Polls

Do you live in a hard or soft water area. I live in a soft area.

If you think hard water means ice please go to the "how do I look" section where you belong

Any son of mine is getting snipped as soon as he's born.

Both are pretty equal for me! The extravagant one is slightly more expensive but still doable for me! Everything else they both similarly permit.

The hotel allows the bride and a groom a complimentary night & breakfast stay-over accommodation, but the other one is more gorgeous and spacious, I think.

I'm asking for EITHER the perspective of where you'd prefer to marry OR which wedding you'd prefer to attend - I don't mind.

Please help!

Three months ago, I hired a lawyer for my partner’s case in court and he was great.. we have achieved an amazing outcome
He has great communication skills as he always checks up on us

Then few weeks ago, my brother needed a lawyer for his case so I told him to hire my lawyer
And my brother was also happy with his results

So my lawyer messaged me saying thank you for referring him to my brother etc

Then I think.. he started to flirt with me

Do you guys think he's flirting with me?

He knows I have a partner and a baby lol

Is 5ft1 short height for women?

If your SO's family (not your SO) told you that they would never accept you into their family or give you their blessing to marry if you did not join their religion, what would you do?

Yay or nay lol

My sister has always been the prettier sibling, she has blonde hair, implants, etc. Recently, I lost 30 lbs and have been looking better than I ever did before.

Couple steps back, my mom posted a national daughters day appreciation post and chose to use an old (uglier) photo of me rather than a recent beautiful updated photo- even tho she was sent the recent photo a few minutes before she made the post. I confided in my sister of how much this bothered me but she told me that she thought I looked fine. I thought this was hypocritical because the photo of her on the post was photoshopped to the T. I personally thought it was weird how she was bothered by the smallest details in her photo but she never saw anything wrong in my old ugly untouched photo.

Back to now, I sent a video to my sister how my hair was naturally curling, she seemed happy for me. But the following night she sent an old photo of all of us and again that bothered feeling came again. I can tell she photoshopped herself but I could be wrong.. but all I’m thinking is, did she do this out of spite? Are these jealous moves or is it just in my head?

The first three photos are screenshots from the video i sent her showing my hair, and the last one is the photo she then sent me. I’m on the far right and she’s on the far left.

What are your thoughts and plans for 2024?

Why do guys seem to do this pretty often?

Even when dating a great girl who loves sex, they drool over women online they will never get.

Im watching this show (himym) and one of the characters was surprised that his wife didn't get jealous about a female coworker he was spending time with (not cheating). Then his two friends explained that its because he’s the “reacher” in the relationship and his wife is the “settler”.

This means his wife is the best woman he can get (he “reached” for her) thats why she isn't worried about him cheating. While his wife is the “settler” obviously means she settled for him. His friends told him this, not his wife.

Do you agree that every relationship has a “reacher” and a “settler”? If so which one do you think are you in your relationship?