Polls: Relationships

Just something I saw on a message board.

agree or disagree ladies?

Ladies.. And I'm mostly interseted in the ladies take on this, but I'll also listen to men..

Briefly, I'm 46 and in decent shape, just getting out of a marriage of 18 years and not emotionally tied up with my ex-wife.. I met a girl who was 32 about 5 months ago, and we started out as friends "Friendzone" and after a few failed attempts I finally broke out of the friendzone (after we actually decided not to see each other anymore, she called me a week later and asked me to come get her)..

Anyway, we dated and she told me she was ok with "Friends with benefits" and didn't really want to call us "boyfriend and girlfriend" or in a relationship... After about 2 months of amazing times and sex, I fell for her.. I began to be needy.. I admit it, and she also told me I was being too needy (mainly in that I always wanted sex, and she would sometimes, especially when she was PMS, not want it at all).. moreover, I got a bit jealous of some of her "guy friends" and in a nutshell, made a few mistakes.. we were up and down for a month or so then about two weeks ago, her sister let her parents know about us, and her parents who are both minsters in a church, pressured her to not have sex with me.. so she told me, "I just want to be friends, no sex".. I told her I don't know if I can handle that, but after about 2-3 days I texted her and said, I'd be ok with being friends... my heart tells me otherwise by the way.. I'm not madly in love, but I am a bit infatuated, and part of me feels like this girl is way younger, and very attaractive and I don't feel I'm going to be able to land one like her again so easily.. plus, as a bonus, in bed we were a perfect fit, down to our prevesions!

So my question is this... Shall I remain friends with her? and try to again get out of the friends zone.. and this time be LESS needy.. give her more space, don't get upset if she talks to other guys, etc? Or shall I just tell her "I can't be just friends, call me if you change your mind, otherwise nice knowing you"

Even her sister told me I was being too needy, and a bit of a doormat.. I was always available for her, and broke a lot of the "rules" of being hard to get, mysterious, etc..

What to do?

The amount of guys who are still virgins, and never have a girlfriend is rampant, and you get some clear incite into this from guys here who state they've never kissed a girl, or are still virgins. More so with boom of cam girl's, many men have opted out in pursuing for a real loving relationship and settle for some random girl being nice to them over the internet in exchange for giving her cash.

Could this article give incite into female hypergamy, and perhaps women's views on what they think qualify as a man to actually be in a relationship with. Many people give reference to the 80/20 rule in which women all coddle around a small clique of men to have sex/relationship with. So when women say they aren't enough men around, are they saying they aren't enough high quality tall,, rich, handsome men around to commit/have sex with them?

What do you think?

A little snippit from the article:

"This got Birger, a former economics writer for Fortune and Money, thinking: How could a man of that age be so cavalier about casting aside such an amazing woman? And why do we all have similar stories of incredible female friends trapped for years in dating hell? Why are there so many great single women? Where are all the great single men?"

Link:https://www.vice.com/read/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253

. when these guys are only ever going to be willing to hit then quit it while the look for a woman who is at there level. While there are so many good guys out there and all you ever here from these women is where are all the good men?

Her daughter is 22.

I just turned 19 a week ago and I've had this roommate about 6 weeks because I can't afford a house just yet and she's been great. She makes an awesome breakfast and we always watch TV together at night. She's also quite beautiful but we're just friends or at least what I thought. I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 weeks ago who I was with for 4 months, because she thought I was cheating on her with her but I wasn't and I didn't want to leave my living arrangement just because she doesn't trust me. Ok so yesterday I was sleeping and some sounds woke me up and I see my roommate saying a name I couldn't make out but I teased her about it today and she started blushing and said she had to go to work even though she doesn't have work on Tuesdays. She came back right at the time I was finishing my shower and she was blushing so much she couldn't look at me. I could be wrong, because I mostly am lol. I was looking forward to watching Limitless with her :( but I gotta admit I've had a few dreams about her and they aren't PG rated lol.

Ok so my gurl told me I was the 3rd smallest dick she ever had... I never measure myself before because I didn't care but now I kinda do it hurt my ego when she told me that.. my dick is about the same height as a 16 oz water botte and about half the thickness. . So what I wanted to ask u ladies is that a nice size cock? And she also told me that when we 1st started going out she was cheatin on me with a lot of guys and I mean a lot she doesn't even no the number (60-100) thats how bad. She was tellin me this because she said she couldnt take it any more that she loved me and the she wanted the spent the rest of her like with me and she couldnt hold the lies and much longer. There was a lot more she told me that day but these were the 2 big ones that stood out. Well anyways what I wanted to ask y'all would ya stay or move on?

Oh we have 2 kids

About four years ago, I got into a fight at my highschool. Though I had plenty of friend, I didn't talk that much. At that point i was a senior and is been on the wrestling team since freshman year. The fight ended with a takedown, and it knocked the wind out of the other guys lungs. After that day the amount of female attention I got increased drastically. A similar event happened in college when a bunch of girls came to watch wrestling matches. Do women have some attraction to violent men? Or is it an attraction to strength or domination.