Polls

What a lying CHEATING husband? There’s no good reason for a woman to get married in today’s society. I would argue in most marriages the guy is CHEATING. Even though THEY are the ones who asked the woman for marriage in the FIRST place. Then men have the nerve to complain about divorce rates being so high. On top of that with this 50/50 society women are paying for their own bills and things. What good does marrying a man do?

You've followed the recipe to the letter, weighed out each ingredient with scientific precision and now it's time to dollop spoonfuls of dough onto your baking trays.

The recipe says "Makes 30 cookies."

But how many do you end up with?

If yes, then support your answer. Like sure there's therapy. But how do you think it happens? Have you ever witnessed it (the change)? I personally don't think. I think they just learn to identify their behaviours and control them. Correct me if I'm wrong but be polite.

A narcissist, on the surface, is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves. They often come as the most "charming" people around you & someone who never fails to NOT mention anything good they've been doing. Narcissists are not secure people and the "self interest and excessive admiration" that shows, is usually stemming from a deep deep insecurity. They have an insatiable need of people's (collectively, never a single person) validation, to feel valued. 'Never a single person' cuz they usually cannot care about anyone particular other than themselves. A lot of times they're just BLIND to see the harm they cause to the ones they "care" about (covert nar.). Their reasonings can be anything, at any level, to justify their own selves and their actions. They can never be argued with bcz their minds are incapable of seeing their own self at the 'wrong'. They have to "win". They live to win, "reputation" is the most important thing to them. They're incapable of being vulnerable (could be cuz of a past trauma) to others. They leech out the people they're with, if you've been through that mental exhaustion. They all have pretty much the same patterns. If you've been one of their victims, you can pick out those patterns easily. Manipulations, gaslighting, not being truthful, conditioning, twisting words are just few ways. I wish you all the best on your healing journey & hopefully (not smth good), those triggers are strong enough that you never trust such person again.
(my personal view of them 👆 you may correct me/or add to this (if u want to) but be polite)

He never slept with her. But told her she was an amazing kisser
Does this mean I was a bad kisser
Or was the tension of never getting sex make her seem better?

Yeah I'm pretty weird by the way. #personality

So i hired a lawyer to represent my partner at court
My partner went to jail for 2 months
He is now released

Today that lawyer added me on snapchat
I was like wtf?
Showed that to my partner and he got annoyed and questioned it too
I didn't accept tho

Few hours later the lawyer messaged me asking hows everything is going and if my partner has been released yet.. etc

Is this weird?
Esp the snapchat add

Girls, do you even care what he drives?

If it's one thing I'm known for it's changing my hair, but I'm curious to know which one you all like the best❤️

What flavour do you like?

I like a guy at work, coincidentally he worked in front of me for 3-4 days a month and half ago. I didn’t like him during that time but once I began like him, I found out he works in other separate area not where I work at.

so my plan to make him my friend working together failed.

we don’t cross paths so it’s difficult try talk to him. He seems shy , walking alone no friends reserved.

the last time he worked near me I felt him look at me and when I turned to look at him he quickly looked down at the floor. So our eyes didn’t meet.

I also don’t see girls walking with him or approaching him. I’m shy myself so I’m also not walking with a guy or anything.

it’s been a while since I’ve seen him and I can’t be around him so he notice me more and look at each other. Only way this can happen is if I talk to him myself.
or shud I not talk to him never and stay single and sad& continuework and day dream of this guy I like a lot in my head?

there’s many men daily at job like 100 but I only like him. Or is it true only men need make first move or else they don’t like you enough?