+1 y"Nerdy" is a bit confusing to me along with "nerd" these days. When I was young, the term "nerd" had a strong connotation that the person is very dysfunctional in a social setting. They might have horrible hygiene or behave in obnoxious ways, for example. They weren't just people who studied hard and were experts in mathematics and science; they were socially dysfunctional people.
So if we're talking about this type of nerd in the sense of being socially dysfunctional, then I find it very unappealing. If we're just talking about someone who excels in math and science and chess or enjoys Star Trek or whatever, I don't find that unappealing at all.12 Reply- +1 y
Here the context of nerd is one who is into academics and maybe bookworm.
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I think that on its own is not bad at all if she can navigate socially at least a little bit.
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+1 yYes for me
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Why?
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I feel like I won't be able connect with her properly
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How is it that?
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See now in my experience the people I have met are not that compatible to me
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Okay I get that.
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May be I will find the interesting one who will change my opinion
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Compatibility is a big factor I can understand that
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Yaa that's y otherwise if everything seems fine than there is no worries
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Thank you
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depends on her actual nerdy interests, if she still takes care of herself, if she still has a high enough sex drive, if she is affectionate and not disconnected all the time, and if we're socially compatible.
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+1 yNo. Actually I dated 3 nerdy girls, not so much with taped glasses, but just gals who thought more of being a good student and then having some fun, rather than just having fun and forgetting about the student part.
21 Reply No there cool if not cooler 😂 my experience was shocking!! The freak or leak is in there some where if u patient with them u could get a night your never forget but I'm only one person maybe I got lucky who really knows 😂👍🏽!!
10 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nerdy in what way?
If she is into board games, table top RPGs, MTG, etc. that would be very appealing.10 ReplySome people look nerdy but have no clue about important things in life. That would definitely be a turn off.
20 ReplyA nerdy girl could be quite interesting when you get to know her. mostly they are introvert hanging out more with them will introduce u to a new person.
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+1 yNah, I like a smart girl because we will have more to talk about
10 Reply 5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Mostly yes. The vice versa is also true, at least to a great extent.
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+1 yI am mostly attracted to nerd women. So for me it is a turn-on and not a turn off.
10 Reply Absolutely not, nerdy girls are just socially awkward. Once the right person shows that nerdiness is not a bad thing... because nerdy girls, in most cases is just as sexy as all the rest.
10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. My best female friend is one, and the only "turn off" is that she hardly ever socializes. But she has a boyfriend, even if he is kind of a nerd himself.
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+1 yNo, her being a nerd is required for me to be interested.
10 Reply I always like nerdy girls. Lol. They are a turn on to me. Not sure why. I’ve dated and really liked some total nerds. Lol.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIf she act like a

typical assholes yes
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+1 ydepends how nerdy, if she’s super awkward and bad at sex then ya but if she's nerdy just cuz she’s smart or likes science i don’t care 😂
10 Reply455 opinions shared on Dating topic. Not really, but it depends on the guy and just how nerdy she is.
10 ReplyNot at all I love to bang nerdy girls with specs on🤤🥵
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+1 yNerdy girls are shy at times which is sexy and a turn on.
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+1 yQuite the opposite actually. I've been looking for nerdy girls for a loooong time.
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+1 yNope. Bookworms give the best head. And they always wear the sexiest panties!
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+1 ywhat did you want to say
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Do you find nerdy girls attractive?
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You are not ugly, you are normal to me.
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Lol.. thank you 😆
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I think glasses suit you.
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Thank you so much. Most of them like no.
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love yourself, never believe those who say you are ugly.
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Ahh... thank you. You're so sweet
+1 yEww getaway dork@! qQQQQ!!!
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+1 yNot at all. I was one once.
10 Reply16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Completely the opposite- it’s a turning!
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAre you a poll from Poleland?
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Lol no
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+1 yNo they are a huge turn on and plus
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+1 yNope. It’s make wonder more about her.
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@Starwitch23 you know, if she is a virgin, what kind of panties she wears, does she masturbate, if she is good at fucking.
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You should have stopped while you were ahead. >_>;
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+1 yQuite the opposite. ;)
10 Reply I would love to date one
20 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. No as long as she's not a shut in
20 ReplyNope. I'm a nerd myself.
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+1 yQuite the opposite in my opinion
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+1 yno its not a turn off
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. nerdy girls are no turn off, I like nerdy... ;)
20 Reply15K opinions shared on Dating topic. For some people it is, for others it's not
20 Reply378 opinions shared on Dating topic. No not at all.
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+1 yOh hell no. In some ways even sexier
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+1 yDefinitely not. I like all girls
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+1 ythats all I will date
10 ReplyNot at all! I think smart girls are attractive!
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+1 yNo they aren't. In fact they are the best!
10 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Turn on!
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+1 yTo guys who don't like them, yeah, sure
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNo, nerdy girls are fucking HOT!!!
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+1 yIt depends who is the girl
10 ReplyIt's a turn on for me.
10 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. 100% turn on for me
10 ReplyLike a pole dancer, lol
10 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. No they are fun
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+1 yFor me it's a plus.
10 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think so.
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+1 yNot at all.
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How come, did nerds change since we were nerds 🤓 😜?
https://youtu.be/VF6h9UW8nRc
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+1 yNope
10 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all!
10 ReplyNot at all
10 ReplyNope
10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope.
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+1 yNope there sexy asf
20 Reply Not at all
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+1 yNo not at all
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