Can you meet the love of your life if you’re not currently out dating multiple people?

[Tinytina09]

[WalterBlack]

It is probably more likely to happen if you are meeting new people on a regular basis. I'm not sure that you need to go on actual dates with multiple people on a regular basis. But having a hobby, club, sport, hangout, etc where you meet new people should increase the odds of meeting someone who is right for you.

[Tinytina09]

Yeah I go out places a lot. Nothing has ever really solidified. I’ve wondered if I just didn’t look good enough but I’ve been told I’m a 9 (LOL) I really don’t know.

[WalterBlack]

Are you sociable? A guy that wants to approach you is going to look for a sign that you are not going to immediately reject him. Sometimes a woman just needs to say hello. That can be enough to break the ice so that a conversation can start.

[Tinytina09]

I’m pretty stressed a lot. When I let go, things open up around me.

[Tinytina09]

And no I didn’t really smile much at anyone. Maybe it’s a cultural difference thing.

[Adam1978]

It's all about odds, if you aren't out there the odds are minimal but that goes the other way around too, if you put yourself out there too much the odds will go down again. Because you will miss any opportunities because you are splitting your attention to much. And you will grow a reputation.

[MakeUpModel91]

Yes, I met mine through everyday activities. I wasn't looking for him when I found him. I can't have him unfortunately but he will always be the love of my life.

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t know, hasn’t worked in the last decade for me but I’m also not putting myself in positions to meet new people regardless of dating.

[bowenw]

I find it can happen by accident when you least expect it.

[Tinytina09]

Really want to believe this. I’m really depressed a lot because I keep thinking I won’t meet anyone.

[bowenw]

All the women I've had serious long-term relationships with happened totally by chance. In most cases we worked together and first became friends there.

[Tinytina09]

I don’t want to use dating apps or be “exploring multiple options” or whatever. I believe in one true love.

[bowenw]

That is what most people want. I'm sure it will happen to you.

[Tinytina09]

I don’t know how to get rid of the belief that men aren’t romantically attracted to me. Just seems sometimes like they couldn’t care if I just disappeared. But I don't know I could be reading into it too much.

[bowenw]

If you met them on dating apps they could just be looking for as much sex with as many different women as possible.

[slatyb]

You might, but the more candidates you have met, the more likely you will be to make a good choice.

[jahaims]

For sure

[theunicornjp]

Yes. Of course.