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Polls: Relationships

Have you ever had a Valentine?

I can't recall that I ever had one. Even when I had a boyfriend, we never celebrated the exact day together. We did go out the week before Valentine's Day though. So I guess he sort of was. We saw the movie Argylle for...
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I can't recall that I ever had one. Even when I had a boyfriend, we never celebrated the exact day together. We did go out the week before Valentine's Day though. So I guess he sort of Show More
Yes many times
Yes once
No never
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Try to answer as truthfully as you can. Show More
Blissful, but I fear it won’t last.
Safe, warm, and grounded.
Overwhelmed—it feels both exciting and scary.
A little smothered. I start craving space.
Other (share how you feel)
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Should my boyfriend surprise/ plan Valentine’s Day?

So my partner didn’t realize that it was Valentine’s Day this week and we were talking about plans and he didn’t really have an idea of what to do. So we’re both brainstorming ideas what to do but apart of me wants him to...
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So my partner didn’t realize that it was Valentine’s Day this week and we were talking about plans and he didn’t really have an idea of what to do. So we’re both brainstorming ideas Show More
Yes he should
No he doesn’t have to, both of you should plan it
Other
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When someone you are in a relationship pulls away emotionally, how do you respond?

Lets say you are in a serious committed relationship and your partner has pulled away emotionally. you are unsure if it has anything to do with you or not but you still feel the distance. how do you respond to this? or if...
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Lets say you are in a serious committed relationship and your partner has pulled away emotionally. you are unsure if it has anything to do with you or not but you still feel the Show More
I panic and try to reconnect ASAP.
I feel concerned, but trust they’ll return.
I feel torn—desperate for closeness but scared of rejection.
I disconnect emotionally and go inward.
Other (how do you respond?)
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Would you rather have a peaceful relationship… or a passionate one?

Some people just want calm, drama-free love… others want passion and sparks. Ideally both … but if you had to pick one, which would it be? Inspired by @HawkPerception who never lets us pick both lol
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Some people just want calm, drama-free love… others want passion and sparks. Ideally both … but if you had to pick one, which would it be? Inspired by @HawkPerception who never lets us Show More
Peaceful 🕊️
Passionate 🔥
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Yeah, a number of times
Yeah, a few times
Nah
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Yeah
Sometimes depending on what it is I think it will ruffle some feathers
I don't trust anyone, that's the point of me not telling anyone
Nah, I figure I gotta say something at some point
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Hell yes! We love a status icons!
No not important to me to have a well dressed partner
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Do you like getting candy or flowers, or something else for Valentines?

Valentines is coming up. What do you like to receive if anything?
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Valentines is coming up. What do you like to receive if anything? Show More
Chocolate
Flowers
Nothing
Something Else- Explain
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Do you prefer being the one to move into your partners place or they move in with you?

Who moves in, the guy or the girl? ^ This question inspired this one. lets say you are in a relationship and finally considering moving in together. what do you prefer of the two: you moving in with your partner? or your...
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Who moves in, the guy or the girl? ^ This question inspired this one. lets say you are in a relationship and finally considering moving in together. what do you prefer of the two: you Show More
I prefer moving in with my partner
I prefer my partner moving in with me
I prefer we try to move into a new place together
I don't really have a preference and its more so whatever is easier to do
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Do You Like To Send Valentines Cards?

I like Valentines Day even though I'm not in a relationship, and I like to send a card to my chosen Valentine. Do you like Valentines Day, and do you send cards to your chosen Valentine, or perhaps you don't have one...
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I like Valentines Day even though I'm not in a relationship, and I like to send a card to my chosen Valentine. Do you like Valentines Day, and do you send cards to your chosen Show More
A. I send a Valentines Card to my loved one, or to someone I want to be my Valentine.
B. Perhaps I might send a card to my chosen Valentine.
C. I'm not interested in Valentines Day.
D. Something else.
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What tart would you eat?

The British love a tart, and they can be picked up anywhere or are easy to bake and who doesn't love filling a strawberry tart with cream in the kitchen. Some are good, some are, well let's just say divide opinion. So...
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The British love a tart, and they can be picked up anywhere or are easy to bake and who doesn't love filling a strawberry tart with cream in the kitchen. Some are good, some are, Show More
Bakewell tart: Frangipan (almond) and raspberry jam topped with icing.
Custard tart: Firm cold custard
Treacle Tart. Golden syrup and breadcrumbs
Amber pudding/marmalade tart: Marmalade flavoured custard
Ecclefechan tart: Dried fruit and brown sugar
Manchester tart: Raspberry jam, custard, and coconut
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Yes
No
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Bad sex, good understanding, love
Good sex, bad or poor understanding, infatuation or love
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Yes because she / he cheated on me and so we broke up
No I left her after she / he cheated on me and so we broke up
Well yes and I forgave him/ her
Well after I found him / her cheat on me, we decided to be in an open relationship
Yes and then we started to do threesomes etc
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Why do you remain faithful to your partner?

This question assumes that you are or have been either married or in a long term relationship in which you both expected your partner to be faithful. I believe that most people respect their promises and remain faithful...
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This question assumes that you are or have been either married or in a long term relationship in which you both expected your partner to be faithful. I believe that most people respect Show More
I have never been married or in a monogamous, long term relationship
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have cheated on a partner
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have never cheated because I never had the opportunity
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have never cheated because I want to maintain my self-respect
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have never cheated because I am too afraid of losing my partner if my cheating was discovered
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have never cheated because I wouldn't want them to retaliate by cheating on me
I am/have been married or am/have been in a monogamous, long term relationship and I have never cheated because of religious vows
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Man
Woman
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If once a cheater always a cheater applies (in general with few exceptions), is it the same for abusers and bullies?

Logically if cheating in a relationship or marriage is already a character flaw, does it apply the same towards abusers and bullies. Since abusing and/or bullying your partner or others is also a character flaw, would the...
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Logically if cheating in a relationship or marriage is already a character flaw, does it apply the same towards abusers and bullies. Since abusing and/or bullying your partner or Show More
Yes, once an abuser or bully, always an abuser or bully... same concept
No, it's different
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Is "I dont feel the spark any more" a good excuse to cheat?

No. Never. Cheaters aren't human. They exist without empathy without a soul. And they are narcissists, they aren't capable of loving anyone but them selves. As a rule, they will use any excuse to justify cheating, When...
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No. Never. Cheaters aren't human. They exist without empathy without a soul. And they are narcissists, they aren't capable of loving anyone but them selves. As a rule, they will use Show More
Yes its a good excuse
there is no such thing as a good excuse for cheating
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