Why would a girl act nervous around you after rejecting you?

[Anonymous]

She went from very friendly to shy and nervous around me. I’m still being nice to her. I liked her personality and I still do

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1 y

She was nervous at times even before I asked her out. She’s not shy but there were times she looked nervous around me

[Guy13]

She may have done that unconsciously grounded in surprise, fear, and woman emotionality. It does not mean No. She also does not sound like the game playing No who wants to see how bad you really want it…if you will come again.

Treating her kindly is exactly right. The last thing she needs “if she made an emotional mistake with No” is to be treated badly because of her “mistake.”

it is highly likely that she did not have an inkling that you liked her. Now that it is clear that you do, she will either be nervous or begin avoiding you. These are all Tests…or will be treated as such. Be happy, 👋 hey if keeping distance etc. Hopefully, you will get a chance to engage circumstantially so as not to be pressured packed.
Give her three weeks to “get over her reaction to you.”

the sense of upset

[art84]

She probably feels bad about rejecting you.

[Asker]

She actually said she’ll think about it. I thought she was giving vibes that she likes me

[art84]

I had a girl do that as well but she was already in a relationship with a guy. I bet if she wasn't in one, she would have gone out with me.

[Curiousexy]

She might be nervous and a bit self concious now, especially if she is kinda shy like you said. She probably likes you as a friend and is feeling a bit awkward. It should pass with time.

Now, if she's REALLY nervous, like clearly uncomfortable around you, that you feel like she doesn't want much contact, you should just tell her that you didn't mean to make her uncomfortable and that you hope you can still be friends, and then give her some space.

[UnknownPuppet]

Because she likes you as a person and she feels bad