Do men ever sit and think to realize that being hot is bad?

[Anonymous]

Like being hot as a woman sucks in a way. Because you become a walking billboard but not advertising your personality or morals or character even if you have those things in abundance... Instead its all overpowered by your attractiveness. You are a sign that says to guys "sexy. Get hard penis now."

And no i dont dress revealingly. So dont blame it on me. I wear normal basic clothes. But i was just born attractive so it looks good on me. Anyway i do actually get tired at times of being a walking "billboard for erections"... It gets tiring being seen and subtly or overtly treated that way. Just FYI.

[MotorcycleMan]

I used to joke about it being "my burden" but it can be in a way.
Hot women are always going to be hit on and are always going to have men wanting to be with them and wanting to be around them and willing to do almost anything to be with them. This often leads to them being shallow, not developing much of a personality (they don't have to) and not treating others quite fairly or just expecting more than might be normal or fair. They will always be hit on anyway by shallow men who don't care about anything but looks and may tend to view all men as being that way. More experienced men may recognize that personality type immediately and proceed with a lot more caution, making it more difficult to find a quality guy.

[ohshee]

I think that you are 100% right. So what's the positive message out of it. What I see is it all the guys that do that to you don't be the one guy that stands out and it won't do that to you and that's the guy that you will want because he knows how to treat a beautiful woman he also sees a woman from the inside this is there a beautiful heart or Confidence from the inside and understands that the outside is just an extra bonus and inside that counts that's the positive that I would get out of it

[Anonymous]

I'm considered hot to a certain type of guy (ones with yellow fever). I tend to be always cold so I layer my clothes like crazy but I still get hit on (by that type of guy).

[BluishGaze]

Yeah, we do.
Well... I do.

This is why when people throw out terms like "pretty privilege," or ANY other type of "privilege," it doesn't really mean all that much to me. There's a disadvantage to everything.

[Ksiw3fiss]

I Like yor name. And yeah i think that term is just a millenial/gen z/Tumblr type invention.

[BluishGaze]

@Ksiw3fiss
Bless you. (ꈍ◡ꈍ)

[FilmGuy93]

I don't need to think about it; I've seen it for myself. Being an attractive woman (and an attractive person in general) is hugely inconvenient

[888theGreat]

I want to see what you look like. I hope My penis doesn't fly off because of your awesomeness

[Shy_Steve]

I can certainly understand that it's bad definitely because I know what a lot of Guys are like but it's better than being ignored by the opposite sex because your too Shy.

[Anonymous]

Wear guy clothes,
Wear a ball cap and don't wash ur hair.
Just for fun, just to see... for a few days.

[Asker]

I dd when i was a wannabe dike. Men still loved me

[Opinion Owner]

Are you Jessica Biehl?

[Asker]

Did i forget tp mention that in Op?

[Opinion Owner]

I just remember in an interview she said something similar to that, how being beautiful was so hard.
Everyone's got their burden to bare, and if we're dealing with something else then there's not a lot of empathy or understanding.

[ChiPaPa]

Nope. Wish i were desired by women. Instead, I'm rejected and ignored.

[Postman38]

Hopefully they don't. I don't think that. I feel like putting too much weight on what someone looks like may be a bad precedent in most situations.

[anylolone]

Have you tried having those traits?

[nawtee_me]

self centered... or maybe troll...

[Wise4myage]

Nope, not ever, lol.

[Asker]

Good men probably do.