Let say your girlfriend looked like this when you met her in her early 20's.
Fast forward 5-6 years and she now looks like this:
She didn't do any drugs, or party hard for those 5-6 years. She just aged really badly but still the same person you fell in love with. Would you break up with her?
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If your girlfriend went from HOT to NOT. Would you break up with her?
Um... she still looks really good, so I think you have unrealistic standards if this is what you consider aging poorly.
If you don't see yourself ever being with someone with wrinkles/crows nest, under eye bags, looser skin (aging), maybe even stretch marks or other blemishes... do yourself a favor and do not get married or in a serious relationship. That is how people age.
If you are not familiar with the aging process, you should not be with a woman for an extended period of time (and waste her time and break her heart when you inevitable dump her for the person fresh out of the cradle) and forever keep going after young women.
I would stay with my partner if he aged badly because I love him and I don't have an ego the size of the moon. (What makes me any better than him that I should go off and find a replacement and just throw him away because he doesn't look as good as he used to? How can anyone seriously justify this behavior?)
If you love someone and they are the same person and they only aged poorly, you are a terrible person for leaving them.
Wow! I can't believe she really looks like that now? It's a little sad.. Cause she was so cute!!!
Anyway!! If this was reversed, and the guy I marry later transforms into an ugly man, I will still love him the same! Unless he's given or don't things to make me feel differently, but on just looks? I think I'll love him even more! ( assuming I loved him to begin with) ... However, if he turns into a gigantic balloon, even with the same face as when he was young, well maybe then I could possibly start to lose interest... But not just based on aging or looking uglier with age and such.
Hell no you don't break up with somebody you love just because they show signs of aging. What kind of commitment is that? If you love her, you love her after she has aged poorly and you trust that she won't leave you when you age poorly.
Hell naw !! We are all going to age , some do so gracefully and some don't. That's why physical appearance is cool but I am all about the personallity, that is a constant unless I cause her to change toward me
"Your hand fits in mine like it's made just for me But bear this in mind, it was meant to be And I'm joining up the dots with the freckles on your cheeks And it all makes sense to me...
I know you've never loved the crinkles by your eyes when you smile You've never loved your stomach or your thighs, the dimples in your back at the bottom of your spine But I'll love them endlessly
I won't let these little things Slip out of my mouth But if I do It's you Oh it's you They add up to I'm in love with you And all these little things." ... 🎶🎶🎶
I'm not a fan on 1D, but these lyrics hit the meaning lol
Sarah Michelle Gellar is a bad example cause no matter how she aged, I'd still be with her <3
On topic, yes I still would be with my girlfriend. If she physically changed that way due to drugs and health issues, I would try to guide her back on the right track. She's still the same person mentally so that should not change my mind unless I based my love off of her physical appearance which I do not.
There is no way that is 5 years. And the only way I'd "leave" someone for getting uglier is if they were to let themselves go and not maintain a decent fit by at least moderate exercise every once in a while. I'm not saying I want a defined body or stuff, just not fat.
Sarah Michelle Geller is almost 40! That's way more than 5-6 years from the first picture. Also, at least choose a decent photo of her lol she still looks great. Her hubby Freddie Prince Jr. looks quite different from his early 20's body as well!
So she stopped paying for professional photographers and airbrushing in her pictures? That *BITCH*!
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Well considering that many women leave if the guy looses his money or job isn't it justifiable if he leaves because she lost her looks? After all most women tend to bring little else to a relationship that a man dosen't other than looks and sex, and the man is still expected to be a provider. So fare is fare.
But the last pic is still hot though... if she didn't have a sense of personal hygiene, completely let herself go, bad health due negligence then yea I would probably break it off.
Did you not read the OP? He said a girl in her 20s and then looked like that 5-6 years later. I stated it's extremely rare people age this quickly that young so most of the time drugs are involved if it happens. Obviously I'm going to age and get old someday so I'd stay with my future wife when she ages at 40. Dumb to divorce someone for a natural event in life. I suggest you read the OP before commenting next time.
OP also said drugs and partying weren't involved. Your girlfriend just aged a lot and looks like that now (still in her 20s). Why don't you take your own advice and read before commenting?
@dudeman dating women who are at the oldest 23 is stupid because you think it is okay to dump them if they show signs of aging but should be with you when you have signs of aging.
@funny_strange_man who said any of that? why would i dump a girl for getting old? thats just part of life. however im not going to stat dating a women when she's already old thats just silly.
You are pathetic. By your standards anyone 30yrs or older should be dead. At most you would be with somone for 6 years. What if people start to call you their grandpa one day because of how you look?
@funny_strange_man the most ill be with somebody is six years lol no. just because a women gets old doesn't mean i would leave her. i just dont want to start dating an old women.
@funny_strange_man of course not. i wouldn't even pursue long term relationships at that point. or at least nothing serious id just want sex and friendship no commitment though.
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