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People often quibble about the definition of being rich, but there are actual quantifiable levels according to your states income data. Do you actually meet the minimum threshold to be rich in your state? How about if you moved to another state?

Check out how much you need to make to be top 20% or even better, top 5% in your state:
https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/heres-how-much-you-need-to-earn-to-be-rich-in-every-state

I have this guy in my class whom I’ve known for a long time from an old school. We both moved to the same college, and since we didn’t know anyone there, we naturally started talking more. Recently, as we’ve been spending more one-on-one time together, I’ve started developing feelings for him.

I’ve heard that most guys believe men and women can’t really be just friends, so I thought that by spending more time together and getting closer, maybe he’d start to like me too. I consider myself an attractive person—people tend to turn their heads when I enter a room—so I wonder if he sees me as just a friend or if he might want something more.

The only thing that makes me doubt is that I’m four years older than him, and I wonder if that affects how he sees me. One thing I’m sure about is that if he wanted a hookup, he wouldn’t say no—but I’m not sure if he would actually want a relationship with me.

30F and I wonder if most women get where I’m coming from. I’ve never been in a real relationship, saw someone very briefly in my early twenties. Haven’t had sex either since then and don’t feel the need to, masturbating doesn’t do anything for me. Also doesn’t help that I’m not the friendliest, the only way I’ve met up with guys over the years were on dating apps. I get attention on them but it just feels off in a way, I’ve always felt like I am going to end up alone. I don’t want kids but like the idea of getting married, over the years people have justified my single status to being picky or shy etc. Those are excuses or cop outs, I feel like compared to the average woman though I likely get less attention from guys in person.

Literally the only attention I’ve gotten from guys I find attractive are on dating apps, in person maybe someone I was outside with would tell me that this guy looked at me etc (on and off throughout the years). But they never make it known to me directly, it makes me second guess things. It’s like I always wonder why I never have a boyfriend if I’m told I’m attractive, I also hear about a lot of introverted/socially awkward women that are in long term relationships. I really wonder if finding the right person is the answer to all my issues, I’ve spoken to guys in the past and tend to find ways to get out of it before I determine if they’re a good fit or not. Something about guys has always felt…different. Since I was in my teens, never got the craze with being boy crazy etc.

My fiancee recently proposed and I'm over the moon! But we have a problem. We live in Maine, which is wear my family is from. We are visiting his family in Minnesota right now and they seem to think we are going to have the wedding there, but my parents want it at my families church in Maine. My fiancee seems to be ok with either.

Honestly I'd rather do it in Minnesota. My older brother is the pastor at my family's church and I don't want him to wed us, but I feel guilty for not doing it there, but I feel bad for not doing it in Minnesota because my fiancee rarely visits. I hate making decisions T_T

People in my shoes what did you do?

Done this twice to a guy who was playing games and dating my friend at the same time! Made sure he knows that I was a good Mistress and might have left him tied up for his dormates to find!

He never got it and just became a baby daddy to 4 kids who have 7 of his kids. Some people never try and have healthy relationships.

Few times but it's just never worth it. Easier to just move on and forget.