Polls: Relationships

How would u feel if when they gave u their work cell number, they give you advice for ur pet, then go into telling u how they're interested in you and so on. Would you feel awkward? Also, they have a girlfriend.

Personally, I'd feel like if they do this with me, they're doing this w/everyone. So I would not want a relationship with them outside of professional.

Like say you're not the type of guy that wants relationships, whereby you're more comfortable with a friends with benefits arrangement. Would it still hurt your feelings if you asked a girl if she wanted to be friends with benefits with you, and she said no?

My initial assumption is that you wouldn't care too much, given the lack of investment you'd have to give in order to achieve friends with benefits vs. actual girlfriend.

Would it make a difference depending on her reasoning (ex. she doesn't think the two of you are compatible, whereby she implicitly would do it with someone else; she only does serious relationships AND OR she would prefer to have a serious relationship with you)?

My husband spanks me. Not all the time but if I slap his face or shove him during an argument or if I'm being an asshole he does. Before you judge, we've been together as friends and partners for over half our lives. He said he's a spanker now and it's not as weird as I think. He said he's not putting up with my behavior and I know it's coming.

Please don't troll or be an a hole. Serious answers only.