It’s been 2 weeks since we last spoke?

[Krystal23]

It’s been 2 weeks now since we last spoke. I just miss him so so much :( but I know I shouldn't reach out to him. I don’t know what to do. We just kept on falling out with eachother but I’m missing him so bad

Updates

+1 y

Hey guys, it’s national lockdown here and it’s his driving test tomorow I’m not so sure if it’s going ahead but he only told me the test date do you think I should wish him luck or?

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you miss the good times or the whole package that includes all the fights and bad times?

It's a tough lesson for young people to learn, but it is certainly possible to love someone and NOT be able to have a successful relationship with them. I have had a few relationships in which I loved my partner but knew it would never work and I just needed to break up and walk away.

[Krystal23]

I just miss being able to hold him and cuddle him. :(

[OlderAndWiser]

You've got to remember that he is a package deal. Along with the hugs and cuddling you get all the bad stuff that led to the previous breakups.

[Krystal23]

True say ☹️ Don’t know what to do

[OlderAndWiser]

Breaking up: you may want to die. . . but you won't, so do yourself a favor and deal with it! ↗

[OlderAndWiser]

RESPONSE TO UPDATE: Reach out to him now and you will restart the whole process. You can either continue to move forward or you can move backwards. What do you choose?

[Krystal23]

Tbh only going to wish him luck with his driving test that’s all not for sex or anything I think it will show I still care

[Krystal23]

But I’m still going through my healing process

[OlderAndWiser]

Your obligation now is to take care of yourself without concern for him.

[Krystal23]

Very true! I still have not messaged lol😅 but he’s playing dead he’s not been on WhatsApp for more than a week now because I checked his last seen. I know what he’s like it’s for attention

[Screenwriter]

If you keep fighting, there's no point to going back to each other. What do you miss? THe excitement of fighting? The making up?
Get your priorities and your head straight. It's not normal to enjoy conflict.
Decide and stick with it. Get out and exercise. Hang with a friend.
Start a new hobby. Visit museums, zoos, watch netflix.
Keep yourself busy and if needs be , talk to a counselor.

[Anonymous]

I’m in the same boat and it’s driving me crazy. I feel like I have no control and I feel helpless. I want to move on but my heart is holding me back

[Krystal23]

Girl it’s so hard I know ☹️ Xx trust you intuition

[Opinion Owner]

I have mixed emotions parts of me is like just move on. But then there’s a part that’s like just wait. I’ve tried going on dating sites but I don’t like any of the guys on there

[Krystal23]

Girl I feel you 😂 I did the exact same yesterday and I just deleted it because just wanted him lol

[Opinion Owner]

Same! I deleted mine within an hr lol

[Opinion Owner]

Have you thought about reaching out?

[Krystal23]

So did I 😂 & yes I have but I don’t know if I should x

[RHK36]

It gets easier the longer you hold out. If you have time to keep thinking about it then you aren't keeping yourself busy with healthier distractions.

[Krystal23]

Thank you I really hope so I will message you now

[iamlivleo]

Distract yourself. Keep going strong! You can do this! I can relate to your post sis!

[Krystal23]

It’s so hard isn’t it ☹️ You keep going strong to sis! Hope you’re ok xx

[iamlivleo]

Its soooo hard and I hate feelings this way for someone. I think about then every single day. But I can not message them.

[iamlivleo]

But I'm sure with time we will both move on

[Krystal23]

Yeah I think about him all the time too. He will come back 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[mia999]

Why can’t you reach out?

[Krystal23]

It’s just kind of toxic tbh. Like when I want a serious convo he’s only running away from it

[Iron_Man]

Call him