
Dating is so hard and seems like you are never going to find your match till you do!
Everyone lied about meeting me in my wild dark side it scared them and they hurt me till one day someone just loved me there and joined me!
Dating is so hard and seems like you are never going to find your match till you do!
Everyone lied about meeting me in my wild dark side it scared them and they hurt me till one day someone just loved me there and joined me!
Well I had to put down dating hard for kinky LOL.
I think we are all kinky in our own ways some a little bit more than others but that's just because we're confident in ourselves
I haven't been on a date for a while and I keep thinking about it one of these days I'm just going to have to do it LOL I'm content at the moment but I'm getting this buildup of just wanting to feel that energy of somebody or give my energy to somebody so slow motion and deep
If you're unconventional sexually in basically any way, most people aren't going to match you by definition. People are also generally quite judgmental, even when they pretend not to be to look like 'good' people, under the surface they're still judging you. I'd say it's harder to find a kinky match and sometimes riskier, for instance if you're into domination you're going to get those "true dom" a-holes who are just abusive.
Fully agree but also they only want one thing from sex often! Like o I'm kinky... Sex talk just selfish only wanting one kind of sex.
Often I flat out say stuff and get ignored usually trying to not talk about sex and I don't share my photos.
A lot of the time it does not get past a date or to a date. Let alone getting into sexual things.
I found mine we didn't spoke about kinks in the first place as we grown more together we found more and more kinks which matched perfectly and we both are pretty much experimentalists which was a huge plus at this point.
But even before him i realy never had a problem to find and date like minded people but what i need to say aswell it was hard to find people under them who dont "play" it
No I never met my person.
It donât exist for two people love eachOther mutually. Only I love guy and he donât. Or he like me and I donât.
I meet guys that have a lot in common with me and we have strong deep connection/chemsiry & still nothing happens.
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Itâs not difficult finds freaky people , but itâs hard finding a good guy, Iâve talked to many men over the years that like all types of things , even some who seemed less risky and more normal and they all had one thing in common , they werenât good people, Iâm not saying itâs a problem with kinky people , because Iâve met regular men who were jerks too , I think itâs just a generational thing.
Fully agree! Can't find a good kinky guy like ever! If they are then huge red flags! Maybe it's the Internet or bad upbringings or just bad gfs...
Guys don't want to match my dark side just abuse me or use me for sex.
Forget romance!
I think the internet has ruined people tbh , itâs made people not care about peopleâs feeling because they can say anything they want and a act a fool and usually get away with it.
Fully agree! Like there is no reason to ever be nice screw them before they mess with you! Ruins people and dates
Amen. I wish men werenât like that tho , but sadly a good percentage are.
So true a high percentage and girls as kinda like that but way easier to tell. So prefer dating women to boys!
What about you?
Iâm straight , itâd be easier if I was asexual tho.
Would be way better if more of us were asexual. So strap on won't help or can bring my life like dildo?
Just teasing đ
Like watching less surprise babies if we were more a sexual specially in high school
Thankfully I canât have babies.
Lucky! My sister in law can't go on a date without getting a baby! She has the fast pass at family planning.
I guess , it makes it harder for me to ever get a serious relationship tho.
Really? Thought it would be easier? So many guys say they never want kids. Before they knock up a one night stand
I'm sorry
Itâs okay and yeah some guys still want biological kids , so it makes dating somewhat difficult.
Your amazing and you will find someone! Big hug keep looking
Thank you
You canât be too picky. No one is perfect and no matter who youâre with youâre always going to have issues you just have to work through things talk about things together communicate well and forgive each other. Life will always have struggles
Finding that Kink match is extremely difficult especially when they have a preconceived idea of what you may be like sexually , takes a very special person to do role playing well , plus slapping and choking.
It's very difficult, I'm still looking for the right girl.
Very difficult
Yup, that's why I'm still single and a virgin.
well my main problem is i either 1. dont like the girl but they like me 2. like the girl but they end up hateing me 3. i like a girl but then fall for the girl who dosent yet realize she hates me
Finding the right guy or gal is hard for most everyone! The magic of it however is out of nowhere arrives the one totally by surprise and suddenly your as happy as you have ever been.
Because our desires are not realistic, or we want them to be a certain way while we ourselves are not. Receiving but not giving. Not willing to make sacrifices. Or expecting a relationship to only be happy and great.
Hard to find anyone whoâs serious.
Yes or weâre on different wavelengths.
Yes it is always super hard. However, it would also depend on your standards as well
You don't find the good ones by looking. You stumble across them and have to be paying attention.
Agree you don't just stumble on them you look through the dumpster fire of dating till the toxic girls toss out the used good ones.
Nobody says "dating wild", you're going to have to write in normal English if you want an intelligent response
Good luck, and donât give up. There are more kinky people out there than you realize.
No wonder I'm single.
No wonder Mr Bean in the end stayed single
I have specific turn ons. And u can't talk about it on the first date
it's never been that difficult for me
I've only done relationships... nothing casual before
Dating wild? WTF does that mean.
Go to a sex club, thatâs what I do