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If your spouse (partner or husband/wife) cheats with your own brother or sister, who is more disgusting and more to blame?

Your spouse or your sibling?

Me and my ex broke up yesterday

Before we broke up.. he would allow me to use his car to go to work everyday

We had a fight yesterday and he broke it off
And he just got his car

But he knows I still
But he hasn't asked for it back
And he only lives 5mins away from me

His car is his baby

Why?

How did biden get more votes than any president ever in history? They say 81.3 million votes !! (81,300,000)

I really do dislike people that can't be responsible. Men & women. I've seen numerous comments by guys here about not being responsible for their bastards. I've seen numerous comments by girls here about using abortion like birth control.

Are they NOT adults?

If you are not responsible at your job do you expect to keep it?

Do you expect your boss to say yeah you're a dipshit but we'll keep you anyway?

Do you expect your colleagues to say yeah you're lazy & good for little, but we'll do your work for you as well as our own?

.

So why don't you TRY to GROW UP and BE an ADULT? Be a MAN. Be a WOMAN. Someone that society can look upon and say he/she is an ADULT.

Not a toddler with their diapers still on crying about unfair life & blaming everyone cause they can't do anything as an adult. Because they're an embarrassment as an adult?

You're adults. Fucking try to be one. BE RESPONSIBLE.

Or for women like this - get your tubes tied.

For men like this - get a vasectomy.

Take yourself out of the gene pool because if you don't contribute much any children are only going to contribute less to society.

Me and my ex been together for 4 years
And this last year we have broken up every 2 months
And he always tries to come back

Yesterday we broke up again

Do u think he will come back again?

( this is for Indians per se - Like Example Anuradha is not compatible to Chitra etc )
Can you give an example if you’re marraige is successful even if astrology kundli don’t match

Not a diet freak necessarily, or a vegan for the matter but they just abstain for oily and greasy food.

Colourwise.. etc

It started with mutual attraction. The question came of if he's in a relationship he admitted upfront that he's in a fucked up situation of being legally married but due to immigration he can't leave until his citizenship is granted. It's already in the process. The person he is married to is on the same wavelength, they want to get divorced but they will wait until his process is over.

There is no issue in our relationship except this HUGE one. The reason I constantly feel torn on walking away is because he's the most amazing man ever, flaws and all. And I believe that what we have is irreplaceable. I walk around happy as fuck because of him but with a weight on my shoulder.

In honesty, the government system where I live is very fucked up and they literally treat immigrants like shit unless you are filthy rich. So for no logical reason other than being cruel even when you have all requirements met, they give appointments then keep rescheduling and putting it off. Realistically in my country the process of getting citizenship then residency takes 10+ years.

He doesn't want to start the process over in divorcing her and marrying me because it's been about 4/5yrs already and he finds it stressful to start over. I am telling him that makes no sense since he will therefore be chained to her for an indefinite number of years, unhappy and preventing us from having a free relationship.

It's a tough decision but when I talk about it he seems defeated. I say if he doesn't know what to do then that in itself is a choice. He says I don't understand because it's his whole life he's built here that he could lose by choosing to get a divorce before having his citizenship at least. I am concerned that we won't be able to raise a family because my biological clock is ticking. I also hate having to be okay with him living there with her and her family. We can't live together. We can't be seen. My family wants to meet him. Tell me your thoughts. It's almost been 3years.

I haven’t really dated anyone, I was exclusive with someone for a few months back when I was 23 and had sex but I wasn’t completely into him. I just haven’t been lucky with dating apps at all, you hear they’re terrible but some get lucky from them. I don’t have a social life or in person friends so that’s my only avenue, I really don’t think I’m bad looking I’ve been told I’m cute/attractive but I don’t get attention from guys. I get matches and msgs on the apps but it’s always the ones I want don’t want me back or the ones that want me I don’t want back. Or sometimes it just doesn’t work out, I’m exhausted and have just lost interest and motivation. I check the apps but am at the point where I have to remind myself to reply to guys because I just can’t be bothered. I’ve tried almost all the free apps and tried match too. I’m the same weight I was when I was 23 but I’m a little thicker because I guess I lost some muscle mass but worry I’m going to get saggier as time goes by and when I’m even older, I’ll look at young photos of myself and just feel regret for not living it up at that point in my life. I don’t want kids and don’t have much of a sex drive, maybe that might have something to do with it?

I’m thinking of signing up on a different dating platform. Since I’m not having any luck with the current one.

But since I’m fed up with sugarcoating my personality on my dating profile. I don’t want to scare guys of who I really am.

Yes, I’m loyal and honest. But I’m also a fighter in communication and I’m emotional at times (if I’m reallly bored with my life). But this is normal human behavior.

So should I write who I really am or just put little details and surprise my date?

Note: This is same company but different department.

I had a final interview two days ago, and I was honest about everything including that my supervisor didn't know about my application.

The next day of my interview, the other department reached out to my supervisor, and my supervisor was shocked and asked them how come they interviewed me without his permission. The other department said, I was asked to be immediately interviewed.

I apologized to my supervisor and told him that I didn't tell him yet because I am not yet sure if I passed the other department, and I believe that the other department is more related to my past experience. He said, I won't stop you from transferring to other department if you don't like it here. I wish you pass the interview.

My question is, am I hired because the other department reach out to my supervisor?

Including at him.

I've been told by men that im always staring or watching people... One guy made comments about my eyes.

Ido make a lot of eye contact for no reason lol i get mesmerized. Im easily interested curious by men especially.

At the same time as i get the idea guys think its weird, i also at times feel like some guys love the attention or admiration but of course they wouldn't say that. Actually i think some guys start to think they own me o_O

I can't sleep with socks on unless I'm sick or it's too cold in my room, which is very rare since I prefer the cold. I need my toes to be freeee 😂😂😂

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