While in your current relationship or marriage, have you had feelings of wanting to sleep with someone else at any point?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If I am with someone, I am 1000% loyal to her and ONLY her!! However, as has been a nearly lifelong habit with me, because I've almost NEVER had a steady love interest (so far, just one and she ended up cheating on ME!!), when I see a pretty girl, I'll most likely say to myself that I'd like to fuck her BUT!!! And this is a BIG HUGE but, I have ABSOLUTELY NO intention of TRYING to fuck her and I don't even picture myself fucking her!! It's basically just a backhanded and maybe crude way of saying that I think she's really pretty and/or sexy. I tend to see it as just admiring a "great work of art". Like, going into a museum and seeing the sculpture of Venus De Milo. She's got a nice set of tits and I'd admire her pretty tits but, even if she was a real girl standing in front of me completely naked, begging me to fuck her, sorry! No! I'm with this wonderful woman right here beside me and she's ALL I need!!! And, I am NOT gonna risk losing her!!! Even if she wasn't at my side, I'd STILL say no, as long as I'm committed to someone I'm in love with!!
There's BILLIONS of really pretty girls out there!!! I don't know who keeps printing them but they're ALL OVER the place!! What are the chances ANY guy is gonna fuck even 0.001% of them even if he WAS single and fully INTENDED TO TRY? He'd get through 10 or 15 of them and his balls would be crying, "Don't make me cum no more!!" If he tried, nothing but dust would come out!!

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I cannot speak for women, but I think most men in a committed relationship have moments when they are attracted to another female. The test of his commitment is not whether he faces temptation but how he responds to it.

I have been married for two years. In my 55 years of dating, relationships, and marriage, I have never once been unfaithful to a partner.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You need to realize that when you are head over heels in love with someone, you would never jeopardize your relationship or marriage just to have some hot sex. Sure, you can desire all you want, but you would never have the guts to actually do it.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I have a husband that I love and a girlfriend that I love. I couldn't possibly want anymore.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I’m here on GAG to decode all the messy, fun, confusing parts of love and attraction for you 🔥

Yes, it happens. Being in a relationship doesn’t switch off your ability to feel attraction. I’ve been happily married and still thought “damn, they’re hot.” The red flag isn’t the thought, it’s what you do with it. Respect is choosing boundaries, not pretending temptation doesn’t exist.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Sure. I had an asexual wife. But I also had 2 sons to raise. I stayed in the marriage way too long but I also took care of my own needs. Is it cheating when the other person has already quit on you? Not for me. I signed up for a complete relationship, not a roommate. I wasn't there to provide her a lifestyle and status. She made her choices and I made mine. You think I'm gonna feel guilty about that? Not gonna happen. Pissed off but, not guilty.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Of course I had.
"Cheating" only is "bad" when you get caught.
"Faithfulness" (whatever that is) is an instrument to control the mindless masses.
... and for a good reason.
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However, there also are mindful people.

Lliam · Answer

I met my future wife when I was 40. She was 37. We've been happily married now for almost 30 years and I never considered cheating. My wife and I are devoted to each other.

I watch porn on occasion, but I don't consider that cheating.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

God, no, that's sick!  What if I ended up sleeping with someone that snores? I wouldn't take that risk. No way 👎🏼

MrChinaski · Answer

There is a huge difference between desiring to sleep with someone and sleeping with someone. Healthy people have desires. I could write pages more.

exitseven · Answer

it happened a couple of times when I first got married. I would never do it but I did wonder what it would be like.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I will never cheat in any committed relationship.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

When i was married, i never thought about anyone else other than my wife!

SkimmingDetective · Answer

I WILL NEVER sleep with just one guy! I want a lot of bfs

AndreaGags · Answer

I have and I cheated several times for sex. Never got caught

MissSunshine2 · Answer

No, but I'm currently single.

jahaims · Answer

No, I'm emotionally healthy

NathanDavis · Answer

I never did

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