Polls

I spend a lot of time at the Health Club and have met more than one person there that I have dated.

I like the fact that there are not many lazy people that go to Health Clubs other than the usually over weight ones that show up for a day or two right after New Years day and then you never see them again... lol

I do not run a matchmaking service. This is just a fun poll

I would choose option D. I would like to concentrate on my studies for now. Besides, falling in love with my age is too fairytaleish and definitely not possible long term.

Homewrecker

A person who knows the man or woman is married but still goes for it. This low life of a person does not even care that there is children involved. This scumbag may even look for problems in the marriage and try to make themselves look better by using that time of weakness. In some cases they may not be successful in breaking up the marriage, but are successful in breaking your heart and making you question everything in the future.
She started with Facebook , her and my husband talk. She told me she was happily married and she was not one of them crazy x-girlfriends. I told them that I didn't want them to talk anymore things didn't add up. She was using our problems and acting as if she worshiped the ground he walked on. And only he can understand her. (Boosting his ego) Now she's unhappy in her relationship. I told her off, and she spoke to me as if she was the wife and mother of his children! Needless to say it went back and forth. He clams she is out of her mind to think that she had some kind of future with him and our children. He clams he never wants to talk to her again __ Like I said "they are successful in breaking your heart and making you question everything in the future"_ Homewrecker

This is my take^^^^^^^

Do you believe that after we all parish, that done of all of us are reincarnated?

My ex boyfriend was a liar I found out he lied about his age. I told him how I’m not fine with him following Instagram models wearing skimpy clothing, he didn’t understand how I felt then I told him. ‘So I assume you will be fine if I follow hot guys too’ He told me I couldn’t do that, I told him he better unfollow those women or I will end the relationship. I asked him for his Instagram account he said he’s going to delete Instagram. One week later, I found out he still didn’t delete his Instagram and the people he followed were mostly Instagram models. What a liar. I told my cousin what actually happened with tears in my eyes, she told me most men my age are selfish when it comes to lust. Next time if I want to get another partner I will tell him how him following Instagram models hurts my feelings if he still didn’t care I will say I will be following hot guys if that’s ok with you. He will definitely be insecure af. If he wants to follow Instagram models but is against me following hotter guys than him then he’s selfish just like my ex.

The gender & age & relationship is left ambiguous it can be woman man whatever any age platonic or romantic familial etc I want to know what comes to mind on a gut level.

I almost don’t even want to do a pill bc I don’t want to influence any answers but I don't know I usually regret not putting a poll 🤷🏻‍♀️ Inspired by a scene from the movie tootsie between Jessica Lange and Dustin Hoffman way back—that I think was played really well but this scenario is not meant to be identical in meaning.

I was just having this debate with my friends. I don't really have a preference. Or at least once thought I didn't. But se just had wings and most of my bones are flats 😂. Apparently I always go for flats over drums according to my sister.

What do y'all prefer?

#winglovers
#flatvsdrum
#ShaTTeredQuestions

The "Star Wars" franchise is sticking up for actor Moses Ingram after she revealed she had received hundreds of racist messages and comments on social media.

The franchise tweeted that it was "proud to welcome" Ingram, who just made her debut as Reva in the Disney+ series "Obi-Wan Kenobi."

"If anyone intends to make her feel in any way unwelcome, we have only one thing to say: we resist," the "Star Wars" account tweeted. "There are more than 20 million sentient species in the Star Wars galaxy, don't choose to be a racist."

Ingram posted multiple examples of racist messages and comments on Instagram, noting that she has received hundreds of messages, some of which included the N-word.

"There's nothing anybody can do about this. There's nothing anybody can do to stop this hate," she said, in a video posted to her Instagram stories.

"The thing that bothers me is... this feeling of like, I just gotta shut up and take it, I just have to grin and bear it. And I'm not built like that," she continued. "Thank you to the people who show up for me in the comments and in the places that I'm not going to put myself. And to the rest of y'all, y'all weird."

Like you still think you owe them an examination but you don’t think they really want context so in that case is the apology selfish— which defeats the purpose I think apologies are supposed to benefit the receiver tho I guess, really, it’s for the person apologizing to put it to rest and accept their accountability. Now I’m not sure if apologies are really for who or what lol kind of like how funerals are really for the living to gain closure unless it’s a wake.

Anyhow I think I got a bit off topic. If you wanted to apologize to someone before Covid but couldn’t do it for three years, would you still do it after even if they seem bad. Or would you Just leave them alone? Yeah I know maybe they can be mad bc you never apologized/ or explained BUT they can also just be annoyed and want nothing 🤷🏻‍♀️

What would you do if the only thing you know for sure is you were wrong. Maybe they were too hit you’re owning up to your actions, not theirs.

Thanks!

I KNOW I ask stuff like this a lot 😂 💦 I have a latent respond to stuff. I’m good at looking at other situations, but If I’m personally involved, I don’t really sense things with people till wayyyy later. In the moment I’m just kinda detached — for many many moments really. Just takes a long time for how I feel about the situation to click for me. Sucks… I guess it wouldn’t bother he if I didn’t care but I do care just too late. It’s like I’m completely disaffected in the moment then completely compassionate, months, years, later. 😬