Polls

As mentioned, this man is a friend with benefit. When we met, we weren't looking for relationship. I met him few times but when I was at his place last, he told me to stay. Out of kindness? Wanting more sex? Maybe he's developed feeling?

Hell yes , I am so down!

How about you?

I stumbled across an article “What your sheets say about you.” It cracked me up how they went on about colors and such like astrological signs and personality. But it did inspire me for a bit of GaG fun.

My house is fans of t-shirt sheets. We have all sorts of colors as back-up. Currently using oatmeal.

What kind and color sheets do you like to sleep in?

I think it’s a pretty good way to “test-run” the relationship before even considering marriage. But then again, how soon is too soon to live together?

Also, how long do you think you’ll need to be living together before you consider it as a good enough indicator that you can tolerate each other?

Based on the movie of this case. He was dating two women at the same time. Jodi had no clue and neither did the other woman. They just assumed one another were friends.. Jodi assumed she was his one and only. That was until his phone went off while he was in the shower. Jodi checked his phone and seen where he had been seeing another woman for months and through text claimed he wasn't with Jodi she was just some psycho who's obsessed with him so he had to let her down easy by being her friend.

Jodi went into the shower , took pictures of him as if she was being sexual, he laughed and posed🤣 , then boom jodi stabbed him several times. He tried to run she then grabbed the back of his head and slit his throat.

Everyone says date in person it's"organic" but does the bar really scream that?

The person can't stand straight , on drugs or coming to see their bartender therapist isn't necessarily the best place to find the one.

So I have dated very few people and only really thought of it after knowing them a long time ‘& only by the time I was already falling in love or already IN love, tho still was not ready for a relationship and even ambivalent about just dating. I have never ever dated to experience & learn better how to date- dating was only after thought to my interest in a specific person.

it occurred to me that this can be very problematic. If you very rarely like anyone I think you can have a false- positive impression of their character. Just bc I’m so very rarely interested in someone this does not mean that anyone I AM interested in os necessarily good for me as a person/ partner or is even a good person at all.

And ultimately in my opinion experience is crucial. Every train wreck I’ve encountered on romantic scenarios was not due to anyone being evil but bc I had no clue WTF I was doing bc I was not used to caring about someone that I was also “into”. And I was extremely uncomfortable dealing with certain inevitable vulnerability etc plus brain freeze 😂

Anyhow , I think in interest of self development & interpersonal capability , I should consider dating as part of regular life & not a rare artifact that maybe I’ll encounter in a lifetime.

Now, when I say date I mean meeting you getting acquainted. I do not mean hook ups or vetting people for whatever agenda. Just getting to know people in a romantic contexts.

Of course I’ll be upfront so no one’s tine will be wasted if they are expecting sex or something heavily physical quickly. I’m Audi not interested in anyone paying for anything so no one is getting explored with no return.

Would it bother you to be asked out by someone who wasn’t blown away by you but was open to getting to know you?

if you would say something, what would you say? it sucks because she's otherwise really nice.

I've often heard the phrase ''You're just sorry you got caught'' but is it possible that you can still be sincerely sorry, regardless of the timing in the apology?

You can get caught stealing, plagiarizing a college homework, talking behind someone's back, cheating on your partner, etc. Any type of wrongdoing. But even if caught, can you still be sorry?

Hi there i’m sophie and my sister is fleur. we’re just sharing this account lol.

Fleur:

Right so my friends keep telling me different things about my friend. and i’m getting mixed feelings. he’s quite shy so he might not just be telling anyone how he actually feels but i’m not sure lol.

- He told person A that he wouldn’t say no if i asked him

- told person B that he liked me as a friend

-When someone asked him hypothetically does he like me he said yes

-He is constantly flirty teasing me about stuff

-He is always buying me icecream or paying for days out.

- he was my prom date

- apparently on a school trip he was asked by a couple of people about me and he said just friends.

yeah so i’m not sure. kinda mixed reactions huh? Anywayyyy anyone who can help me figure this out then help😭😭😭😭

Just wondering if everyone sleeps in or if some people are different.

A supermarket is offering all over 60s a bowl of free soup and a bread roll in it's cafés. Some are praising their generosity but others say it's demeaning. Some are criticising the store which makes billions in profit for not doing more while others say if old people can afford to drive to the shop they can afford soup.

Where do you stand?

As you can see, the bond between them seems rather wholesome, what do you think about this situation?