Search Results: how to be attractive attractiveness

Im not talking about settings where a short bald and overweight 50 year old stranger directly hits on an attractive 19 year old. That a no brainer on creepiness.

Im talking about being less polite to people in non romantic settings like waiting in line for coffee or getting a conversation on a subway (around lots of people). A 50 year old stranger should be able to have an innocent conversation with a 19 year old (maybe talks about his kids going to college) or something. Just as long he’s not saying or doing stupid then he’s not doing anything wrong. But if a person is unattractive (age, weight, looks, etc.) we tend to judge them more harshly.

I’m guilty of doing this myself. But I try to check myself. That person could turn out to be a genuine good friend. I think as society gets more sensitive to people with differences this would be a good thing to improve upon. That doesn’t mean being naive to strangers of course. But it means checking that unpleasant thought you have of that person and seriously asking if that’s fair and even reality?

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Attractiveness: extremely sexually/physically attractive and very sexually 'capable', gorgeous face and hot body, imagine what your peak attractive looks like: everything about him turns you on and makes your heart flutter and he's more than willing to do something about that (everything else is below or at average)

Money: has an extremely high paying job or comes from wealth; money will never be a problem and he and you will live luxuriously (everything else is at or below average, also you're not a goldigger if you pick this by the way, everyone acknowledges the need for financial security)

Personality: usually said as a joke, "a guy has a 'good personality' but not much else". But imagine if he's the most confident, charismatic, sweetest, well-liked guy all combined together, everybody loves hanging out with him, everybody looks forward to when he arrives, can make you laugh whenever he wants, but can also melt your heart with his words and genuineness (everything else, however, is completely average)