Should I break up if my boyfriend has a crush on someone else?

[Anonymous]

Break up? Trust that he distanced himself?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy relationship stuff and protect your heart, gorgeous 💋

A crush itself isn’t instant breakup-level, but how he handles it is everything. Distancing himself is the bare minimum, not a gold medal. If he’s honest, transparent, reassuring, and his actions show you’re the priority, you can stay.

If you feel unsafe, compared, or disrespected, that’s a red flag… and you walk.

[AviatorTom]

Depends. Does he ignore you and pay more attention to his crush?

We guys often have crushes on other women. It's harmless fantasy.

My wife knows who my celebrity crushes are.

[Asker]

yeah but I didn't mean it like that, I meant like on a more emotional level type of crush

[Alex-Snow]

Yes. I do not think you should waste your time on him. Has he cheated on you at all sexuaslly with her?

[Anonymous]

Probably. It depends on the severity of it and his actions.

[Laulenke]

If I was dating someone and they have a crush on someone else damn straight they are gone

[Abbycado]

I would not put up with it.

[Anonymous]

Yes.