Girls, did you ever notice that when you hug a guy you're close to, all of your problems melt away?

[4465loveyou5577]

I don't know how to explain it, but when one of my guy friends hugs me, my mind all of a sudden oes blank. It seems like in a moment, all of my worldly woes melt away and also feels so warm and safe; like nothing can ever hurt me again. Sure, hugging other girls makes me feel loved but it doesn't invoke this same feeling. Also, side and gap hugs just don't cut it; it has to be a proper hug where everything from your shoulders to your thighs are up against the person that you're hugging. The tighter the hug the better (Until you start having breathing difficulties :P ) and some other things that just give me such a sense of security is when he puts one of his arm around my waist and the other around my shoulderblades and doesn't just wrap his arms around me but actually holds the side of my waist and lat with his hand. Tucking my head between his chin and chest is just dome icing on the cake <3 . I know it sounds romantic but I don't even have to have romantic feelings for a hug to invoke that feeling. Sure I feel it when I hug my boyfriend but I also experience this same feeling when I hug my guy friend or my brother. Does anyone else feel this way?

I love getting that feeling from hugs

Side and gap hugs invoke that feeling for me too

Hugging other girls also makes me feel that way

Hugs make me feel loved but don't invoke a sense of security

I only see hugs as a greeting like a handshake

I don't hug

Other

[takumii]

There is a certain threshold of how many instructions a brain can take, before it yells "Fuck this" and sits in a corner.

When you are in a desperate situation, that number of instructions is high, when you get hugged by a guy, brain gets overloaded with more instructions "Whoa! that was sudden" "It feels so warm""Why did he hug me?" " does he like me?" "I am so lucky"
and it crosses the threshold and the brain says " Fuck this " and deletes everything, the instruction count becomes 0.

[4465loveyou5577]

It's not "{when I get hugged by a guy" because 95% of the time I initiate the hugging ;)

[takumii]

Knife drop on watermelon or watermelon drops on knife, the watermelon is the one that gets cut. Girls are the emotional creatures here, :P

[4465loveyou5577]

Yeah, and is there something wrong with being emotional (not withstanding it's a relative term)

[takumii]

Did I say there was anything wrong with being emotional.
Is it your habit to jump into fights, or are you having the delightful few days of the month that women usually do.

[4465loveyou5577]

Well, given your past history of comments on my posts I think it's understandable.

[takumii]

Well, considering your inability to not take jokes seriously, I kinda expected such behavior.

[4465loveyou5577]

There are things that should and should not be joked about

[takumii]

I have a real moron thing I do which is called thinking..
and it happens to be different than yours.. If you have 10 minutes, watch this video, if you didn't find that enlightening , you might at least find it funny.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwMukKqx-Os

[4465loveyou5577]

But when you're online there is no context or exaggeration because online you can't tell who's being serious and who isn't

[takumii]

One does not need to be a rocket scientist to see the exaggeration in that, if one guy can then others can too.. and if they still can't , not my fault.. they are supposedly misinterpreting.

[4465loveyou5577]

It doesn't matter in a rocket science or not, without nonverbal clues it's hard to tell if people are being sarcastic or serious, now bye bye :)

[Bexxiib]

I don’t feel that way with every guy, if a guy hugged me and I didn’t want a hug I’d be like ‘Get off me!’ I’m not much of a hugger, a hug has to be when I want a hug. However if I knew someone and knew their kindness and still, when I need a hug and they hug me, I feel safe, secure, protected and calmer and that can be with guys and girls family, friends and significant others and kids (I don’t have a significant other or kids but it definitely would be the same if I did)

[Anonymous]

Lol no I'm pretty sure my phone bill does not go away after I get a hug