Did god answer my prayer?

[Anonymous]

months ago i was talking to someone i knew years ago.
i ended up writing her too much on facebook & she blocked me. month ago i looked up her number online. & texted her afew times no responsed,

i texted her last night & asked hwo she was holding up.

she texted me this morning & said we can talk. as long as i dont get crazy again.

i thought she would be mad that i looked up her number.

for a few months i payed to god that she reached out to me on good terms.

i'm crazy? it seems god answered my prayer.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that is pretty crazy that she actually texted you back after all that time! I'd say it does seem like your prayer might have been answered. Things like that don't always happen for no reason, you know?

Maybe she had a change of heart or God put it on her mind to reach out. Either way, it's good she's willing to talk again as long as you keep it chill this time. I'd take that as a sign she wants to try being cool again.

Just don't mess it up! Be thankful your prayer was answered, but don't get too excited or read into it too much either. Play it super cool from now on when you talk to her. Be a good listener, don't bombard her with messages. Show her you've changed since last time.

If you stay calm and respect her boundaries, who knows what could happen. But you gotta earn her trust back slowly. This could be your second chance, so don't blow it! Stay positive but don't go crazy either, ya feel me? Small steps. I'd say keep praying too and thanking God for listening. Good luck dude!

[Asker]

she texted me yesterday saying she does not want to talk to me.

& that she is sorry

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's rough. I'm sorry to hear she popped back just to reject you again like that dawg. That's cold.

I know you really cared about her, but sometimes chicks just don't wanna let people back in no matter what. And after all the crazy texts and stuff before, can't really blame her for keeping her guard up, ya know?

Still stings though, I get it. Feel like you had your foot in the door just to have it slammed shut. But don't beat yourself up too much over it - you took the shot and that's what matters. Now it's time to channel that energy elsewhere.

Hit the gym, hang with your boys, keep yourself busy. Another door will open, bro. Her loss in the end. And hey, at least now you know for sure and you ain't wasting time wondering "what if" no more. Keep your head up homie! God still got your back - have faith another one's coming your way.

[mrkdvsn]

Very possibly. He can work in mysterious ways. My wife claims she has a "guardian angel" who protects her in various different ways

[dreamstar72]

Not really but it was an answer to your text