Does it bother you to see your crush hug another guy?

[Anonymous]

Guys does it bother you (even if it's just a little bit) to see a girl you have a crush on, hug another guy in front of you? Be honest. :]

[Anonymous]

It depends on motive:

1) If she is doing it as a game/test (and its always blatantly obvious), it does not make me jealous, it makes me lose respect for her and I'll pretty much lose all interest in her at that point. I will not have a crush on her anymore and I'll move on.

2) If she is hugging a long time friend or family member as a greeting then I'm fine with that.

3) If she his hugging someone that is hurt, or sick then it comes off as compassionate, warm, and caring and I'll gain respect for her.

The fact is the little jealous game only backfires on you girls. Its one of the dumbest misinformed things you laddies do.

[bob01]

well one girl that I had a crush on long time ago, she hugged another friend of her who was a girl, and I knew she was doing intentionally, so yes it kind of bothered me. Yes I've seen her playing with another guy and not only bothered me but it almost turned me off.

[geeyonce]

im not a guy but...obviously it bothers them..we are also bothered as girls when this happens 2 the guy we have a crush on...doesnt it?

[MachineMan]

Ye I am way jelous, got into a fight with a guy at a night club because he took the girl I was dancing with all night when I went to get some drinks. Stupidest thing I have ever done, I barely knew her.

[Lupianwolf]

If we were boyfriend and girlfriend and she was doing it to a friend I wouldn't mind, if I knew the guy was a jackass then yeah I'd get annoyed

[TjTheHelper]

Yes it bothers it happened to me yesterday I was so jealous because, she doesn't even hug me I was jealous all day girls are not the only ones who get jealous

[Anonymous]

It kills me, especially if I really care about them

[Anonymous]

Makes me sad.

Unless it's a good friend of mine or a good friend of her's.

[rocksongwriter]

Of course.

[Anonymous]

It even hurts me