Questions

And by ‘fix’ i mean trying to help resolve their issues or change them into a better person in your mind anyways.

Are they crazy women?

So I was at the dentist on Thursday in the waiting room and I see an attractive girl come out of the store next to the dentists office. A few minutes later I see another one go in. Then as I'm leaving, I see another attractive girl leave, so I'm like "what's that store?" Turns out it's a vape store. Flash forward to today, and I'm leaving the gym, just driving along and I see an attractive girl leave a vape store. So now I'm thinking is this a trend amongst girls, particularly attractive ones, or nah? Let me know if y'all vape or got friends that do.

About their looks or whatever.

I tend to hear this. Obviously it depends on the person

I’m 41 and I’m still in excellent shape. Reason being I exercise daily and I usually stick to a very healthy diet.

Anyway I became more self conscious about not showing my body off in pics or in public by my mid 30s. I don’t really feel comfortable going shirtless even at a beach/pool.

I do have one shirtless pic showing my abs off but it’s never something I will show a woman right away. I usually will show it once if she shows me a few suggestive pics (I don’t like nudes tbh but it’s nice to see what kind of body she has). Definitely not something I keep on social media though

Anyway I am well aware of the “creep” element guys my age have to watch out for. We got a lot less leeway vs guys in their early 20s on all of this.

But at the same time I’m wondering if I’m sometimes shortchanging myself by keeping an attractive asset I still have hidden. Is there a way to let a woman know about this without looking immature/creepy?

And yes I am well aware how women care about personality, drive, humor, money etc. Don’t need a lecture of on that. But this is one thing that can make me go from a 7 to an 8 on a pure physical attraction scale. But if done wrong it can look very bad.