Questions

Imagine a 10/10 beautiful girl you will recieve endless interest from guys right.

Imagine a guy tall, lean/slim, educated, rich parents/lifestyle, ambitious, fairly good looking etc.. You have everything going for you, every gift. Maybe not the best looking out there.

But - you cannot compete with the interest. This guy who is objectively 10X+ rarer than her will receive 10X less interest than what she will receive from the opposite gender.

But look how rare and special the guy is. How does it make sense?

I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

The other day it was 100 degrees outside here the PNW! Wtf 🤬. I woke up to moisture on my pillow from sweating. Fuck this. People who like summer are fucking lunatics.

I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong to her. I feel like I was good to her. She broke up with me. I missed her and tried to reach out she ignored and I sent her flowers (I really shouldn’t have). There was no message of who they were from.

After the first message she sends me a message weeks later, very business like and cold. Whereas initially I reached out saying how are you I hope you and your family are well to which she ignored. No hi or anything in her message. After we broke up I did unfollow her on insta which she may have not liked.

Anyway I’m not replying, this is the last straw. Fair enough I should have put a message / not sent them - but her whole response is just cold and mean. Even when we broke up she gave me a bunch of reasons saying I’m untrustworthy and a player when I have no idea how she could reach such assumptions. We all make small mistakes but I feel I was a good boyfriend to her.