We have not spoken in 2 months, is it over?

[biggirlsdontcry99]

Hi. I have not talk with with my guy(well was)in two months. Is it over or is there a chance he is thinking about me like I am him? I know he wanted me to "chase him" so he would not leave but I would not do that..Do guys actually like girls that chase or do they want to be the one's that chase?

I do like him so much but I figure, if he can't email me, I'm not emailing him..Any thoughts?

Thanks guys and gals :)

[Anonymous]

Girl I hate to say it but he is not your boyfriend. He broke up with you, you just didn't know it. It's called the disappearing act. It's a really callous and insensitive way of breaking up with someone...just stop all contact and disappear from their lives. He is not trying to get you to chase him, he is most likely off chasing other skirts. He does not truly like you, I'm sorry. It's happened to me before but lemme tell you, 90% of these guys end up coming back eventually. And when they do, they are not genuine then either. This is the move of a player who didn't care about the girl he was with.

[socute22]

You mean he hasn't called or emailed you in two months? Is this a long distance relationship? Have you guys ever met? I need more. I don't know why he hasn't called in so long, it could possibly be over, but there's still hope, he could be busy but I don't know why he would be so busy for so long, my boyfriend has gone like 1 week without contacting me before and my mom told me it was over I'm like wtf nooo

[kuchikoo]

if he hasn't called, it's over. he obviosuly doesn't think about you- sorry. and guys never like it when girls chase them. then they have no respect for that girl.

[bennynthejets]

It was likely over for him after a couple days of non talking. Did you say 2 months? Geez...he could have already had and broken up with another woman or 2 by now. Move on...

[madmisskelly]

forget about him. Its over and because he couldn't even tell you- he's a coward. You don't want to be with a coward.

[pinkhorse]

if he was really into you, by now he would have initiated contact. 2 months is a mighty long time. move on and find yourself a real man.

[Titi18]

wow 2 months and you still have hope... lol