At what age does a woman’s virginity become a red flag?

Question

I’m getting old and Im getting kind of skittish in terms of dating now. It wouldn’t surprise me if I stay alone until I’m 30

TonyV · Accepted Answer

1 24 isn't old and 2 never? Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Being a virgin is better than having 3 or 4 baby daddies before you're 26.

Being a virgin is only gonna scare away fuckboys that can't be bothered to put in any work cause all they want is a quick nut. So yeah some guys are gonna think " it's gonna take forever to get this chick to put out, forget this" and well that's a good thing, you're better off without the dudes who are basiclly upset that you don't treat yourself like a sexdoll.
Of course you'll have to look out for the silver tongued, smooth talking fuckboys who fetishize virgins... but point is being a virgin isn't a redflag.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Virginity of a man or woman who could get sex if he or she wanted it speaks volumes about their level of self control. I’m not saying anyone is perfect but I would respect someone a lot whose even a lifelong virgin if he or she never met someone they loved.

Its better to keep that piece of yourself because it’s hard to get it back once it’s given away

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I lost mine at 23 and had this asshole tell me that it was pathetic, weird and sad that I waited that long. Just do what makes you feel comfortable and don’t worry about what others think, because there’s always someone who’s going to red flag you no matter what so fuck other people’s opinions.

EyeAmNiceGirl · Accepted Answer

I don't think virginity is a red flag. Absolutely nothing wrong with a person who is a virgin; well, not because she (or he) is a virgin. I know plenty of NON-virgins who you might want to avoid; I just don't think virginity status is a valid reason for a red flag.

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't think it will ever be seen as a red flag per se. But if you're 30 and you're still a virgin, it's highly likely you won't be considering sex with your partner any time soon and because sex is important to most people in a relationship, I think it might deter some people.

ohsheeT · Answer

I wouldn't worry about it as bad as you I think if you probably just got out more often you would have better more luck better chances but. I mean do you talk to people in this app do you talk to anybody in any other apps I mean you have to kind of put yourself out there that you're still a very good age

V_Injector · Answer

Where are you from, race, physical condition, and then and only then I can give you a real answer to this question.

Datboi65 · Answer

Since when does virginity ever become a red flag? That's got to be the most ridiculous thing I've ever read on this portal, and I've seen a lot. The fact that you put a time line on it that comes with an expectation is crazy.

If you're religious, it's what is expected that someone remains a virgin until marriage. Many people don't wait and that's their business, but it becomes insane when they start telling others that they're "late to the party" or putting pressure on then to "lighten up" when that's not their intended purpose.

My parents waited until marriage and I plan on doing the same. I don't care if someone wants to sleep with triple figures before they settle down if they don't tell me what I should do with myself and how I should live my life. I don't give a damn about peer pressure, never have and never will.

VIVANT · Answer

in my opinion no reason to think of it as a red flag. Why should someone have sex if they have not been Interested in having sex with anyone they met 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’d have a higher opinion if someone who didn’t just have sex randomly bc they were worried it’d be seen as a red flag. Plus how would anyone know, unless she told them.

OfDeath · Answer

If she’s 25 and a virgin you think she probably has some kind of social ineptitude or places some kind of crackpot sentimentality or faux purity on virginity due to religious delusions.

You never get another time in your life like that between the ages of 20 and 40 so make the most of it and don’t let it go to waste. Be brave, take risks and enjoy yourself. Getting in the mix like that is how you find a partner for life. You don’t get it by remaining insular and closed off to the world.

Good luck darl.

CuriousHubby · Answer

Wife and me both waited till 30s. Honestly it's only a red flag to those who want sex out of the relationship and not to get to know you and your heart!

They do you a big favor if they avoid you cause you waited. Won't feel like it till latter!

RebelinSteel · Answer

It’s not a red flag, it is her choice and as such not a red flag. There is a caveat to that, if she judges others for not being virgins, then she runs into the being a red flag. It’s not a red flag being a virgin and it’s not a red flag not being a virgin and not married.

Berethor · Answer

When she too old to have children I guess, I always prefer a virgin over a ho of the same age.

KpopMusicFan · Answer

No age. Until she is ready. A woman virginity should not be shammed on cause she chooses to lose it later in life. I like mine when I was 13 and it was by choice and it was with a boyfriend I had. It was very nice experience for me.

MisterWack · Answer

Other Option: NEVER! Some women are waiting for the right guy or just don’t have a sex drive. Who cares? Let women be women, same with let men be men.

Anonymous · Answer

Men in general will always prefer a virgin over being overused regardless of age unless you’re 80 years old or something.
Men who are NOT looking for a relationship will probably be the only ones that care because in those cases they prefer the overused pussy because they know they will get sex in contrast with a virgin of any age, their sexual urge will not be satisfied there as that girl/woman is likely not going to have sex with them if it’s not a real relationship.

Apple1996 · Answer

Maybe at like 30. Not a red flag but more so that she's just missing out on life experiences at that point

laly520 · Answer

never woman's virginity isn't a red flag

tstarr17 · Answer

I didn't vote for any poll options. You don't have sex until you are ready for it and are with someone special. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 29, and that's the only time I've ever done it. Try to make your life the best it can be. If a fantastic guy that loves you for you comes along and wants to be a part of your life, go for it.

MicahRaine · Answer

Never. If you've never had a healthy relationship or you have terrible hygiene,  those  are red flags.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say 30 is a turning point for virginity for both men and women but for different reasons.

For women it's about fertility. After 30 they don't have much time if they want to have kids. They have to worry about that biological clock. It's probably one of the most stressful things in a woman's lifetime.

For men it's more about their natural behavior. If they haven't had sex by 30 that's just not normal.

bulleye · Answer

Being virgin or not having boyfriend/girlfriend is totally ok. It is normal to not loose it until you find the right one. I would respect someone who lost it at 18 if they found the right one. Equal respect will be shown to someone in any age if they didn't find the right one.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Please stop torturing yourself , any decent guy will not care for this, this will trigger their curiosity, and that's all.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Personally I've never seen it as a red flag, the longer they last without sex basically makes them look more in control of their sexual urges.

WhitneySnow · Answer

It’s not a red flag. It’s your right to save yourself for the right guy.

quickquesocheese · Answer

at no age. being a virgin isn't a red flag. i think its more of a red flag depending on the age which someone might have lost it.

bowenw · Answer

It doesn't have an expiry date. It's never a red flag.

imfreeze95 · Answer

It’s never a red flag it is yours to give away when you choose to. It actually shows a lot of self respect if you really buckle down and try to find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

FreyaRed · Answer

I don't think it's a red flag from reference point of boys at any age.

BCRanger10 · Answer

It never should. And 18-24 (assuming your age is correct) is not old.

Coden7 · Answer

Not a red flag. But if she’s never dated or had a boyfriend, I’d be flagging that some.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Same answer that I give about men: it depends on *why* she's a virgin. Nothing wrong with being 25 and still having the V card. I'm almost 33 and still have mine. *shrug*

MyBrainsInsaneReign · Answer

Your icon says you're 18-24. I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at 24.

For a lot of guys, virginity would be a green flag, not a red flag.

You probably have nothing to worry about.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Any woman's age doesn't bother me for her to be a virgin. (18 +)

andreasderjuengere · Answer

In general it's a no-go for me. No matter the age. I'm not a trainer... I'm a user.

Unit1 · Answer

people be creating red flags and planting them on Anything they can plant them on.

Nahid1707 · Answer

How old are you? i think it is sweet if she is waiting for marriage for example, shows she is traditional

CVNT5 · Answer

i would say none. if she's saving herself for her future husband then she should stay as virgin as possible.

zagor · Answer

None of those. She may have committed herself to establishing a career.

clampfan101 · Answer

It doesn’t. Different people start at different ages for different reasons.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

you forgot to add "never" as an option

Pohjolan · Answer

I don't think it becomes a red flag but just weird.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Why should a woman's virginity be a red flag?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

virginity is not a red flag. It’s just means you’ve never had sex.

Nikki1989 · Answer

16 and beyond.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Those aren't red flags love

thearchjoker · Answer

27 so technically 25 to 27

Kelly6 · Answer

Either of the age provider

LiamJHayden · Answer

In isolation, never.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

None of the above. Never.

dragoblack · Answer

40 is the concerning age. You're still young

noohair · Answer

Everything is ok.

DermalPunch · Answer

No age!

Jpie555 · Answer

If you haven’t been laid before 28, seek help!

skyman5000x · Answer

It's never a red flag ever

lexie_xo · Answer

its not a red flag

jazzy34 · Answer

Never.

paledreams · Answer

Some around 32 plus

jahaims · Answer

Never

shortster · Answer

53 .

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆

Anonymous · Answer

Never 🌸

At what age does a woman’s virginity become a red flag?

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Any woman's age doesn't bother me for her to be a virgin. (18 +)

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