyb]

Stegosaurus.

[PeterLegg91]

I'm a Pisces

[DizzyDesii]

But what sign broke your heart?

[PeterLegg91]

None lol

[DizzyDesii]

Okay pisces. Feel free to checkout my mytake