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Three different guys want to take you out on a first date. Which of these offers do you accept?

Just today, I am hearing more and more women speaking up about how they don't agree with the current "I'm a woman and I hate all men" climate. Ladies, for those of us who feel this way, we need to come together and let these men know!

I said earlier today to a man on this site that there is a "glimmer" of change beginning to shine through all of the hate and disrespect being thrown at men in today's current wave of feminism. So, if you are a woman who cares for and values men, please speak up in a post now. Let's give these men some hope!

Arda Güler left Cristiano Ronaldo behind and became the youngest player to score a goal in his first match in the history of the European Championship.

Both involved a cruel person stealing someone's market value. Men and women are obviously valued differently. When it comes to love and relationships or marriage, what's worse?

- A man that promises the world and purposely wastes the woman's time and years. Then when she gets to a certain age, she gets ditched for someone younger. Not only she doesn't get those years back but she's depressed about possibly not being able to have kids anymore. The guy destroyed her years and her motherhood. We are afterall valued for our youth and fertility. Men don't care too much about our careers.

- A golddigger makes it harder for the rest of us to find a good family-oriented man. She uses him with charm but somehow he doesn't realize what she really is like. She got what she wanted and then wants to ditch him for no reason (just that she got bored, that's it), just for monetary incentive. She gets half of what poor man's hard work, destroying his market value he worked hard for.

I really sympathize with both cases. No one deserves getting their market value destroyed by cruel narcissists. Though personally I think the first case is worse. Money can eventually be earned back even if it takes years or longer. However, once we can't have babies anymore, that's not ever gained back, literally never. If our motherhood is taken away, it's forever gone. Money isn't forever gone.

My coworker always reports my small mistakes to my boss its just petty. To be clear I actually do my job well she just reports me because sometimes Im slow to respond to my coworkers which is not really related to my job mistakes she's like saying Im absent minded when in reality I have anxiety. Or they saying that I can't seem to absorb information quickly when they talk to me like Im slow to respond. We also have a groupchat and she always shout out me whenever I make smallest mistakes but when she makes mistakes I never even report her to our boss but now I do the same to her now I shout out her on our groupchat her mistakes as revenge to her.

The pictures are purely for illustration. Based on your travels, what type of beach backdrop do you like the best?

My boyfriend and I have explained to my mom several times now that I need a much better job (outside of the house that pays hourly) in order for us to move in together later on…. my boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship for over 2 years now. My boyfriend also thinks that my mom doesn’t help me out enough or pay much attention to me and why isn’t she helping me find work….

My mom gets very mad and annoyed anytime we bring the subject up to her and in private she tells me negative things ( I’m gonna get tired out, etc..) and then says why don’t I continue working from home… My mom also thinks my boyfriend is going to make me lose my “disability” benefits that I get due to the fact that I hve severe anxiety and depression and learning disability - if I end up getting a job outside the house….

is she jealous of my relationship? Or is she fearful of me moving out?

ps - everyone loves my boyfriend and he has many friends and is well liked at his job as well

You're apparently in a good relationship but suddenly you've realized there are major incompatibilities. Just love alone isn't enough. Which would be worse:

- Poor communication: You were both in the "falling in love" stage that you failed to see if they share your similar goals and values. Neither of you communicated what you wanted out of the relationship. You've just realized you share nothing in common, have arguments and there is too much drama.

- Getting lied to: You were honest about what you wanted out of the relationship, your goals, values, etc. They pretended to assimilate to your ways and lied so they wouldn't lose you. However, there comes a point they can't keep up with the lie and the truth eventually comes out. You're rightfully upset they pretended to be on your same page.