What's the longest you've gone without talking to your significant other after a disagreement in the relationship?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has been hot and cold lately, and it all culminated in her blowing me off last weekend to hang out with her girlfriends. This wouldn't be a big issue if it weren't for her hot and cold behavior, I almost felt like I was begging to spend time with her. So, after she blew me off and wasn't willing to make plans for the next night, I decided to give her space because it seems she needs to sort some things out. It's been 3 days now, which is around the longest we've gone without communicating since our "pre-relationship" days. If it's worth anything, she sent the last text. Ladies, if you've needed space to figure things out how long have you needed (Days? A week? Longer?) Did you want your boyfriend to refrain from contacting you, or did you want him to be the more mature person and reach out to you? What's the longest you've gone without speaking to your significant other without breaking up?

[gam3vidz]

This is a risky subject your playing with fire my dude. But be the bigger person and attempt to make contact and do it in person don't do it over text. You can read someone's emotions in person rather than over the phone it would tell you a lot now im not telling you to go fill Rambo but still. A woman in their nature are emotional creatures and guys typically think logically and direct take grocery shopping, for example, you go in and get your shit get out. A woman will typically (most not all) plan ahead of the week while doing their shopping like dry cleaning or getting gas or planning meals. But always remember to protect your self no matter how you feel just do it. When and if you talk to her have a friend present or take you the reason is her behavior is irrational but she could always claim you touched her or did something (I know its fucked up to say this but it is what it is 2018) but to answer your question I went 4 weeks without talking to her due to she wanted some time to rethink the relationship and I just surrounded my self with friends and family made it seem im really happy I dodged a bullet she texted me not so nice things then was super jealous. Or the possibility she wants you to step up and make the effort remember a relationship is like marriage give and take if you're putting all of this to make it work and she's not then move on my dude

[BCRanger10]

We hit a rough spot about six or seven months ago. There were one or two days when we texted just a handful of times throughout the day. So not super long, but still unusual for us.

If you don't mind my asking, what did she say in this last text?

[Pizza_lover159]

1 day. We talk everyday even if we had a fight , we still ask how the other one is feeling. Relationships have up and downs.. that doesn't mean yoou need to cut off ties and block them.. its a diffrence from giving space to ghosting your partner for a while. I have been with the same guy for 2 years and it hasn't been a time where we stopped talking because of an argument. This type of things should be talked face to face. Not over text.

[kk8615]

When my boyfriend and I get in a fight we usually have to walk away from each other before we say things we regret. I like to have 12 hours or so to cool down. He's about the same. Everyone's different and needs varying amounts of time to cool down. I'd still reach out to her though and say how you feel

[happyhippo]

A night, cause we went to bed. We discussed it in the morning. You shouldn't leave arguments hang around like that, you should discuss them and solve them as soon as possible or else they'll grow.

[QueenofCups]

You should reach out to her. She didn't specifically ask for space.

[Browneye57]

Sounds like a match made in heaven. LOL
You're still hanging around WHY again?

Bitches ain't shit. :)

[Anonymous]

You gave her enough time to get over the disagreement

Now you should contact her otherwise she might start thinking something wrong about you

[Gottabsavagee]

Less than a day. If it was more it was us breaking up lol.

[michymouse]

Literally minutes

We both admit we are stupid

[Aleera]

Like 5 minutes

[avalonbob]

Maybe 10 minutes.

[Lance1965]

A few hours.

[Montana07]

Like an hour

[emma_1567]

2 weeks ,

[Piteka5]

Forever ahahah

[Knowbetternow1]

Before the sun sets

[Sixgun77]

I think two days.

[TsubasaCorrupted]

30 minutes.

[RBrandon]

Like an hour