We haven't talked in two weeks, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm feeling sad over the fact that he we haven't talked in two whole weeks which is the longest I've gone without talking to him. I don't know why this has happened, he is always the one to reach our first and he has told me that many times. If it wasn't for him we would not be talking like now. This makes me wonder if he's actually is interested? If he really wanted to be with me then why hasn't he texted? I'm confused what we are as well because we started out dating, he did all the work then after these three months he texted me less and i did not text him so for some reason he tried to booty call me and gets upset that he never hear from me. Later on I reached out for him and he was really happy that I did so we met up, as silly as it sounds just before I came over he went out on social media about being in love in front of all family and friends. I did not dare to confront him about it so I let it go, the day after that he booty called me again? I gave in thinking he might disappear after sex but he reaches out for me saying that he wants me to reach out for him! I did but once again he ends up booty calling me. He stroked my hair, he teased me, he noticed the little changes, laughed way too hard at my jokes and cuddled me after sex. He said in person that I never ever reach out for him, should I take that as in he wants me to? I haven't talked to him since, I expected him to text me but it hasn't. Now I don't know if he's not interested or if he is waiting for me to do so?

[guy532]

He's waiting for you to text him, to see if you're actually interested or care about him. If you never reach out to him first it means you don't care enough to keep the relationship going. I'm going through the same thing. I have/had a friend who always seemed interested in texting, but she NEVER texted me first. I only realised this after she ignored a couple of my texts so I decided that if she actually cares about me she'd reach out. It's been a month and nothing, what a shame I was absolutely crazy about this girl.

[Asker]

I get that but did you read it all? He started to booty call me/texted me late and wants me to come over to "cuddle" which makes me wonder if he is even interested at all? If it wasn't for that I would probably dare to text him first.

[Anonymous]

I only read the first few lines, but you should try talking to him first. He probably thought you weren't interested because you never contacted him first and he gave up.

[Asker]

He has booty called me so I don't know though.

[Opinion Owner]

If he liked you he wouldn't booty call you

[sjoes006]

I would guess he was waiting for you to initiate contact. But now that two weeks have gone by who knows, he may have decided to move on when you didn't.

[Asker]

But he has booty called me? Doesn't that mean that he isn't interested in me.

[cookiesandcream]

Booty call maybe he just using you gurl

[sjoes006]

If he was drunk when he booty called you I would say that he was planning on waiting for you to text but lost his restraint once the alcohol entered his system.

If you aren't initiating contact and seeking him out the. It isn't a relationship because you aren't participating. With a little experience as you get older you learn you can't drag someone along in a relationship if they aren't putting in any effort.

[Asker]

No he hasn't been drunk when booty calling me and I haven't put that much effort in it, I haven't realized how big of a problem that is until now that we haven't talked. I just feel very confused, I would like to text him and make this work but the booty call thing pushes me away thinking he does not want anything serious anymore.

[cookiesandcream]

Cut his penis off and keep it as a souvenir :)

[Asker]

Why?

[cookiesandcream]

So you won't be lonely