When does ditzy go from cute/sexy to annoying & thinking she's stupid?

[peace-love-couture]

When a girl is acting ditsy or playing dumb with you/around you, when does it go from being cute or sexy or annoying and "boy, she's dumb"?

What if she's your girlfriend, when does it go from being cute/sexy/hot/attractive to being annoying and wanting to tell her to shut up?

[torken]

My GF... I don't think plays dumb. That is, I don't think she PLAYS dumb.

Shes a feminist, so its nice because that's one area where I have dominance, but at the same time it sucks because we have communication issues often because she doesn't get me or what I try to say.

I've come to appreciate a smart girl, and to think that one would play dumb... well its just depressing.

Now, there's a difference between playing dumb, and not constantly pointing out the other persons mistakes, flaws, or inferiority. Its not showing off how smart you are when you constantly make others around you feel dumb.

[peace-love-couture]

My question wasn't about that, it's about when does it become annoying or unattractive

[torken]

My answer: It always is.

[peace-love-couture]

well, not to other guys

[torken]

The only way it would be attractive is its a signal that I could trick her into sex. Its never actually attractive, it just makes the girl look easy.

[peace-love-couture]

nah, speak for yourself

[Brando]

I will have to admit, my lady interest is pretty clumsy and with a lot of other people, this annoys me a little for some reason. But for some reason, with her it's cute and I can laugh at it.

However, once people start consistently saying or doing stupid things, think that being stupid/ditsy is funny, or just plain pretend to be dumb- that is when I can't be around the person because they're just annoying.

[armyguy176]

after the first day, or when all of a sudden she disagrees with you and wants to be smart and prove you wrong.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

When she's like this 24/7.