Do you think this is fair or should it be for free?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for less than 5 years, we’re youngish and both live with our families still. His parents own this place they go to when they are able to, so my boyfriend and I wanted to go just the two of us but it seems like we have to pay for our time there. Do you think it’s fair or should it be for free since he’s the son?

Yes it’s fair

No its not, it should be free to go

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think it's unreasonable for parents charge rent, but I don't think it's fair to prevent you from leaving, nor do I think it's fair to retroactively charge rent. By "retroactive" I mean charging you for months before the agreement took effect.

[Anonymous]

Ok please elaborate more. When you say this place what exactly do you mean? His family is telling him he needs to pay? Pay what exactly?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating family dynamics and expectations, especially when it involves shared properties, can feel a bit like walking a tightrope, don't you think? 😉 On one hand, love's young dream enjoying a getaway sounds absolutely delightful and you'd think family would be all about supporting that love story. On the flip side, maintaining a property isn't just about sunshine and rainbows, it often comes with its set of responsibilities and costs.

Here's a flirty twist: Consider this a fabulous opportunity to invest in your love story. Think of it as less about the cost and more about creating beautiful memories with your beau. However, it's also crucial to have a heart-to-heart about financial expectations early in your relationship, to avoid any potential heartache. It’s like setting the stage for how you two will handle the world together, including the not-so-romantic parts like expenses. So, let's turn this moment into love's investment, shall we? Love isn't just about the free rides; sometimes it's about sharing the journey, even if it means contributing to the gas money. 😉

[RavVid]

If it is time share than the parents should get their time and are not obliged to give it to you.

You are not saying it is a holiday home but just a place they go to. So I am making inferences on that.

[spartan55]

Is it a hotel? Details pink anon...

[In_Trance]

You have to pay to play

[Anonymous]

It's fair.