Would you stay happy in a relationship with sex only once a month?

[Anonymous]

If you were in a relationship, and you only had sex once a month would you be happy in that relationship

That's Perfect

It's Not Ideal, But That's Fine

That's Way To Little

Once A Month Is Too Much

[Dargil]

In a world of work, responsibilities and growing children it's hard to find time. One approach is to plan sessions. Unhurried sessions require privacy and time. One way is a lunch session. Plan one or more so you can have a long lunch. Once a week can be arranged. Less often is easy. We agreed that we would set aside sessions for PIV and others for non PIV sexual intimacy, since time was limited. There are also opportunities for Sunday morning sexual Olympics. I didn't answer your question yet.

I would be satisfied with one session per week of either intercourse or mutual oral.

[HawkPerception]

Way too little. I'm a believer in that you can always get yourself in the mood and you should WANT to if you love and are attracted to your partner. A little foreplay goes a long way.

I don't understand why women respond to that by saying it's rape to have sex when the girl doesn't want it. I'm not saying to do it when the girl doesn't want it. I'm saying you can always get yourself in the mood if you actually try.

Weaponizing sex in a relationship is a huge red flag.

[Calyptomaniac]

Almost certainly not is the short answer but what is the actual reason for only once a month? Whatever it is probably points to some underlying problems that need to be fixed...

[Apple1996]

Thats too little. At the very least like once a week

[Finchie40]

No , that’s too little for me , I like girls’ that like it way more than that

[LonelyHsoul]

Would you show affection in other ways to show him you still want him and desire him.

What about oral sex or letting him feel and desire you even if there's no sex.

If no to all then he will feel you've gone off him and just doing sex once a month just for the sake of it.

[Nikki1989]

Nah. Once a week, maybe, but even that is really not enough.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Whore

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In my very broad definition of what sex is, then yes.

I would stay happy because I have been happy doing that before

[Levin]

The pussy is getting eaten everyday.

Seems not enough, but maybe all relationships go platonic eventually?

[sawno]

No, if we are going to be sexually exclusive i'd expect my sexual needs to be met. Otherwise I don't see the point in being more than friends.

[queenofcardio]

That's so little but I'd try to be understanding depending on situation

[Anonymous]

I’d prefer a couple times a week, but I could live with that

[Bad2daBone22]

U prefer a couple times a week but u could live with just once a month, how does that work out?

[Opinion Owner]

@Bad2daBone22 I wouldn’t break up with the person if they only wanted it once a month. If figure some people just have lower sex drives.

[Opinion Owner]

* I’d

[Bad2daBone22]

Ahh I see and yeah I agree but I think it’s hard to find a guy with a low sex drive lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Bad2daBone22 that’s why I think this question is pretty much a hypothetical lol. I’ve never been with a guy who wanted to mess around less often than I did.

[Bad2daBone22]

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[Opinion Owner]

@Bad2daBone22 I already do!

[Bad2daBone22]

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[Opinion Owner]

@Bad2daBone22 can’t. Signing off soon. Night!

[Bad2daBone22]

Another day?

[Opinion Owner]

@Bad2daBone22 maybe 😜. Night!

[Bad2daBone22]

Ok well u message me then lol
Goodnight

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Redeemable

[Wodens_Apprentice]

That's because good to me because then you're more likely to actually appreciate & enjoy it. It's more romantic with restraint, because sometimes less is more.

[Mike_Hum]

Men need to ejaculate 21 times or more a month to help prevent prostate cancer. Sex is good for women’s emotional well being and helps reduce chances of depression.

[Likes2drive]

Definitely not, the only reason that would happen is if you had kids but other than that, it should be about 2 to 3 times a week unless somebody is really ill

[alina_521]

Actually it's not enough at least twice a week.

[FunkyMonkee]

In my last one, I was mostly happy even though we had no sex for the last 5 or 6 years of it!!

[genericname85]

i mean it could be better but it's still better than being single with no sex at all xD

[TonyMetal___86]

I can be happy without having any before marriage!
You missed the option where it says that some men accepts a relationship without sex!

[KostasKouvalis]

I voted B. There are other ways to be happy in a relationship and to get off bisides sex.

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t need sex, but if I find out she’s cheating? She’s no longer going to be my girlfriend

[mrkdvsn]

Once a month is far more often than what I've been getting for many many years. An average of once a month would actually be kinda exciting.

[Anonymous]

I'd want more, but I could live with that. I'd also want to know why though.

[smashleyy]

no. physical intimacy is important to me

[MasterKS]

@smashleyy logical.

[smashleyy]

your mom

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Nope as she spent her life loving & protecting her children. She didn't introduce any new "dads" for us & remained single bringing us up and still is.
My mum is the least whore woman I've ever met actually.

[smashleyy]

Taking a quick look through your opinions and yeah being raised by a single mother checks out. It’s always the men that lacked a father figure that always have the worse misogynistic views on women. She did you a disservice not spreading her legs. Maybe you wouldn’t be such a prick

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@smashleyy She let him see me 3 times a week so I'd say I had a father figure. It's not all women it's just... Seemingly all modern women.
Where's the Princesses?

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@smashleyy Though it probably would've helped to get some more advice from him but he died as soon as I became an adult.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Also if women are having sex every week, doesn't sound healthy if she's constantly dealing with sex and pregnancy at the same time.
Contraception should be banned and not even for religious reasons. I'm a pagan so I believe in classic virtue, which means to be warlike/manly. Constantly having sex isn't actually manly, it's giving into your emotions, letting women control you and I think too much can reduce your testosterone (that might only apply to masturbation, not sure).
STD's, inceldom, unsatisfied cat ladies, the fact 2 people need to work to provide an income, the declining birth rate,
it would all be fixed if we just banned contraception. Men & women would have no choice but to get along then.

[Anonymous]

Every month!! What i look like? The energizer bunny.😆

[Anonymous]

I’m already living that and it kills me every day. I can’t get out so don’t ask, long story. 😏😬

[Opinion Owner]

What about you?

[sawno]

How'd you get in that situation?

[ushagomez]

It wouldn’t work for me.

[PeachyPie93]

Nah.. that's too less..

[Alex-Snow]

I would way sex way more than that

[AgentG111]

That's better than none.

[lilBigPotato]

Not really.

[Bad2daBone22]

@lilBigPotato so you’d want more too right?

[lilBigPotato]

@Bad2daBone22 yep.

[Bad2daBone22]

Good 😊 lol

[Anonymous]

I never had sex at all, so yes I would.

[MasterKS]

That's the worse if its once a month.

[Anonymous]

Once a day
Or every second day minimum

[jahaims]

Nope