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My brother did, some of the stuff is pretty freaking neat.

FINA banned high tech swimwear from competitive swimming in 2009, and said that swimwear couldn't cover the arms or lower legs, and that men had to swim topless in just shorts.

Personally, I agree with all these rules. This was because swimsuits were increasingly covering the whole body and made of performance enhancing synthetic materials, so the competition was becoming less about the swimming.

On the other hand, maybe the suits were just helping the athletes perform at their best, and it added an interesting element to the game. What do you think?

(The rules for reference: "For pool swimming competitions swimsuits for men shall not extend above the navel nor below the knee, and for women, shall not cover the neck, nor extend past the shoulder, nor below the knee. All swimsuits shall be made from textile materials.")

Did you loose the moon while you were busy chasing the stars?

Is dating harder when you're 30+

I know men don't like being pressure to start a family but lets say we don't mention it, would some men want kids too and even proceed to it themselves? Can they also feel the urge for a child even if a woman were to not even say anything about it?

Do some men naturally want kids (a family) without the woman mentioning the topic first?

Although we would never have kids ourselves, this is something me and my girlfriends have talked about if we ever did have a son or daughter. Do you think this is okay to set as a chore?

Just curious to know which gender company guys enjoy more

Would you rather date a girl on Instagram than online dating?

He works an excessive amount so I've given him some leeway but honestly I am like what is there to this relationship. He can't even make time for a movie 🙄 and yet blithering about kids, etc

I have no family and I’m 25. I live alone & I no longer have relationship with parents as they hate I’m independent. We have fought as they are angry I have a car & dad isn’t giving me rides everyday anymore, they are angry I have stable job & business, they don’t want me save , they don’t treat me like an adult so I don’t feel good see them. I always felt left out with family, my married brother doesn’t talk or visit me. His wife wants him only with her family & she has gotten jelaous of me before as one I tried sit next to brother & she got jealous fast went to sit next to him. Wtf. Last time I visited brother and his wife’s family her sisters and wife all ignore me pretend I don’t exist & just talk of her life. My only girl cousin is jelaous of me so she avoids me last time I went visit her & was just with her boyfriend daily so it was pointless even visit her. She pretends like she has a million friends & don’t need me due to envy& wants copy any single thing I have. I have a boyfriend only & he’s only nice person In my life that’s it. I never had friends that are girls as I’m nice & they are mean girls treat me very bad or act jealous. Whole life I enoucnter mean girls or girls that just want be with boyfriend so it’s hard make a true friend.

(Long distance friends for two months, moved in together within the first month of being exclusive)

As i told shadowdweller in his question, I don’t want to rent nor buy, but I intend to build a home which I guess is basically buying. I saw an opinion mention that they prefer to wait and see what their future spouse would want. I think thats sweet but hella risky. So here's where I stand... If my house is built before I am engaged/married, then I’m keeping my house. I will not be renting it out. He can either move in with me or we can get a new separate place but I will absolutely be going back to the house I built anytime I feel like it lmao. And its technically not a bachelorette pad but if thats what you wanna call a 3 bed 2 bath home then so be it. Now if i am renting an apartment or something before having gotten engaged to him, then yea, I don’t mind giving that up. But once my baby is built, I’m not renting it out nor selling it. And just moving in to the guys place would ONLY happen if we’re engaged and my home is not yet built. #FeelFreeToList