
Is this disrespectful behavior to people in the parking lot?


he's in his own car? I get being upset if someone does that in YOUR car, but in their own car, why should they be ashamed to relax? Cars are uncomfortable. Would you rather he got out with a blanket and laid on the asphalt? His feet would be lower then. Prolly drove someone else to the store and is now waiting for them to come back with the shit. That's all. He's not sticking his feet out the window or anything either, so you can just not look in the car if you don't want to see. I don't get the problem.
The problem is this: let’s imagine it was you, would you have done that? Would you kick your bare feet up on the dash and put them on display for everyone to see? That’s my only question. Is this normal behavior that’s socially acceptable? I know it’s none of my business what’s he’s doing in his own property but I’m legit wondering what other people think if they see this shit.
I don't have a car, and i would consider this perfectly acceptable behavior. One of the drawbacks of public transit is since you are in shared space, it would be weird and rude to have your bare feet out touching or up where other people are also inside the vehicle. I would never do that on a bus, even if I way the only passenger at the time. But there have definitely been times that I wanted to, especially the past couple weeks of such hot weather. The only thing stopping me is that it's a publicly shared space. And in my husband's car, it's a privately shared space. He doesn't like feet on anything besides the floorboards, so because his car i share with him, I don't do that there either (& neither does he). If he didn't care, then i would. Because it would only be shared space with people who are OK with it. I don't consider people outside the car as included in the space. Only thing I rlly consider them for is, we don't fuck in the car and if we change our kids clothes in the car one of us sits between them and the window and blocks view from outside. But that's more for privacy, we don't do that out of consideration for others..
Ok got it, so in short this is not that indecent? And if you see it in front of your eyes, it wouldn’t catch your attention or disgust you?
Yeah, basically. It's like passing someone reclining in a lawn chair in their own yard. You may not wanna look at them, but they're not doing anything wrong I don't think. Not doing anything rude. Just relaxing.
Ok sweet, thank u for your honesty
Ur welcome. Thanks for being polite.
Of course lol even though most people are calling me a Karen
Thanks for not doing that
Eh, thing is:
Is he parked? Is the car off?
If yes, then I see no problem.
It's his car. Not mine, not yours, not anyone's here on GAG.
I also mind my own fucking business unless someone is robbing, kidnapping, or any other illegal activity.
Not my car, not my relative, not my problem.
Ok of course he’s not committing a crime..
Nothing wrong with it. Why should anyone care? I'm almost always barefoot during the summer months. It sucks wearing shoes unless I have to. I even go for walks and jog at night barefoot. It's been about 4-5 days since I put on a pair of shoes.
Ok that’s strange but you do you
I honestly think that's incredibly hot -- and if I walked by and saw his big feet propped up like that, I'd probably ask him what his shoe size is, and then ask him if he'd let me give him a foot massage.
You have a foot fetish for guy’s feet? Are you gay?
I wasn’t bullying you I was seriously asking? How can you like this dude’s feet and think their hot if your not gay?
Ok go suck this dude’s toes I don't know what to tell you frankly
How? Your acting cray cray what’s the matter with you
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Nah he's just trying to relax
Maybe I should’ve offered him a foot massage so he’d relax even more?
Have you ever heard of sarcasm and sarcastic retorts?
I think you must be Middle Eastern. In the Middle East showing the bottom of your feet to someone is the worst form of disrespect you can give them.
All I would to you is this, Welcome to America or the West in general. We do not care about such things.
I’m not middle eastern, I’m American. Ethnically I’m Eastern European
Well in the Middle East showing someone the bottom of your foot is worse then flipping them off. Showing them the bottom of your bare foot... might as well spit on them.
So, I just say it's acceptable... I cannot say it is completely trashy. So maybe I fall in the other category.
Got it, thank u for explaining. I haven’t been to the ME so I don't know how people behave over there.
I am not ME either, I have just been a lot of different places... so even if I think it is trashy or acceptable... I just try to be open minded as possible, because different strokes for different folks. I have seen to many different things in my lifetime to judge someone's values, but the bottom of their feed... but they should be courteous to other people and be a little more socially aware.
You’re very open minded honestly. That’s a great thing to be!!!
Lol
Why would it be disrespectful? He can do whatever he likes, it’s not like he’s waving his dick to you.
Let a man be comfy in his own car, what’s your problem if he feels comfortable?
I am a bit shocked there are people getting offended just because someone feels good. 🤣
Should he also apologize for breathing anywhere near you?
No but aren’t feet unhygienic and disgusting? I mean now that I look again in the picture his feet look fine not that gross but I was surprised he had them up in my face that’s all.. if you were in my place you wouldn’t notice the feet?
I don’t think feet are unhygienic and disgusting.
Feet are just feet. They are fine.
They look good and even if they didn’t, and if I happened to notice his feet, I’d be thinking he is enjoying his time and I’d be cool with it.
I’d not think much about it at all.
Ok I guess that makes sense.. funny you say they look good because objectively speaking the guy looked really good I just felt like this was odd behavior but I guess I overreacted.. thank you for answering
i think you need to be minding your own business "karen". was he harming another being? nope. was he displaying something inappropriate such as genitals? nope. was he trying to get your attention in any way? nope. so that means it was none of your business, ignore it and move on.
Ok relax magius no need for emotions running high
Thank you 🙏
He's in his own car.
Look away, you pervert.
Why am I a pervert? I don’t think you know what a pervert is
Why are you spying on and taking pictures of people relaxing in their own cars (their own property)?
That's voyeur behaviour. If you like feet this much, just go to WikiFeet, ffs.
It's okay for you to have such a fetish, but don't involve random strangers minding their own business in their own cars.
You taking sneak pics of a man's feet as he's in his own car is absolutely pervert behaviour.
I don’t have a foot fetish lol. Did you even read my post? It’s quite the opposite really I’m disgusted by feet and I didn’t spy. He literally put them on display in my face.. I was parked opposite to him
His car. His personal space. If all of his car's windows were completely tinted, you woundn't even see him doing it.
True and true.. I overreacted and I’m having regrets now
I have more important things to deal with than worry about where someone puts their feet in their own vehicle.
Ok your an important man
He can park there as long as the car park management allow. What he does whilst parked there is no ones business
Yes I know that legally speaking, I wasn’t saying he committed a crime and he should be arrested
We don't know this guy's situation maybe he just decided to kick his feet up while waiting on someone in the store or he may be on his break and decided to park his car a rest for a bit.
Ok I know that but if you happen to see this, would you be surprised or would you just find it normal like you’d do it yourself?
Cool I hope I can become like that one day
Who cares? He is in his own car waiting on some dumb bitch who is probably gonna take an hour.. let the guy relax and mind your own business..
Lmao no cap this made me LOL
Why do you care what some random person does in the comfort of their own vehicle. Do you police what they do in the comfort of their own homes too
No i don’t. But do you like it if you see bare feet propped in your direct field of vision?
1- what line of work is that?
2- I wasn’t stating he was literally parked inches from my car
Psychiatric facility.. that’s a nightmare. I feel bad for patients but it’s a nightmare
I thought it was funny and I only took the picture to show my best friend I didn’t mean to stalk the guy, I even deleted his face
Because it was funny and annoying at the same time
Aren’t feet disgusting in your opinion? They’re smelly crusty and not a good sight. Do you like feet or something?
Feet are literally just part of the human body. I do find them interesting looking back at the human lineage and how they used to be capable of holding onto items; and even now they’re still capable of that with those who rely on using their feet as a means of grasping. But I find the whole body fascinating so it’s not limited to feet. But no I don’t find them creepy or crusty they’re just part of the body
Ok maybe this particular pair of feet wasn’t crusty thankfully but still I see feet I assume they’re smelly.. is that the case? I don’t know.. there’s no way for me to know.. I’m surprised many of you people aren’t disgusted by feet… ok ok let me rephrase. If it was you in my place, this sight wouldn’t catch your attention at all? Am I too fixated on smthn that mundane?
Ok we got to an interesting fork in the road. You’d laugh? Why’s that exactly? Care to explain?
It's his car, presumably. What difference is it to you? Unless it's a prime parking spot, it's just not anyone's business.
I was parked opposite to him and I was sitting in my car
It is my business I don’t go around my city and throw my feet on the dash for people to see
I don’t put them on display
And other people’s too bcz I don’t bother them with the sight of my feet
Ok I’ll start kicking my bare feet up everywhere from now on then
And those who won’t mind would be your friends, until they do mind and then you realize you’re a hypocrite
It’s ok
I mean , his car his space his wish
What's disrespectful in that?
They were in my face I was literally inches away.. ok in a different car but hello.. some respect?
How is filming someone without their consent respectful?
I just sneaked a quick picture and cropped the guy’s face out
Why the fuck was your face inches away from this guy's car?
Stop creeping on people in their cars and stop trying to smell other people's feet (why else would your face be only a few inches away from his feet otherwise?).
Girl, get some help.
Smell his feet? Girl you cray cray? I was in my car minding my own business when he kicked his feet up on his dash in my face
@asker "i was in my car minding my own business" but was offended by (not minding your own business) seeing someone else in their own space (who looks to actually be minding their own business) and decided to invade their space by taking a pic and bitching on the internet.
interesting
It’s not that deep, I saw something that was weird and I wanted to ask what others think
i’m Asian and it’s considered rude. We never sitting with legs up on the table/ dash. I did once when i was kids and my father threatened to chopped off my legs😂😂
Woah that’s a little extreme hehehe
OK FOR ME NOT THAT I EVER DID THAT BUT I DONT CARE IT'S NOT DRUGS OR SEX OR MURDER
@Kelly6 BUT THIS ONE doesn't! LET THE PERSON RELAX WITH THE FEET UP!
Ok I did let them relax but I wanted to ask the question anyways
Whatchu mean you don’t know
What is happening 🥺🥺
Sorry I didn’t mean you gluttony I was asking Kelly what reason she’s referring to
I’ve definitely done that before, lmao.
I see nothing wrong with it 💁🏿♀️
Do you at least wear socks?
Your a girl.. we don’t have disgusting feet anyways
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I don't see a problem with that, it's more disrespectful to take pictures of random people without their consent
Would you sit in a car and kick your bare feet up like him? Be honest and let’s see if it’s okay
I couldn't care less. I live in America I see worse stuff at grocery stores.
I live in America too but what worse stuff?
He’s in the privacy of his own car. What is the issue? I could understand your concern if he got butt ass naked or something, or did something like this in YOUR car. He’s not bothering anyone. Stop creating an issue out of nothing.
I’m not I’m just asking what other people think…
Lol OK Karen. You can stop trying to police everyone's behavior..
I’m not, just policing his feet
You are indeed. He has a right to do what ever he wishes. And you have the right not to look Karen. At least he isn't naked... Again it's none of your business. You have no right to police his behavior Karen.
Ok no need to call me a Karen I didn’t go up to him or anything I’m just asking strangers
You have a Karen attitude.
Ok you too by the way
Calling our Karen attitude is not Karen behavior. Maybe look it up sometime. Or see a psychologist so you can address your inability to mind your own business.
This is probably the weirdest question I’ve seen on this site, and that is saying something. I think YOUR behaviour is disrespectful. Mind your own business!
I was respectful. I hid the guy’s identity
actually no you were not respectful. being respectful wpuld have meant NOT taking a pic. which is being disrespectful by invading his personal and private space. it is a lot like someone walking by your home and taking pics of you through your window/s seeing as most people and places call a person's vehichle a sort of extension of their home.
No when you put your feet on display like that it just means you don’t care
Your being a Karen right mown
you wish youngin. you are the one who went online throwing a temper tantrum hoping to be validated but instead have been called out on your bullshit and when it gets explained to you, you refuse to listen and learn but instead try a bit of doubling down on uour original thing. all that is tell tale traits of being a karen. then on top of that, when named as a karen you tried turning it onto the one/s calling you out by saying they are a karen for calling you out. oh and at least i have the balls to not hide behind the anonymous setting, which is ironic as i am actually a member of the group anonymous (activist not hacktivist) but am one who rarely uses the mask for it and instead allow most to know i am a member.
Nobody asked what you’re a member of. Keep that information for yourself.. ok kiddo? Good
He's allowed to be comfortable in his car. Don't look at him if it bothers you.
Ok next time i won’t
Trashy but not a big deal. I have seen girls driving down the highway with one foot out of the widow so they can air out their cootchie.
Wow that’s extra level
No problem. I have put my own out the window of a moving car. hahaha
Isn’t that dangerous?
hahah Felt nice.
I gotta try it
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It’s his car. The fuck you taking random pics for? You creep 🤬
I’m not trolling and I don’t know him and am not a creep.. why are you getting nasty for? I took picture of feet.. who cares? Why put them out on display? If that sounds like something you would do then know that not everyone appreciates it
How so Sasha?
What the hell?
That’s what you got from this post? Funny and you’re enamored with his feet? Maybe you have a foot fetish.. go massage his feet and suck his toes next time.. is that giving you a good laugh now?
Yes? Are you that disgusting? 🤢
You’d legit go up to him and ask for some foot licks? 😷 🤮
Please stop joking are you being serious right now? How? Please explain to me how you’d be into such thing
Yes and? You’d seriously approach a stranger because you liked their “smooth” feet?
What the hell? You were calling me creepy earlier ma’am.. this by your definition isn’t creepy? Wow
Glad to hear ya creepy foot girl.. come massage my feet 👣 that’ll make your morning
You work on a Sunday? Must be a foot massage parlor.. yes yes that checks out. Bye bye bye
He’s relaxing in his own car I don’t see the issue. The issue here is you taking pics of people without their permission and posting a stupid af question. Get a life.
I have a life and nothing’s wrong with asking questions.. looks like your offended bcz you do this behavior yourself
Even if I did its definitely not an entitled princesses business like yourself.
Ok if that helps you accept yourself
If it’s his car who cares. He can do whatever he wants in his property.
He can but should he?
Is he in his own car or the Communist community car?
if he is in his own then let him be
His own car but I was parked directly opposite to him.. it’s like he’s just putting his feet in my face
If you're not middle eastern and it's his car why do you care?
Because I was sitting in the car parked opposite to him.. I found it a bit wacky that he kicked his bare feet up in my face. Aren’t most guys foot shy anyways? Most men I’ve met have sex wearing their socks and my guy here putting them on display
I see someone doing that every day in the summer. I've never thought anything of it.
We don't take off our socks for sex every time because it seems a less necessary action than say, pants or shirt. The feet aren't getting any attention so why bother to address them? The men aren't trying to hide their feet by keeping the socks on they just aren't paying them any attention.
Ok maybe your right I don't know.. in my experience every guy I’ve dated has been shy about their feet
I currently have two black toenails (where they may fall off from a race), blisters healing and calluses all over. I can count on one hand the number of times a woman has even asked what's going on there, much less cared afterwards. I'm not sure who these guys are you're finding or what their foot trauma is about.
Ok you’re making the dude’s feet look like masterpieces now with what your describing
Yep. I use mine. Hands too. Not just for show.
Then walk away and don’t look.
I had to wait for my aunt in the car unfortunately
Oh I see. Well, there’s not much you can do.
Well I posted this question didn’t I?
they look nice and clean
What do you mean they look nice? How can feet look nice?
Lol yes me too except I think all feet are ugly
What? What do babies got to do with feet?
We? Who’s we
Oh lol sorry I’m slow sometimes
Lol 😆
I don't see anything wrong with this.
Ok cool, so not trashy?
Nah. When it's in your own car and not in a place where people would go anyway I think it's just some guy relaxing.
Gotcha thank u for your honesty
Its his car, and the car was parked.
True and true but it’s bad manners
I would be more annoyed if had parked and blocked 2 parking spaces, or let the engine running.
He wasn’t doing neither of those things
So no problem, be happy he found a position to sit comfortable.
I wasn’t that happy because that meant me staring at feet for 10 mins but ya that’s fine b
What’s wrong with that?
I don't know looks kinda disrespectful to me
That’s his car let him whatever he wants.
Is that a sight you’d like to see?
I don’t care if it bothers me I won’t look again. I don’t have a say on what people do in their cars.
Ok understood but would it bother you? I’m really interested in knowing if others get bothered
Not at all it’s just feet.
Lol ok hope their not smelly at least
I have seen much worse behavior in parking lots.
Like?
Ok that’s too much.. why not just go home and do that?
ROFL this is too funny
It's his car. Why are you worried about it?
Not worried just surprised
It is not exactly classy.
Yes thank u
Acceptable, he's in a comfortable position.
A little top comfortable I dare say
It’s his car and he needs rest
Ok but do you think it’s rude to others? Like if you were parked opposite to him and then he does this?
Ok i guess I’ll start doing it then 💁🏼♀️
Only if you do it with me
Who really gives a fuk, mind yo own beez waz!! 🙄
Would you like to see feet parked opposite to your dash? Please answer honestly
I wouldn't care
Maybe you do that yourself then
Lol what you doing with him
Whatchu mean? He’s a stranger
Don’t think much about it
Even when you first see it? No opinions formed?
Someone just relaxing and waiting for someone I assume
So not disgusting?
Not really unless you don’t like big long feet, the guy must be tall with those feet, looks like a size 14 shoe
I don’t like feet period long short thin fat whatever they’re all disgusting
Probably why you didn’t like what you saw
I think almost all people wouldn’t like feet
I’m not into feet either but there are some guys with a foot fetish
I wonder if those guys would be into this guy’s feet
Not likely, since they are only into women’s feet
Maybe women are then if there are women with a foot fetish
Who gives a fuck.
I do
I said i do
Your doubtful not my problem
None of your business
You thought nothing? You’ve got shit for brains I’m not surprised
Then eff off
smell his feet
Why would I? Are you crazy?
You tripping? If it were you in my car would you sniff his feet? Maybe you would
If your a creep don’t think everyone is like you.. this is very inappropriate
Now you don’t but when you face legal consequences after you sniff someone’s feet you will give a damn
I never ever smelled anyone’s feet not even mine.. I see feet i go the other way. Only whiffer sniffer upper here is you 🫵🏻
Lol...
What’s so funny?
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