Polls

If a guy or girl you were interested in had no friends or was considered a loner would you still date them? Yes, no, or does it depend and why?

This is just for research.

For those who don't know, many people from these groups talk about their oppression, but they do get help from time to time.

I know that many of these groups overlap so that's why I'm saying in general, not including family.

Mine just expired. I'm debating if I should renew it or not. I never had to use it yet.

What do you think?

This goes in line with some of my earlier questions. I'm extremely torn between trying to think things through and do the Right thing, and just going with it - acting before thinking. I'm scared life will pass by, or that I will regret so much of what I've done.

For example, a body count can't be lowered. AIDS can't be taken back, nor a pregnancy. A failed class is a spot on a record. Drinking can lead to so much misery (as I learned when I was young).

On the other hand, what if life passes you by? What if you get to be forty or fifty, and realize your youth was wasted on things that didn't matter?

I want to hear y'all's thoughts on this. Act and regret what you've done, or think and regret what you haven't?

We been together since last year of Feb 10,2021

He got full of negativity
We have said harsh shit
He got a job where his boss is in his life ( music industry )


Everytime I wanted to go down
And everytime he even made plans ( this is the second time that now he canceled it )

He always tells me no no don't come
Then he says it his job but tbh I feel like it more then that

We only seen each other once

Today we were talking about it
I ask him a question saying


Even when I said I wanted to come
Even when u werent on fuckin tours
U kept telling me no
BUT EVERSINCE U CHEATED ON ME
EVERSINCE U GOT CAUGHT BY MY BROTHER
EVERSINCE EVERYTHING IS LACKING
U WANT ME TO FUCKING COME

I ask him why all of a sudden he wants me to come down
He responded with : of trust
But then he said he done trying?
All because I ask him a question?

This happened last time to


I just didn't understand why he wanted me to come down all of a sudden... was it to speak to my brother was it us was it that

And eversinceche cheated on me he completely said he done trying? The only thing I know was he kept regretted his actions and fighting his negativity

Currently on my second round of covid!

27F, I feel like my life has changed over the past year nothing drastic but things aren’t the same with people I’ve known. No personality changes, more like I don’t speak with them as often because they’re busier, other changes aside that which aren’t boding well with me. Ever since I came back from a concert 3 weeks ago, I’ve been in this rut where I feel so dismal knowing there’s nothing else to look forward to. I’ve worked from home since earlier this year and I think I hate the job, the duties itself. I’ve called out sick the past 2 days even after this past long weekend and this isn’t me I really hope I snap out of it. I’d like to believe this feeling is also linked with my menstruation cycle but I’m not too sure. I hope I’m overthinking but I just lay in bed and feel like I kind of hate my life at the moment, I quit my last job almost a year ago and can’t afford to live off my savings again since that’s what supported me up till I got this current job. I’m too grown for this, this would’ve been more suitable back when I was in college and still living at home. I’m a very anxious person who’s normally cynical but it’s at another level atm

What are you doing?

I do.

Prayer appears to be basically meaningless. The one exception is that perhaps it's possible to put YOURSELF in a better state of mind with a prayer (the power of positive thinking). But the thought that you can pray for another person to get over an illness or pray to stop a mass shooter or pray to make it rain (or stop raining) is 100% ridiculous and meaningless. But why? Is it because there is no God? Or is it because God is a jerk? Or do you have some solid evidence that prayer does indeed work? VOTE BELOW!