While in your current relationship or marriage, have you had feelings of wanting to sleep with someone else at any point?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not

Won't lie once when we were going through conflict

On the occasion but I can keep it together

I have cheated in this current relationship 🤫

Yes when I meet someone super hot

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode all the messy, fun, confusing parts of love and attraction for you 🔥

Yes, it happens. Being in a relationship doesn’t switch off your ability to feel attraction. I’ve been happily married and still thought “damn, they’re hot.” The red flag isn’t the thought, it’s what you do with it. Respect is choosing boundaries, not pretending temptation doesn’t exist.

[OlderAndWiser]

I cannot speak for women, but I think most men in a committed relationship have moments when they are attracted to another female. The test of his commitment is not whether he faces temptation but how he responds to it.

I have been married for two years. In my 55 years of dating, relationships, and marriage, I have never once been unfaithful to a partner.

[Anonymous]

If I am with someone, I am 1000% loyal to her and ONLY her!! However, as has been a nearly lifelong habit with me, because I've almost NEVER had a steady love interest (so far, just one and she ended up cheating on ME!!), when I see a pretty girl, I'll most likely say to myself that I'd like to fuck her BUT!!! And this is a BIG HUGE but, I have ABSOLUTELY NO intention of TRYING to fuck her and I don't even picture myself fucking her!! It's basically just a backhanded and maybe crude way of saying that I think she's really pretty and/or sexy. I tend to see it as just admiring a "great work of art". Like, going into a museum and seeing the sculpture of Venus De Milo. She's got a nice set of tits and I'd admire her pretty tits but, even if she was a real girl standing in front of me completely naked, begging me to fuck her, sorry! No! I'm with this wonderful woman right here beside me and she's ALL I need!!! And, I am NOT gonna risk losing her!!! Even if she wasn't at my side, I'd STILL say no, as long as I'm committed to someone I'm in love with!!
There's BILLIONS of really pretty girls out there!!! I don't know who keeps printing them but they're ALL OVER the place!! What are the chances ANY guy is gonna fuck even 0.001% of them even if he WAS single and fully INTENDED TO TRY? He'd get through 10 or 15 of them and his balls would be crying, "Don't make me cum no more!!" If he tried, nothing but dust would come out!!

[Lliam]

I met my future wife when I was 40. She was 37. We've been happily married now for almost 30 years and I never considered cheating. My wife and I are devoted to each other.

I watch porn on occasion, but I don't consider that cheating.

[MrChinaski]

There is a huge difference between desiring to sleep with someone and sleeping with someone. Healthy people have desires.

I could write pages more.

[Nikki1989]

I have a husband that I love and a girlfriend that I love. I couldn't possibly want anymore.

[exitseven]

it happened a couple of times when I first got married. I would never do it but I did wonder what it would be like.

[TonyMetal___86]

When i was married, i never thought about anyone else other than my wife!

[AndreaGags]

I have and I cheated several times for sex. Never got caught

[MissSunshine2]

No, but I'm currently single.

[jahaims]

No, I'm emotionally healthy

[NathanDavis]

I never did