Polls

Dating is so hard and seems like you are never going to find your match till you do!

Everyone lied about meeting me in my wild dark side it scared them and they hurt me till one day someone just loved me there and joined me!

It might involve sexual things or it might not and I’d be clear about my intentions from the beginning. Not that long ago he said something that implied he’d date me if he could. That combined with a long flirtatious and semi-romantic history between us and the way I’ve seen him look at me and act with me makes me believe there’s a good chance he’d be with me.

REASONS I FEEL IT MIGHT BE A GOOD IDEA:

• My mom and I saw a movie in which a woman decided to be with a guy despite knowing he’s going to die. My mom said it’s not about how long the connection lasts, it’s about how deep it is. That made me feel like maybe it’s worth experiencing a relationship with my friend even though my ultimate goal is to find someone else.

• A part of me feels like life is short, and I should live in the moment as long it’s not something unsafe.

• I’m afraid that if I don’t take my chance while I have it, I’ll never know for the rest of my life how it feels to truly be with him romantically.

• I want him so badly it sometimes drives me crazy.

• A part of me feels like the reasons for not being with him don’t really matter when I want him so badly.

REASONS I FEEL IT MIGHT BE A BAD IDEA:

• I’ve never had a first kiss or date before and a part of me wants to save those things for a guy I feel more romantic about.

• I’m afraid I won’t be able to not compare the way my future fiancé touches me with the way my friend would touch me.

• A part of me hopes to lose my virginity to someone I’m more deeply in love with.

• Since I’m uncertain about the situation, a part of me feels like a ‘better safe than sorry’ approach is best.

The place where I work currently I have been there for a year and four months but I feel I don’t fit in well with my colleagues due to my quiet nature and introversion.

At work there it seems to be more in favour of extroverted colleagues who are loud and love social situations and one of the basis for being promoted in the place is social interactions and being seen rather than your skill set.

it effects me sometimes a lot and I feel ostracised at times by my coworkers. Am I being unreasonable and should I keep trying or start looking elsewhere?

Like if she’s in danger, would you feel the need to protect her?

I don’t know exactly why, probably because I feel protective over my friends siblings and I know my sisters friends would but I don’t know about my brothers friends, but this is something I’ve been curious about for a long time.

Basically meaning like a bunch of bad stuff will happen all at once.

I've gone through this multiple times in my life but going through it again like just in the last week its been every day that I keep getting terrible news dropped on me 🌧

I'm trying to keep in mind that storms don't last forever and brighter days are ahead ☀️

Do you get narcissistic traits for a while whilst healing from narcissistic abuse? I’m really confused whether I’m the problem or he is.