Polls: Relationships

I've also found myself struggling to reconcile his assurances that I am the best thing and that he's never cheated with certain behaviors that have given me cause for concern. The recent discovery of a text where he communicated with an escort has left me feeling deeply unsettled and uncertain about the foundation of trust in our relationship.

I value the honesty and transparency that are essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. His statement that he loves me contrasts with the conflicting signals I've encountered, and it has left me feeling conflicted and unsure about the future of our relationship.

I believe that addressing these concerns openly and honestly can help us gain clarity and determine the best path forward. I care deeply about our relationship and want to work through any challenges together, provided that we can establish mutual trust and understanding. It's important to me that we can have an open and genuine conversation about these matters.

we talked about having a kid together - with his involvement or not

He recently deleted his call logs which he hasn’t done before. In the past he would delete messages with this girl and the only reason I saw the one is because she messaged him back while he was with me and he was driving so he didn’t have the chance to delete it. He has her blocked on everything but I find it suspicious he is deleting his calls and texts unless he has something to hide.

What do y'all think are the best things about having a bestfriend that's the opposite of your gender? like the pros and cons (specifically).
If you don't have one, do you think you'll want one? why
(pls be honest and answer)

I’ve been living with my fiancé and his grandma for about 7 months now. Lately she has been getting even sicker (she’s on oxygen 24/7) so that also contributes to her having some breathing issues as well. It’s been a few days since she’s been back home from the hospital since her last visit not too long ago. Everything has been turned upside down!

No drama but everything is about her. I work full time M-F get home at 6pm so majority of my time is there since he doesn’t work but get $ monthly. She was already dependent on him but now it’s worse! He has to feed her, and walk her to the bathroom, clean up after her and clean the house all the time.

NYE was the first time in days we’ve spent more than 1 hr together.. IN THE SAME DAMN HOUSE!!! I’ve been asking him for months for dates, more than 2hrs of quality time, to get away from the house since his grandma is home ALLL the time!! We have no privacy and no peace and quiet at all cause he’s always chasing after her. Anytime we leave the house together it’s pretty much for her benefit not for a good time.

I don’t want to sound selfish but I’ve been helping him before her health declined but it makes me not want to help since there hasn’t been any balance in our relationship. It’s all about her and did I forget to add we’ve only slept in the same bed 5 times the whole 7 months I’ve been here.
I explain to him I want things to change that I want to go out and do things but I get an okay and nothing changes.

We had plans to spend the night at a hotel for NYE but had to cancel cause she need him on the hour by the hour 🙄. Our sex is always good but I’m checked out because if you can find time to have sex with me you can set aside more than an hour of your time!

We had a pregnancy scare but I’m thankful I’m not pregnant because I’d honestly leave this house. Myself nor my baby will sit there and be on the back burner. Not for no no one!!

!!! please no judgement!!

This question is only for people who DONT consider themselves overweight

I see why women tell each other all the time to not date a broke/poor man now. My last 2 exes were broke and they were miserable. They ruined it for me, I will never date a broke man again. I would ask why they are so much more miserable than broke/poor women but I feel like I know the answer to that.

Example the mom asks her girlfriend what she can do to make her happy.

She does everything and her girlfriend responds with she is not happy cause she would not have to tell her about it for the mom do it.

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Bought a house together 2 years ago, no promise or engagement ring and been together for almost 6 years. Still paying him back for slice of pizza, nail clippings from vet for a pet we got together, and gas money for driving me to work when my car was in the shop, plus gifting him some money just cause