Guys, does it actually hurt your feelings when you ask a girl to be friends with benefits and she says no?

Bethany22

Like say you're not the type of guy that wants relationships, whereby you're more comfortable with a friends with benefits arrangement. Would it still hurt your feelings if you asked a girl if she wanted to be friends with benefits with you, and she said no?

My initial assumption is that you wouldn't care too much, given the lack of investment you'd have to give in order to achieve friends with benefits vs. actual girlfriend.

Would it make a difference depending on her reasoning (ex. she doesn't think the two of you are compatible, whereby she implicitly would do it with someone else; she only does serious relationships AND OR she would prefer to have a serious relationship with you)?

Hurts my feelings (because she'd probably do the same arrangement with another guy)
Wouldn't hurt my feelings (as long as it was because she'd prefer a serious relationship with me)
Wouldn't hurt my feelings, because I don't have feelings for friends with benefits girls
Hurts my feelings, whether or not she'd do it with another guy, as I still care about my friends with benefits girls
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Guys, does it actually hurt your feelings when you ask a girl to be friends with benefits and she says no?
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