Polls

30F and I don’t think I’ll ever shake my core belief that any decently presentable lady has no prob finding a man, a pretty girl well forget about it. I’m very reserved, I’ve always been but was *friendlier* in my early twenties, now I’m borderline antisocial. I always blamed growing up overweight as the reason why I didn’t get attention from guys/wasn’t popular, I lost weight in my early twenties and have maintained my weight loss since (still slim thick). Again, this weight loss didn’t change the attention I got from guys & I was a bit more sociable back then.

I’m told I’m attractive (from all kinds of people for most of my life & not only family/friends) & the only times attractive guys take initiative are on dating apps. And apps are absolute trash as we know, guys I’d find attractive in person have never made it known to me directly. It’s always that RARE occasion where I think one is maybe making eye contact or someone I knew pointed out a guy was looking at me/word of mouth this or that guy found me attractive etc. Then on dating apps, I’d have guys that I initially considered *potential* eventually showing interest in me (asking out etc) after I got to know them a bit more and I just find a way to dip out.

Im so conflicted. I feel invisible & when a guy appeals to me in some way on a dating app (which should be taken with a grain of salt), I just can’t be bothered for whatever the reason is for me at that moment. It’s apathy/anxiety/self sabotage/confusion etc?

The only thing he did was look back at me before leaving the room… I think he was talking to someone (no relationship)

I don’t see him often at church

I feel jealous… it’s like I’m not beautiful.. and all I want is for him to notice me.

I have really cute 13 inch heels, so i'm like 6'2-3 with them... i didn't do the math before buying them..

i'm not asking if it's attractive or not to dudes, but more like is it freaky. will people understand i'm that tall cause i'm wearing heels or will they think i'm a freak of nature. will i stick out so badly

Barbra Branda has been awarded BBC women footballer of the year. However this has caused outrage with many questioning if Barbara is actually a woman. Stories in the right wing press point to Barbra having failed gender eligibility tests although she was registered female at birth.

There's been a lot of backlash on social media from the usual suspects but what's your opinion?

Always been a tom boy which is a girl who behaves, likes traditional boy activities, and hobbies, and who usually dresses in more work appropriate clothes.

Now every one just says I'm trans or closeted trans. Instantly judging Like a woman can't enjoy boyish things or video games still without being secretly a boy inside.

I'm currently 3 months pregnant and not due to start my leave till December 21st.