Polls: Relationships

I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point

Guy 1: 5'9 215 lbs. Built, but soft and snuggly. Cares a lot about people and animals. Owns his own business. He loves nature and the simple things in life. he's the kind of guy that wants to stay home on a Friday night, playing video games, watching movies, or eating pizza with you. He likes horseback riding and volunteering his time for a good cause is very fulfilling for him. Average size penis.

Guy 2: 6'0 165 lbs. Tall and quite skinny. Plays guitar in a band and works as a DJ on the side. He loves music and has a passion for traveling. He loves partying with is friends and is somewhat of an adrenaline junkie. He is exciting, and a little wild, but would give you the shirt off his back. Has a huge, 8.5 inch penis and extremely thick.

I have spent several years as a bachelor, not living with anyone, and I long ago learned how to be self-sufficient. I can cook and bake very well. I keep a clean house; I know how to use a vacuum cleaner and I know how to operate a mop. I also know how to shop at a grocery store and keep a well-sticked pantry. I do my own laundry (except white dress shirts) and I can sew a button on a shirt.

When I am in a relationship, my partner is also employed so I am conscious of dividing the chores evenly at home. In my current relationship, by her choice, she does all of the cooking and clean up afterwards (about 5-7 meals per week) and I do everything else except her personal laundry. That seems like a fair division to me. With previous partners, we have rotated cooking and cleanup duties, and with one partner, we did all of the chores together (e. g., we would both cook part of each meal and both help with the cleanup.)

How do you divide the chores in your household? Do you think the division you have is fair to both of you?