Guys, (girls can chime in), a question about play fighting?

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Alright I think we can all say we've play-fought or "wrastled" our siblings and SO's in our time, but my question to you guys today is how far do you take it, and does it bother you if your girl takes it further than you expect? Also, how important to you is it to "win" a play fight? :P

I don't know if I'm apparently just more competitive than I realized but every time me and my boyfriend playfight I always try my best to actually "win" - always taking it a step further. We've never legitimately hurt each other by any means, but if he even cutely flicks water at me while doing dishes I'm cupping two hand-fulls and throwing it at him, because I'm a god damn instigator. We always make up though lol, it's all in good fun, no hurt feelings.

Ladies of course you can weigh in too: how do you feel about play fighting and how far do you take it?

Rachelpolis · Accepted Answer

I absolutely love play fighting. Since I have martial arts training, I can even beat my guy too. When I first beat him, he looked pretty embarrassed and I was worried if I should have let him win. Later on, he admitted while it was embarrassing, it was also hot having me pin him down like that (I used the typical schoolgirl pin and sat on his arms with my legs). We now play fight a lot with me winning most of the time. I love watching him squirm around and try to break free from my holds. When he actually does beat me next time, it's also a turn on as well. No matter who gets pinned, it's a win-win for both of us.

Izumiblu · Accepted Answer

I get pretty aggressive with my guy, but he usually picks the fights. I have accidentally poked him in the eye and sent him to the clinic... that was purely accident though, we were fighting and my hand slipped and hit him in the eye.

I also hit him in the face with a large nerf gun and bloodied his nose... that ws more an accident too... i mean i ws trying to hit him, but i thought he would block it and well... he didn't lol.

But yeah, i fight to win and i get mad too, but im like half his size so im not really a threat to him. He just laughs at me, which makes me more mad.

randomhobo · Accepted Answer

i love fighting my girlfriend or boyfriend. Win most of the time too because being a gymnast means I'm flexible and strong so I can pin them down better. i love getting them at my mercy and having them say that theyre my bitch in order to be try released

most boys don't like if i win though.

Curious625 · Accepted Answer

Play fighting can be tricky depending on the two people. There's usually always one person that gets way to into it and then it becomes a real fight lol. That's what always happened with me and my siblings tbh.

YourFutureEx · Accepted Answer

I love to lose fights like this. The face she makes in ecstasy is so fulfilling. But I don't always lose tho. There are some moments when I totally dominate her ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
It should be kept in proper limits and I believe everyone has that basic understanding.
I would also love to see surprise knockouts.

With siblings?
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Siblings.
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Is that a new Pokémon?
I don't have siblings. But hey, I do have cousins and brothers from different mothers and you know what, we take it as far as you can see in the ring.

dolemite68 · Accepted Answer

I think its fun when girls can get aggressive I don't want you to be a complete doormat but the whole point of play fight with a girl to me is yes she can give it back to me if i'm messing with her but I should always win because when it comes down to it i'm the man and she's a submissive girl that ultimately likes to be manhandled. if you did that water thing to me I would laugh my ass off then pin you down and kiss you : )

Drooogie4 · Answer

I fight to the death. Jk, he's stronger than me. And we never actually hurt eachother. Just launch eachother off the bed sometimes hahah

Oneboy · Answer

Well as long as he doesn't hit you like a man I thin it's good but I think he should let you win ya know like it give a female a sorce of accomplishment that your stronger then him. For instance my girl is 5'2 and I'm 6'4 when we play fight I always lose but sometimes she pins me down and I kiss her and she calls it a win but seeing her pretty face on top make me sweat. So I'm my opinion it does get outta hand sometimes but in the end I know my girl can kick my ass

moonpie89 · Answer

It's fun. You stop before you're thinking about doing something ( like bending their fingers far backwards) that could potentially really hurt the other person

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

Just know that nearly all fighting between guys and girls could easily be over faster than most girls think... and no, I don't mean straight up ray ricing her either 😂

klementina-y · Answer

I know that feeling, I like to get hella competitive and always try my best to win, I just enjoy being stubborn as well , I don't know why I like to see him get mad so easily 😂

genericname85 · Answer

haha a true gentleman loses every play fight with his girl :P with siblings it´s about actually winning though xD

Funerestle · Answer

Hi, play fighting is so much fun, do it all the time with my wife. She loves the supprise attack, when I least expect it. Love how she get so competitive, and never wants to loose. Have to say though she has learned some mean holds over the years and has only gotten better at it. Now in all honesty I struggle to win like 1 out of 10. I guess that's what's makes her special to me.

Littlett25 · Answer

Eh I feel like it would start out fun but then I don't like to lose so I don't know how it would end lol

Lithium65 · Answer

do I have to win? It kinda depends on the moment. But when I'm determined to win... I'm gonna win. by that I mean, on top of her, holding her arms down until she gives up. if I have to cheat by spanking or turning on, so be it.
she can win next time. ;j

Hans222 · Answer

As long as no one gets hurt and the house isn't damaged, I would enjoy it... I love the girl so let her play :D

Travianz · Answer

I'm weird. I like winning, but I adore being completely debased to <3. A girl that can completely overpower me is one hell of a turn-on.

SlitherySnake · Answer

I like playfighting. My ex and I used to kind of wrestle. She'd try to get me either on the ground or into a submission. Lol. Im a large dude and she was quite small so she never won haha

DamnCurtis · Answer

I'll go easy. Let's be honest here if things got competitive I'd win haha.  My girl is pretty sensitive so I wouldn't take it super far. So definitely not two handfuls of water. One max =>

Shaft50 · Answer

I'm very competitive but I keep the contest fairly close, as it is always a good form of foreplay... her winding up on top is a bonus

Hidden_P · Answer

I'm the same. I want to win. I will elevate but by bit but usually him tickling me is the end and he knows. It ends with kicks and punches from me for him to stop. I hate being tickled

Redstang88 · Answer

She can take it as far as she wants, won't hurt me. I'll allow a win once in a while, depends on my mood I guess.

Bobbyhill1 · Answer

if she gets serious then I would just choke slam her through glass table. Thats just me though

Yumix · Answer

honestly, never really did it with my siblings. when doing it with a girl I want her to go all out though... makes it more fun

Waffles731 · Answer

my siblings and I ended up with some good bruises after every fight so my parents put a stop to that.

Dewey99 · Answer

Well personally once play fights get going I let her do whatever she wants for some time thinking she's getting under my nerves but then I just pick her up and tickle and that's the end of that.

martyfellow · Answer

I've had girls who took it pretty darn far. When they won, usually because I was afraid to hurt them, they'd punish me for it.

pnl86 · Answer

Reading this honestly made me feel old. I have zero interest in play fighting or regular fighting anymore. I'm bored just thinking about it.

Octavius · Answer

I think if it goes past the point of it not feeling like it's playful anymore that's when I think it's getting too competitive.

venomhbk1313 · Answer

I'll lose On purpose to have a hot night of romantic love making lol

adamski24 · Answer

It's last man/woman standing. no holds bar fight.

scooogy · Answer

Wow... you really sound instigating. I'd always let my girl win

Gator1478 · Answer

I love play fighting and I’ve been the one to win… except for earlier today😅. My girlfriend grabbed my sack and squeezed making me call her my queen and I had to tap out.

Anonymous · Answer

The best part of play-fighting a girl is losing. Sexy as hell!

malealpha00 · Answer

I used to choke slam her cos I have the strength and height advantage

iskate83 · Answer

When you say you always make up afterwards what do you mean?

Birdy5 · Answer

it always ends in kissing so what does it matter?

Sheri-b · Answer

Have you ever felt a good feeling when you were holding a boy on the ground when you play fight?

ThePlug · Answer

I love play fighting with my girl and I let her win I think it's sexy and sometimes it leads to great sex

Seppelson · Answer

I fight with half power i don' want to win. She's my girlfriend not my enemy

Wingedz · Answer

Try hard but let her win at the end.

Maxemeister · Answer

If she tries to win then suddenly I try to win

Anonymous · Answer

you are beautiful😊🙈

HarrisonWells · Answer

sounds fun

Anonymous · Answer

i like losing to girls;)

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